Do you prefer submissive or dominant women (in bed)?

which one do you prefer in your personal life aboit your wife or GF?
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  • Dominant. I know it's different for every guy but having a dominant woman in the bedroom would be awesome. I like the idea that she would be my cute sweet loving girlfriend by day and then when we are alone she would be this sexually powerful woman who has control over me. Who snaps her fingers and I please her. I don't want to be humiliated or in pain like some guys. I want it to be like a Queen and her servant type of relationship. A woman who exudes confidence in the bedroom and grabs me by the shirt and pushes me down on the bed. Crawls on top of me and tells me what she wants. That is so exciting. I have never been with a girl like that.

    • Incase you didn't know: Sometimes a woman is too shy/afraid of showing that side of herself till you invite her to do it and then she shows it. Or if she knows ______ really turns cause you told her/showed her she might surprise you.

    • You are absolutely right.

    • Love this description.

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  • I am dominant - I have always taken charge and taken the lead. Of course, it helps that I'm good at it, and that I take others into consideration, but at the end of the day, I make the decisions.

    As you would expect, I am attracted to and naturally attract submissive women. Not all of them are submissive out in public; some have been in leadership roles outside the home and didn't want that at home too, and others were submissive all around.

    Two dominants or two submissives don't work - you need balance in the relationship. This is one of those "opposites attract" situations because it balances out.

    • I like someone who is more dominant 70% of the time and who is willing to change it up when it feels right and can be submissive 30% of the time. Too much of the same routine can limit ones enjoyment in my opinion.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I'd prefer a woman to be good at both dominating and being submissive. For me, it depends on the mood I'm in. If I feel like I want to pleasure then I'd definitely enjoy the submissive side of my gf/wife at the moment. But when I want really hot and heavy, I'm all for the dominance.

  • I am sure I am dominant. Oh, yes, my senses are telling me I am dom. *-*

    • I like dominant women

    • for God sake this girl is 15

    • I'm sorry I didn't notice that thanks for letting me know that annonboy

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  • While I am dominant, I do enjoy a woman who can be dominant as well. I think it makes things interesting and fun.

  • I prefer submissive, but I've had a few good experiences with dominant ones whenever they are kinky, desire to explore sexuality or are not afraid to let their imaginations and fantasies fly.

    I don't like dominant women in bed when they are like that but suck in sexual chemistry, are boring in their decissions and/or acts, and only play the role of dominance just not to have to deal with messy, kinky sex.

  • I'd like to have a little of both. Depending on my mood.

  • I think dominant if I'm honest haha

  • Lean towards liking her submissive but if she is in the mood to be dom that's fine. Usually goes back and forth.

  • I prefer both, I'd like to be on both sides of the extreme. I too like to have someone do everything to me because sometimes like once a month, I do get tired of being in charge of work, and in relationships. Plus it's a good way to show that I trust her as well, and feel safe with her doing anything to me (in a safe and sane way) that she desires.

  • Submissive women are better.

  • Both

  • i prefer submissive women. Not because I consider myself dominant, but because I get a bit aggressive, and if a girl is trying to run things it could just get in the way.

  • I prefer submissive, but with a bit of a dominant side, so she can put up a fight

  • It's all about the teamwork

  • Dominant girls in bed. I'm not into abrasive verbal abuse or bondage, but I like when it's clear she's the one in charge.

  • A woman more on the submissive side is what I want, I like to dominate and command her to do various acts.

  • Sub, my collar is waiting.

  • Two in one someone who can switch between submission & being dominant.

  • Depends on my mood.

  • I prefer submissive woman and what I've learned is that if a man knows his own strengths in use it, regardless if the woman is dominate (which can also be fun in bed) the man will always have the upper hand.

  • Both genders want the man to dominate. That doesn't mean the woman doesn't lead occasionally.
    You don't really want a weak whimpy guy in the sack do you?

  • I'd love to be with a dominant one

  • A dominant woman

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