Guys, First blow job question?

Question

im about to give my first blow job. I have been hooking up with this boy for a while and he has fingered me. Typically we just make out and sometimes I'm on top and can feel how hard he is. I know that I'm ok with giving him a blow job, and he is the one who asked about it in a nice way and say he cares about me too much to pressure me to do something if I don't want to, but if we are making out how do I lead into giving him a blow job? Do I take his shirt off and start kissing down his stomach and chest and pull his pants down? Or do I literally just look at him sexy and say "wanna take your pants off?" Like how do I lead into this? Also how long does a typical blow job last? Do you have to wait until the guy finishes? And how long is the average blow job?

HGG3805 · Accepted Answer

Bless you for even asking this question. Trust me, there is NO bad way to do this for your guy. I'd suggest simply open his belt and his pants and reach in. He is NOT going to stop you. He will be impressed with you being so forward. Guys, especially young guys, don't need foreplay. Kissing down his chest is a great idea but unnecessary at this point. You take his cock out and put your mouth on it and you just made his day, made his life. I'd suggest for your first time to do what is comfortable for you. He will love whatever you do (except watch your teeth.)

How long does it take to do a BJ? Depends on the guy. I'd say in a young fellow it won't take long. There are techniques you eventually want to learn but at this point I wouldn't worry too much about techniques. Tips: you need some kind of lube for your hands on his cock. Saliva works but I'd suggest getting some kind of oil that you like the taste of. #2 You don't need to deep throat him. Good thing to learn but take as much as you can comfortable in your mouth. #3 let him tell you someway what motion or actions he likes. Probably anything is great now. Myself I have things I prefer that get me off faster. #4 Use your tongue. Lick his cock, the head, When you take it in your mouth, cradle it with your tongue. And if you can actually move your tongue in and out as if you were trying to lick his balls. That feels great #5 Slow is better at the beginning then increase the speed as he gets closer to cumming. Listen to him let him know he can show you what he likes. #6 Let him cum in your mouth. The worse thing you can do is stop your actions when he starts to cum. You just took the icing off the cake. Keep doing what you were doing as he cums and let him do it into your mouth. You don't have to swallow it although I recommend you learn to like that. Guys hate to see his girl jump and stop the BJ when he starts to cum. Killed the moment, ruined a wonderful experience.
Giving a GREAT BJ is a learned skill. There are many different aspects to it. Eventually learn to make love to his cock. Show him how you cherish it and he will follow you anywhere.

Isco19 · Answer

just makeout like you usually do then give him the bj. But do not do the same pattern of motion with ur mouth. We like it when a girl isn't scared to switch up how she moves her mouth. Yes its best to wait till he finishes so he doesn't get blue balls.

davesmit16 · Answer

Any of those options to initiate it will work fine.. or just say “i want to give you a bj” lol straight and to the point.

And yes finish him off (preferably in your mouth).

If you are fine with him cumming in your mouth tell him its ok to cum in your mouth just give you a warning when he is going to cum

use your hand in conjunction with your mouth. Bob your head up and down while using your hand to jerk him off.

Inkked · Answer

Ask your mom? The apple doesn't fall far from the tree and I'm willing to bet she's sucked a cock or two in her day..

Jason7mge · Answer

Just run him over his pants. Very slowly. He will get the hint

ryanshre · Answer

just go as you usually would then when you feel he is hard pull his trousers down and suck him off it will be exciting for him and turn him on more

roastbeef · Answer

basically if you want to arouse both of you kind of work your way to it such as slowly undressing each other to start and start kissing him as he kisses you as the 2 of u are undressing each other then take your hand explore his body as he explores yours and work your way down. Feeling his penis and fondling it and take your tongue and toy his head of penis (very sensitive to touch) as you gradually slide it in your mouth and feeling his scrotum with your hand and his ass ( I would suggest your ass towards his face him lying on his back) then preced to suck him with his penis going in and out of your mouth (as this way you can kinda control the depth as you relax your throat) Then weight for the finale:) as he squirts his load in your mouth same time with you in this position he may start tonguing you and toying your clit and tonging You as you may cum also and may orgasm and enjoy each other getting pleasure.