Handjob advice?

Question

So I'm going to give my first handjob and I have a couple of questions

In terms of minutes, how fast does saliva as lube dry out? And how much should I use.

Should I still use saliva if he is uncut?

Does spitting on your hand/licking onto the hand to reapply get annoying? 
- what if I used the other hand to reapply the spit onto while still using my dominate hand

Should I avoid spitting onto the shaft since i would need to be close to his groin and that might tease a blowjob?

summiter · Accepted Answer

Saliva will dry out quickly but if that is all you have he is going to be focused on the great handjob and pending orgasm. I would also ask him to show you how he does it. Guys know their penises very well... almost every young jerks off frequently but most will never admit it.
What feels best for me is when a girl uses lube such as KY or Easyglide... but regular hand cream or facial cream works great also.
Don't be too rough and focus on the last 2 or 3 inches that is where it feels best. Ask him what feels best while you are doing it. Hoe do you know he is uncut? Have you been naked with him? Is he a virgin?

CherryBoys · Accepted Answer

Saliva dries out pretty quick as a lube. It can work, but any lube or lotion would work better.

Uncut dicks are easier to give handjobs to because the foreskin moves with your hand meaning lube probably won't be necessary.

Most guys are pretty happy to be getting a handjob and won't be focusing on how often you reapply, but using lube/lotion can solve this if you are worried.

Spitting on the shaft is fine, if anything the tease will get him harder.

Good luck, hope it goes well!

evelyn26 · Accepted Answer

Watch videos. That is how I learned. I practiced on one guy for 2 years now and I became a pro hah.
Use both but saliva does dry out fast. The more wet it is the better. Lube is better than saliva. Get a flavored/edible one you like. Ask him how he likes it that's a must. Good luck!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

To be honest, my man is circumcised so I really don't know about how other guy's who did not get circumcised feel.
I'm good at giving my man a handjob and blowjob. But I think you should still spit on his thing and just stroke it. Don't go too fast it can hurt a guy.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Spit dries up very fast. I'd recommend you to use either Vaseline or baby oil.

God_of_Thunder · Answer

As far as saliva goes, it tends to dry out pretty quickly, depending on how vigorous the handjob is, and how much you use. Slick is better, though, so don't be afraid to go overboard with it.

Spitting on, and licking your hand won't get annoying, at all. After all, the guy is lucky enough to be getting a handjob, so he won't be too concerned about that part, lol.

You're more than welcome to spit on the shaft, as much as you like. It's not really that much of a tease, although it is pretty sexy, and can heighten the experience for your guy.

Soshy · Answer

I wouldn't spit on my hand. Spit directly on it

0112358 · Answer

Saliva dries fast. Like within 30 seconds.

Stay dry if uncircumcised. Use the foreskin.

If he's cut and you're using spit use your main hand. If you use more hands you will end up getting less where you want it and you're likely going to be trying to use as much spit as you can.

ForeverSingle28 · Answer

Fuck A Hand Job Get On Them Knees And Suck That Dick

awesometjgreen · Answer

just spit on it, grab it, and go up and down until you hear grunting and see something fly out of his dick. but I understand your concern, your a good girl for asking :-)

Ben38 · Answer

you'll see if it gets try, especially if he is uncut.
so just the you see, give it some more. at some point precum will ease your job there 😉 spitting on it isn't annoying, just find out if he likes it the rough or the sexy way. using the other hand rather not, just directly from you mouth, makes it also looking hot. and just go as near as you like. you're the queen, even if he thinks you might give a blowjob, you don't have to.

BHBrooks · Answer

A good ole fashioned

chuy10 · Answer

spit on his penis

marky123 · Answer

be slow and gradual.. don't rush.. using saliva isn't a bad idea for softening the things.

Anonymous · Answer

Well take your time and enjoy the experience. I'd say use a water-based lube such as Astroglide. You might have to re-apply it halfway through but it depends how long you are doing it. As far as saliva goes, I've never liked women spitting on me so I'd say in my opinion, don't do that. The lube is much better anyway.