Guy doesn't want to hook up anymore?

[helpha]

I hooked up with a coworker after him chasing me for about a year. When I met him he was into another girl we work with and they're getting pretty serious and he's debating not seeing any other girls and commiting to her, but is very on and off about her (they almost stopped talking just a few weeks ago and he said his feelings were fading). Their relationship seems to have gotten better, but in the meantime him and I started hooking up. The sex is awesome, we both agree to that, and he has told me things like he likes me, thinks about me a lot even when he's laying in his bed at night, and is struggling becuase I'm not just "some girl" he fucked, I'm someone he has a lot of fun with and likes. He's very indecisive because he likes the consistency of our other coworker and wants to commit to someone and not have to "go through getting serious with someone new", but he's super indecisive about wether he wants to keep sleeping together or not, even though we have lots of fun when we hook up.

Should I just play it cool and let him make the decisions, if he is weird and chooses to stop having sex to commit to this girl I should just not flirt or express any interest from now on right? We've been good friends for a while but now I suddenly have no idea how to act around him because I know he has some feelings for me, wants to have sex, but is just confused about what to do.

[NyomiMcClinton]

Leave him alone. He is still talking to the other female and has expressed no interest in leaving you. Dont allow yourself to fall for a guy like this. He is only using you for sex while getting his other needs met somewhere else. Its not fair to you

[Anonymous]

I think that guy is not that serious about you. He only wants to have sex with you and he's using you.

[AustinMan]

I'd keep your distance and encourage him to choose sooner rather than later.

[vladz]

He's a Charlie Sheen, first thought. Let me finish the story...

[helpha]

what?

[vladz]

Nvm. He likes sex with you but wants a serious relationship with the coworker. The decision is up to you.