Did he enjoy the sex?

This guy (I've been seeing for about a month) and I had sex for the first time after ~4 dates. I felt comfortable and he made sure I wanted to do it. I was quite tipsy but he wasn't as drunk. From what I remember it was pretty good, we did missionary, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl and doggystyle. I blew him twice and he came in my mouth. He went down on me too. He kept saying he was gonna cum so we went slowly so we could last longer. He seemed to be enjoying it, he kept saying this is so hot and kept saying my name. We were kissing a lot and he also said he really liked me after. BUT we had to put on a new condom 3 times cause it kept coming off. His penis is not that small but not too big either. He told me it wasn't because he wasn't turned on. I made sure I wasn't awkward about it and was totally fine with stopping to put on a new one. I stayed over and we went to breakfast the next morning. But when I texted him today (1week after) he told me he was busy.
He said he's had 7 girlfriends and have had casual sex before but the last time he's had sex was this past summer which was ~7 months ago. And he's said he doesn't masturbate/watch porn all that often. But I have body image issues and have always struggled with insecurities. I'm not fat but I'm not super skinny either. But I tried to pretend to be really confident during sex and wasn't weird about getting naked. He's always said I have a nice ass and he's told me I'm beautiful lots of times but I can't help but wonder what he thought of my body and the sex.. do you think he liked it? Does he still like me?
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i know he is busy with his program and he did mention last week that he was gonna be away next weekend but his text was "I can't. I've got hw to do this weekend. sucks cause im away next weekend. i'll be free after the 12th when I graduate" what should i reply? should i move on and take it as a hint that he doesn't want to see me again?
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  • You've said you went through a variety of sex positions and he came in your mouth? What was the time frame between sex sessions or did you only have sex once? For a guy to continue to have sex after he has cum (know this very well from my partner) is that it in fact hurts if they continue to have sex post cum but they can still continue chances are they just won't cum again, in addition to that they can also go soft if they don't keep at it with the stimulation. Tbh if he's had casual sex just play it all by ear and see how it goes. It would have nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. He just might have wanted another casual sex buddy. As most young dudes do... :/

    • he's 10 years older than me!! and he's said he wants a relationship... does the condom coming off have to do with his erection/arousal? was he not aroused with me?

    • I'm 10 years older than my partner dw. As for condoms it is my personal experience that they feel like shit and do create less feeling for them so if you take too long in between positions and having to put the condom on again and on again it can very well make him lose his erection just due to focus... focused less on sex and being frustrated with putting the condom back on all the time. I personally don't use and after I have babies will be getting an implanon to prevent pregnancy but can still have the great feeling sex with my partner. Just know if he wasn't aroused with you, you wouldn't have had all the sex and made him cum in the first place. Him cumming is also a given that the sex was good. Otherwise he wouldn't cum.

  • Well i'm not sure if there will be more sex between the two of you , i'm sure he likes it.. do you think so?

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  • It's sounds like he definitely likes it. A lot of dudes just have trouble keeping it up for a really long time. From what you said it doesn't sound like you should worry to much. PS. I could never do reverse cowgirl after hearing stories of breaking the guys Penis. Totally unrelated

    • okay good to hear :) hahaha girls love reverse cowgirl!!

    • Had reverse cowgirl this morning 🤔 keeps my pregnant belly out the way HAHAHAHA how does someone break a dick with that?

    • It literally snaps like a twig with a very loud sound with it. When fully erect its not flexible enough to bend if the girl shifts wait the wrong way and bends it back

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  • Nooo

    • Nooo he didn't enjoy it?

    • Yes s

    • which part made you think so?

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