There are deep evoloutional roots to the difference in sexual vocalizations of human genders. as you may know the majority of human sexual competition happens within the vagina.. where 99% of sperm is actually killer sperm meant to destroy the sperm of other males. Therefore our human ansestors were getting it on with multiple partners constantly.
a leading theory I have heard to explain why females are so loud during intercourse is to attract the attention of other males to participate, which has an evoloutional advantage of diversifying the gene pool. which also explains why the sound of a female during intercourse sexually excited men to no end. therefore there is no real reason for males to vocalize during sex.
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"majority of human sexual competition happens within the vagina.. where 99% of sperm is actually killer sperm meant to destroy the sperm of other males." You see when you say that I imagine little sperms dressed as gladiators battling each other. Yup. Gladiator sperm. That is where my mind goes. "a leading theory" By whom?
Christopher Ryan author of bestselling book "Sex at Dawn, 2010" describes a lot of different processes of human sexual selection that is outside the norm. read it!
I'm not very load but I will moan when things are feeling good. I think it's important not to fake it by making loud noises and let my partner know when things are going well.
One theory here: The influence of porn is greater than you might think. In films, women make all the crazy sounds while guys just do it and say stupid stuff like ' oh yeah, just like that baby'
Probably since women are doing all the screaming in porn, which is mostly made for guys, so lots of guys think its not cool or manly to make some noise.
An honest answer... they're trained by porn. Porn guys don't make noise so you can hear all of her yells, so guys probably think if they make noise they'll be unsexy. But I LOVE it when guys moan, it's very hot.
wow... this has to be the best answer.
It's so true.. My boyfriend does the same shit.. But it doesn't mean they're not enjoying it.. He just watch me and goes harder...
He is thinking of his penis and looking at you and experiences sensations. he can't think of words right then.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!wow. i can't believe some of the fairytails I've heard here. most men arnt screeming because it simply isn't a pirn movie. by the way they add the sound in after the sceen has been shot guys are having ( if there on top ) getting a vigorus work out and choosing not to passout on top of you simply remain with the exception oof some grunts or a few short words do to the amount of air their using. and not having enough to carry on a coonversation
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LADIES.. Men too... its very simple its Not porn, everyone watches porn and some girls are dead quiet trust me I've dealt with it.. its not age... its not finishing or any other things you want to make up... lets approach these things scientifically, its biology.. the sexual sensations of a women are experienced stronger than the males sensations... thats it as far as moaning.. if you mean conversation... it goes to the mind, women are programmed more emotional and vocal, men are focused on hand eye coordination and usually concentration on doing most of the work, because we do have to do most of the work... unfortunately , excluding oral/foreplay etc penetration is more giving than taking for the men, the men give sex the women receive... discussion over its science question properly answered
how about you get with a man and not a boy?
everyone's different you just got a quiet guy. not a bad thing. reminds me of a friend of mine who found their bfs moaning hilarious
I am quiet but not like your B. f. I love the dirty talk and you know other things like pulling...
Girls are usually very loud but we have porn education that tells us, that its girls job to moan loud enough to attract neighbours.
Me: Why the fuck am I here
Conscious: to look a adult conversation because you don't know about this stuff
Me:Oh yeah
Every guy is different. I like to say a few words... like "this feels great" or "you enjoying this?" Every guy is different. Have you had sex with other guys before this one or were you a virgin? Is he getting you off also or is he the only one with an orgasm?
The answer to your question is a very simple one -- the vast majority of climaxes that a guy experiences during his lifetime are the result of masturbation. Since there are few things more embarrassing than being caught playing with ourselves, we've become conditioned to be quiet when we come.
Men tend to be quiet. Making noise is what women do.
Going back many thousands of years, a female that was getting banged would make noise to attract other males for her to mate with, thereby increasing the chance of her getting pregnant, and possibly securing better sperm and thus stronger, healthier offspring.
I'm sure you can see why men wouldn't be making noise.
Not all guys are like this. The younger ones tend to be quieter though cause all they focus on is finishing.
I don't make much noise either, other than some breathing and some light grunting when I'm coming in her. I don't have much to say because I'm enjoying her.
forst of all i like how you used a photo from BuzzFeed second men are focused and trying hard to last long. gove them the benefit of the doubt
First of all how did you know hat was buzzfeed Second of all why is all your shit spelled wrong
sorry i typed to fast second i watch buzzfeed
Oh yeah I watch it too but buzzfeed get there shits from google so she just typed a image in
I am also. I'm focusing on technique and stating in the groom to reach orgasm and also to hold off if she's not ready
not all guys are quite. I'm not. I'm actually pretty loud.
I keep the noise down because I've read too many stories of women whose men grunt like apes while doing it.
Lols but like I was on this comment that was just talking about finding men moaning hot and made them enjoy it more
Guys should make noises during sex, it's hot af as long as he doesn't sound dumb
im always loud. lot more nerves when you're 11.5 inches
as for make noise but dont sound dumd wow i bet things a silent. when your doing things. and it has absolutly no revelance what size you are. you like wvery guy has 4000 nerve endings. thanks for trying to brag. about what you obviously dont have
i dont do it because i dont like it.
i would like to hear her voice but its just a drop of water in the ocean. i dont need it. also if you fake moan you dont hear the real expression of good sex. beside that i would simply feel retarded to do voices for no reason.
would say guys are different.
cause they are so used wanking to porn xD they wanna hear the girl in porn moan and they need to be quiet to hear them :P
I don't know. I never felt the need to make any sounds when having solo sex.
Besides I like to keep it going unnoticed. I don't want to bring any attention to this.
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