My boyfriend has been quiet and hasn't wanted to have sex much lately but always wants to cuddle. Why might this be?

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost three years, live together, and our relationship has been very loving/close; he's 26 and I'm 24. Over the past month, we've only had sex about once a week. We used to have sex most days of the week and sometimes twice a day. All month he's been quiet and isolates himself but has been more affectionate with me. . He usually has dinner ready when i get home; he loves to cook so I clean/do the dishes afterwards. The past couple of weeks he's asked me to come cuddle with him instead of doing the dishes. We go into the bedroom, he tells me to hold my arms up, takes all of my clothes off except my underwear, he picks me up, and asks if I will lay on his chest. He always kisses my forehead, rubs my back, holds me, and he likes to take baths together but he rarely wants to do anything more. I started to get worried he was involved with someone else; I went through his phone, found nothing, and he has never been protective of his phone. I've asked him if something is wrong and he usually shakes his head. He's always been quiet but never this extent; I can't think of anything that recently happened. His dad died during the month of may ten years ago but he's never acted this way on previous years. I've been trying to be caring, loving, give him space but I really miss having sex. Why might he be acting like this?
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  • For the way you have explained it everything is fine, I can tell he loves you a lot. Decreased sex drive doesn't mean he loves you less cuddles are just as nice. One thing to mention though looking through his phone without his knowledge is a complete invasion of privacy and I can imagine he'd be pretty upset if he found out. Just talk it through with him you have been with him long enough to talk about your feelings.

  • nothing is wrong in that.. sometimes libido get decreased. reason can be anything like work pressure, or may be there is no thrill in your sex life.. give him healthy diet so that his libido get increased and also try to seduce him in different ways. try roleplay with him. play with yourself in front of him. get more naughty and try to have sex in different places, try to get more thrill in your sex life

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  • Because, contrary to popular belief, he's not a sex robot and has feelings too.

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  • For me it is work or stressed out about what's going on. Sometimes I'm too tired long day at work.

  • Maybe you should just talk to him about it.

  • Is he eating enough or having enough fats in his diet? That will lower your hormones since your not eating either enough food for a long duration of time or not enough fats for the body to make the hormones. Happened to me on prep

  • my gut says either he did something or something happened that you will not be happy about

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  • i am sorry but the "honeymoon" phase of the relationship might have ended.

  • Cuz he is tired or sex drive is low can happen from diet or being down

  • every Indian having sex 3 days in a week