Sex with muscular guys always better?

This is a question for all my girls who have or have had a muscular boyfriend.

I'm currently dating a guy who used to be scrawny back when we started dating. But ever since he went to college and joined the football team, damn he got ripped. Like seriously ripped, with a chiseled chest and solid 8 pack abs. Not even kidding!

I used to be one of those girls who thought sex was only for marriage (I'm not Christian, but was brought up with rather conservative values) But the day I discovered my boyfriend was hiding those muscles beneath his shirts, that was the day I lost my virginity.

When we get intimate, I like to run my hands over his muscular arms, chest and 8 pack. I've even kissed and licked his chest and abs and it's just so hot! Such foreplay helps me get wetter, which is essential because my vagina is rather small and tight compared to my bf's dick which is 8 inches "even though he's Asian" (his own quote, not mine)

It's incredibly erotic when in missionary position or when I'm on top, I see his muscles (especially his 8pack) flex and contract and I love to feel his muscles up when he's pumping all the way into me. It's a very sexy sight to behold.

We've had an active sex life ever since I came over to the same college as him (feel kinda bad for his suite mate though.. He probably hears us all the time..)

But he's the only guy I've ever had sex with, so I can't compare to other guys who're not exactly in shape. So my question is - how does sex with muscular guys and out of shape guys compare to you - both visually and sensually? Does seeing and feeling muscles during sex help you get wetter and hornier too?

And for the guys who're muscular, what's your experience with girls? Do they go crazy once they discover that you've muscles? Or were they just.. meh.. Haha.
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Any girls wish to share their experience? I realize most of my respondents are guys. Not a bad thing, but it'd be good if any girl has some experience with muscular guys they'd like to share!
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  • Muscles can surely add to women's interest. Not that having a muscular body constitutes the end and and all be in a relationship, but it works in order to spice up a relationship that's already good and that is based on a solid foundation. When I first started my fitness journey it wasn't really a topic that me and my girlfriend talked about. After a year or so, the results started to become somewhat visible (althought I didn't have a beachbody at that time), and I could notice a behavioural change from my girlfriend. She was more often all over me, both in and out of bed ;)

    But it wasn't really a specific discussion before we both relacated to our current home. Before we moved I mostly worked out just two times a week or so without paying too much attention to getting ripped. However, as there are many fit guys in our place, partially because this is a typical beach venue, so I figured that I wanted to ante up my fitness game. After another year I was fitter, and my girlfriend had clearly noticed as she said I looked hot. This was also the time we started talking about it. Turns out she has always had a thing for muscles but was afraid to put too much pressure on me and afraid of making herself appear shallow. She told me she didnt't want me to believe I -had- to build muscles to please her, partially because she can't return the favour by becoming a "fitness babe" (she has a medical condition that prevents her from working out too much) and that she thought it would be wrong for me to work out that much to look good for her.

    But told her that not everything has to be equal in a relationship and that I'm primarily working out for staying healthy anyway, and that I don't mind to put down some effort to become fitter for aesthetic reasons beyond pure health reasons. When she asked me whether that attitude made me unsure of my body or not, I answered no, and to make a long story short she appreciates my continued effort to improve further. She says she really likes it, not just because of becoming "hot" but also because I put so much effort into pleasing her eyes. Overall it has really improved our relationship.

    • That's similar in a lot of ways to me & my boyfriend too! Like.. the very thought that he puts in effort to look ripped for my pleasure is enough to make me go crazy in bed. The very 1st night i saw his body after not seeing him for almost a year was also the night we talked about our body preferences. I've always been a muscle girl, but i started dating him when he was scrawny cause he's sweet, caring & reliable. But after he realizes just how much i love his pecs & 8 pack, he asked me if this was what I wanted all along. I said yes of course. I didn't want to seem shallow too. Now we've such a healthy active sex life & I think it's all thanks to his newfound physique. It definitely brought us closer physically & emotionally. & he loves it when i enjoy his muscles (especially his 8 pack) cause he works his ass off to maintain them. Definitely not easy building & keeping an 8 pack for sure. Which part of your body does your girlfriend dig the most? & what does she do? Touch & lick all over like me?

    • Well, she's still a bit shy about telling me what features she likes best beyond saying "you're hot" but I do think she likes a fit upper torso in general, and specifically back, abs and pecks, as those are the areas she kisses and touches more frequently.

    • Oh wow. I see! Well at least she expresses her like for your body physically! ;) Hmm.. does she only touch you during foreplay & sex? Or is she playful - like she'll put her hands under your shirt even when you guys are just making out? What about yourself? How do you feel physically & psychologically when she touches & kisses your muscles? Cause my boyfriend says physically it does turn him on a lot & psychologically it makes him want to work out even more or sth..

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  • From my experience, most girls are definitely more visually excited when the guy is in good shape and has muscle definition to him. Some girls don't like when a guy has packs, but those girls are definitely in the minority.

    However, sex with muscular guys is not necessarily better. It sounds like your guy is good at sex AND you two have feelings for each other, which is the foundation for what makes it good.

    Muscles alone won't make sex good (or even just OK): if the guy has no sensuality, passion, etc. in bed, it will be a turn-off even if he looks good in a picture. It's like how an objectively super good-looking guy/girl will end up LOOKING a lot less attractive to most people if he/she is a jerk. The same deal applies when it comes to sex: not even the hottest-looking person is worth having sex with if they are frigid, or selfish in bed. XD

    A good physique is like the "cherry on top": it has to be on a good foundation first. If the cherry is sitting on a pile of dung, you won't want to eat the cherry then! XD

    P. S. The Asian penis-thing is SO NOT true, and Asian guys themselves especially (like your boyfriend) need to stop believing it, because it was something made up in the past to make Asian people sound bad, like they are "less" in comparison to white people... similar to the "barbarian" caricatures about blacks, American Indians, etc. to make them sound like less. The average size for Asians is 5-6 inches, just like it is for whites. Urology studies in hospitals and universities have already verified this many times.

    • Haha. He's good in bed alright. Sorry for the explicitness but when he goes all the way inside me, he has this way of making me feel good all around. But i've asked my gfs about this & they say when their bfs go all the way in, they don't really like it cause it hurts when the penis rubs against the cervix or sth. So surely my guy must be doing sth right? Haha. He almost always manages to hit my g spot too. Yes, i do agree that muscles are the cherry on top (love the cherry on pile of dung analogy!) but for me, they serve more than a visually pleasing purpose. Cause when i rub/lick my bf's muscles during sex, i get turned on & it helps to make me wetter. That really helps cause i've a rather small & tight vagina. So yes, muscles alone don't make great sex but they sure enhance the experience overall! Oh,& about the Asian penis.. Haha. I guess it's just a stereotype that many Asians are brought up with. But (luckily) at least for my bf's case, that's not true!

    • Yeah a lot of girls experience pain and discomfort with contact against the cervix, from what I've heard. Some other girls like the contact though, so you may be the latter case. But then again, I've heard that at some angles, a couple can achieve deep penetration without hitting the cervix, so maybe that's what he's doing? :o Do you know if he's hitting the cervix when he goes deep? Haha well you obviously like muscles, so of course touching them would turn you on. XD It's like touching a person you find to look attractive in general: it feels thrilling compared to touching someone you don't find attractive. And yeah hopefully that penis myth goes away someday, because it's definitely not true in general. :P Are you an Asian girl? :)

    • Yea maybe he's doing that! Cause i only rmb 1 or 2 occasions where i know for sure he's hitting my cervix, which felt kinda awkward for me so I asked him to go a little shallower. Yea, I can't deny that i've a thing for muscles, especially abs. So you can imagine just how excited & horny i got the very 1st night i felt solid bumps on his stomach XD Didn't help that when he took his shirt off, it was actually an 8 pack, sth i nvr imagined i could ever get to touch on a guy. But yes, that night was pure magic for both of us. Haha nope. I'm caucasian. Country girl with a thing for Asian guys. Don't know what good i did to get so lucky to be blessed with such a boyfriend :)

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  • make love with a muscular guy is more exciting for me than a skinny or fat guy. tends to last longer, also

    • Yea, i think in general muscular guys have more stamina & higher sex drive! How does it feel for you visually and sensually when you're having sex with a muscular guy?

    • i luv watch his abs muscles flex as he slides in and out of my pussy

    • i always show interest in handsome muscular guys when they make moves on me

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  • Im kind of like your boyfriend, I was once very skinny actually under weight I was a virgin into my twenties so I decided to make a dramatic transformation regarding exercise and diet and LONG story short I put on a lot of muscle. The first girl I ever had sex with actually was a girl who I knew years ago who I would have no shot at but I thought I'd give it a shot and asked her out for coffee. She was stunned when she saw me (with me clothes on) and we started going out more often until we decided to be friends with benefits.
    Now the fun part... THE SEX. First time we were alone my parent were away for the weekend we had the whole house to ourselves so we knew we had days worth of sex ahead us. She came over and as soon as she came in the house I shut the door and stripped butt naked right in front of her. I was slightly nervous first time a girl ever saw me nude, but she loved what she saw (thank god), she flashed a big smile and stripped naked as well and then we went crazy. We walked up to my room and she licked my abs, butt, chest and bicep. Them we performed oral on each other and them she got on top of me and rode my cock. While she rode she spent the whole time grabbing my chest. Then after it was over she could not keep her hands off of me, she spent each after sex cuddle rubbing her hands all over me. ( so i guess u can say my time in the gym paid off lol)
    When it comes to my other experiences the girl usually goes crazy it is motivation for me to keep going to the gym and eating right. Most girls are like you when it comes it rubbing/ licking arms, chest and other areas. Also I don't know if you guys do this but after sex if u are up to it you should lick him when he is hot and sweaty I think you will love it.
    Keep enjoying your sex!!!

    • Oh wow.. glad to know your efforts paid off! Pretty sure all the sex & attention you get now are worth sweating out at the gym! My boyfriend says sth similar too - that he's more motivated to work out now cause he knows i love his muscles, especially his 8 pack. I mean, an 8 pack is definitely not easy to maintain but he's determined to keep it for my enjoyment. I just love it when his abs are sweaty & i kiss each one & lick in between the hard lines. So hot!! Oh yea, i do lick him up even after sex. It's hot cause his muscles will be all sweaty & flexing as he pants. I've a kink to smell & lick his armpit after sex too! It's an incredibly erotic smell for me. Which part of your body do girls like to touch/lick the most? What's their immediate reaction when you take your shirt off for the 1st time? What about yourself? How does it feel physically & psychologically when a girl is feeling & licking your muscles up? Do you get harder & hornier?

    • I've written about this a few times on here but I will say it again. I'm unapologetically in love with sweaty sex and licking sweat after sex and smelling sweat during sex. I love it when girls lick my butt, armpits and abs and including after sex when we just got done having afternoon sex with the AC off lol. When I take my shirt of their is usally a sexy smile or a OMG expression on her face. I love seeing girls get horny so that alone drives me wild and makes me hard!! Physically when Im getting licked before sex it is a major turn on and my heart starts pounding a mile a minute, but also psychologically I'm feeling a lot of things, pride that im turing her on, excitement because I know what is about to happen and also just pure happiness knowing that im about to have sex. After sex it great to because when she stuffs her face in my armpit or licks the sweat off my abs I get turned on to do it again. O and licking in the shower defiantly lick him in the shower lol

    • Whoa.. just reading about your experience makes me want my boyfriend right here right now... too bad that'll have to wait till later on in the night. I'm so excited cause I wanna try non-AC sex with him tonight & see how sexy it can get. Imagining the sweat drops on his chest, armpit, arms & 8 pack.. mmmm.. gotta get my hands & tongue to work ;) We haven't done it in a week (9 days to be exact), so the sexual tension is gonna be so high when we meet each other later! I got a little wet just now so i sent him a pic to show him just how much my pussy is wanting him. Hope he can still focus for his football friendly later! Haha. & yes, I'll keep the shower licking in mind!

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  • Wow, you made so many posts about your boyfriend and 8 packs recently, i can see you are very crazy about them. I bet everytime you are having fun with your boyfriend and touch his 8 packs your pussy becames full of moisture, lucky guy your boyfriend. But i dont know if it was you or another girl who said she wanted to rub her pussy on her boyfriend abs. So if it was you, have you already done it? If yes, how did it feel compared to penetration? And did you orgasm from it?

  • Women love muscles even when they say they don't

    • thats true, specially 6/8 packa

  • you're either exaggerating or he took steroids.

    • Look, it was hard for me to believe at 1st too. My scrawny boyfriend became all ripped and hot. But when he went to college (he went 1st cause he was my senior in high school), we were in a LDR for a few mths. And with personal things that happened in between, it was almost a year before we saw each other again. So yes i was genuinely shocked when I saw how muscular he had become in real life cause he's not the kind to post topless/gym selfies on social media so I wasn't aware of how much he had grown physically. No he doesn't take steroids. But he does take protein powder I think.

    • let's say you are correct, then he just has insane genetics. it's not easy obtaining and maintaining an 8 pack. especially when all you mentioned was that he just joined the football team and trains at the gym.

    • Actually he joined football the moment he went to college. It's been 1 and a half year. Like i said, it was almost 1 full year before i got to see him so the last image i had of him was that of the skinny boy i knew when we started dating. Yes, I realize an 8 pack is very hard to train for. I bet genes play a huge role too. But of course, hard work & proper dieting also come into the equation. I feel incredibly lucky tbh.. Haha.

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  • Some women told me that the only fun there is, is that it gives you the feeling that you're taken by an alpha male... like you feel like vulnerable or so... but i was also told that muscular men are very stiff, so their hips movement aren't flexible or smooth enough...

  • i am a skinny guy 😶

    • How has your experience been with girls so far? Do they ever remark about your body when you guys have sex?

    • i haven't.. i am a

    • Ooh.. that's alright. There's no need to rush. Tbh sex with my boyfriend is amazing because we're both so in love with each other. Don't rush into having sex with any random girl just because you feel you need to.

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  • I'm pretty muscular and have good stamina so I would say yes!

  • muscle, power, stamina and big dick most girls love it.

  • The more I read the more I gain the drive to work out. ... Later though it's 4 AM.

    • Trust me, don't trust those girls who say they aren't into muscles & all. Cause when you get in the sack & they see your muscular physique for the 1st time, they won't wanna keep their hands off you ;) Even when we're not in bed, i still like to sometimes put my hands underneath my bf's shirt just so i get reminded of the amazing body I'm getting to enjoy almost every night. We had sex a while ago just now & I think all the answers here make me appreciate his body even more. I was kissing & licking his abs & in between all the ridges & curves of his muscles. Got a little kinky there haha. But he says it made him harder. & me tighter & wetter. He was pumping me more tenderly than usual too. He lasted for about 50 minutes. Wouldn't mind going another round in the morning before our lectures ;)

    • ... Holy sh*t. ... Okay I'm really hoping I get hired soon with UPS because I know I'll get ripped carrying those packages all day.