Guys, what does sexual submission mean for men?

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I've never had sex or done anything more sexual than a hug, but I'm seeing a guy who says he prefers to be submissive. The two of us are starting to have conversations regarding sex, but I'm curious about what a submissive man would like in bed. I know my guy is on the kinky side of things and I'm open to the idea, but given my virginity I want to ease into it. So I'm curious, what does it mean for a man to consider himself submissive? Where does he derive his pleasure? Is it kink or bust?

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Submission is a woman's natural state and woman are happiest when submitting to the will of their husband or father. The rise in feminism has left a lot of women unhappy in life and 1 out of 4 women are on anti depressants.
Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me. She is happier now sumitting to my will and being the good helper the lord intended.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Usually it means you call the shots and decide things in the bed room. He gets his pleasure from pleasing you and following what you want to do. Sometimes it is kinky and he like? S to be chained down and used. It might also be about the power and who has it. a lot of nice guys are submissive and give all the power to the girl they like.

Tdieseler · Answer

i think male submissive starts at the cowgirl position... maybe even reverse cowgirl

Kampaii_Vic · Answer

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Dargil · Answer

I'm kind of vanilla, so I'd view it as your choosing rollicking Cowgirl and both initiating and performing oral aggressively.

Tileguy0723 · Answer

just ask him, he'll let you know what he wants you to do

vampireelf · Answer

There are many different kinds of submission. For some, it is about the powerexchange, to be under her control. It can also be sadistic and about pain for masochists. Or about humiliation. It can also mean that the guy wants to focus on the girls pleasure while his pleasure is not statisfied. It depends on ehat kind of sub he is 😊

dkwrx · Answer

He wants you to be dominate over him. He wants you to treat him like a dog.

Notagoodusername85 · Answer

He wants you to slap him and then do him in the ass with a strap-on

pinolly · Answer

Well, it could be something as simple as wanting you to take charge and do what you want (and tell what to do and how) all the way to various forms of humiliation. You'd have to ask him about that.