I bought my girlfriend a whole range of sex toys including a big, realistic dildo, two vibrators of different sizes, those little balls that women can insert and sexy lingerie. Spent over $200 bucks on this stuff. The result was pretty disappointing. My girlfriend never tried any of the toys and never wore the lingerie either. When I decided to try the toys on her during sex and asked her later how it felt, she said. "it was okay... I like your penis better". I tried to involve the toys a few more times, hoping she would eventually get interested but her reactions remained completely indifferent. So now all these toys are just sitting in a drawer setting on some dust.
Object Lesson: This is why it's always best to ask first. Not every woman wants or needs sex toys or lingerie.
Vibrators tend to be more popular than dildos. Bullet vibrators, for example. Rampant rabbits can be a reasonable crossover. Most girls don't tend to go for just a dong to put up there, they tend to favour clitoral stimulation.
Based on my experience that is. Girls can answer for themselves.
Honestly, it's really not the same. I think when I got my vibrator my boyfriend was mildly worried that I wouldn't want to have sex with him anymore, but it really does feel different. A dildo or a vibrator, they work in a pinch, if I need to get off and he's not there to take care of it for me, but if I could have him in me instead, I'd pick him over my vibratory any day.
No, you don't experience less stimulation because of a dildo. The vagina doesn't work that way.
Has your girlfriend expressed any interest in a dildo? Most women don't orgasm from penile penetration. Would she prefer a vibrator?
The one I have is smaller than my man so I wouldn't know how to answer that. If you're ok with buying a bigger one, go for it I guess. There's NOTHING like the real thing. To be on the safe side, you might want to buy a smaller one.
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well naturally wen u experience something bigger and better anything less than that won't feel as great.
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@wicket then why aren’t all girls in relationships with well endowed guys?
Get the make your own dildo kit. It makes a mold out of your penis and you fill the mold with silicon or something let it settle and the end product is your penis as a dildo.
no problem getting her a large realistic dildo, I bought several for my wife all of them big, 10" long or longer and anywhere from 7.5" to just over 8" around. I use them on her regularly, she enjoys them immensely. Vagina's are very resilient and go back to their normal size after a little while. Yes she still can feel me and have orgasm's with me even after using the toys. They are a tool to help spice things up, so have fun!
If she enjoys it more than you? Then what...
Well if it means more pleasure for her then I'm all for it
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it is not a good idea
Buy a vibrantor. They are more pleasurable 😍
I'm not into dildos, a vibrator could be better and could be a toy you both play with at bed
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