How much does the stereotype of Asian guys (penis for example) affect dating in real life?

[Anonymous]

I am a boy from Asia who have never dated a white girl before (sorry for the bad English). I don't have much facial hair and I am neither tall nor muscular. There are always stereotypes such as Asian men are less masculine and we have smaller penis... Can someone tell me how much does my 'less masculine' appearance affect my potential in dating? Sorry if you think it is a naive question, but I am just planing to go to U. S. as an adventure. I am not disappointed with my penis (longer than world average), however I am afraid of being prejudged and lose my chance before I can show my real personality.

[Anonymous]

The stereotypes/myths against Asian guys definitely affect things on an overall level in the U. S., because surveys of women's tastes show that there are more American women who like white and black guys, than there are women who like Asian guys.

BUT, on an individual level, any one American girl you meet might like Asian guys or might be open to them. So you can't let the stereotypes discourage you from going after any girl you like. And actually, many girls have not even heard about those Asian stereotypes, so do NOT bring them up (so that they won't be in her head to begin with).

Also, lots of girls like it when guys are not hairy, so you are ok there. And you can even prove to any girl who's willing to be with you that the penis-size myth about Asian guys is not true, so you have nothing to worry about in that area either.

Of course some girls might pre-judge you without giving you a chance to show what your personality and/or body parts are really like, but if a girl is that ignorant and gullible, she's not worth it anyway. There will be smarter and more open-minded girls out there who deserve you more.

[tflo95]

Boyyy if you over there rockin' an 8 incher and they start doggin' on ya with them stereotypes, you just whip that thing out and smack em up across the face with it. I think you'll be fine man. People do always joke about how Asians have the littlest dangalang but I've never actually heard of any getting stone cold shut down before they even get a 'hi' out. You're English is good by the way

[ChanRin]

First of all, it's not something bad. many people are attracted to Asians as a race, so don't underestimate yourself. I bet you're a cool guy so I see no reason why a girl would not want to date you etc. It's all absolutely okay man.

[Bilo007]

Large penises are overrated, FEW men have large ones, majority in the average size, so if penis size mattered, we guys will be shit out of luck. of course you have those who like them big, good for them.

[Anonymous]

You can be whatever you want, yes there are a lot of stereotypes but in the end, really counts if you believed in you, if you find a girl with that types of stereotypes, is better don't be close with her