Friends with Benefits said his dick is mine? N?

[esperanza_93]

So my ex and I are friends with benefits. We dated 3 years ago and well I lost my virginity to him. We broke up and 8 months later we became friends with benefits. we have been friends with benefits for 2 years. For the past months he's been saying his dick is mine I would say yeah but awkwardly cause last time I heard those words it's when we had sex when we were in a relationship. I was always against of him having the idea of him thinking my pussy is his because well it's my pussy. So I never really was the girl to say it's his pussy. If he said it during sex i would avoid the question or say no. Last time we had sex he was drunk and kept saying over and over how his dick is mine. He also the way I would have sex with him it's like I'm all his. It was weird of him saying it. He also said something else and I couldn't understand it. Then he asked is that pussy is mine? For the first time I said yes. I yelled back how my pussy was all his. He then said "im gland im really glad" then he kept saying over and over how his dick is mine. He wanted to have sex with me all night. And I gotta say it was the bestest nights I ever had with this guy. I said too many things I'm actually kind of embarrassed to say here lol. My question is why does he want me to say his dick is mine? And why the hell he was glad my pussy is his?

[MadeInAmerica]

I don't know. I think it's a weird thing to discuss and talk about when your not naked. My wife and I say those things in the bedroom among other things. It really should be just a figure of speech and a way to dirty talk. Even married my wife pussy is hers and she chooses when and if I get it.

[jaywilson]

its sex talk. its hard to explain but it does something to a man when a woman says her pussy is his and for her to claim possession over his dick during sex. as a man it makes you wanna go harder and give her the best dick shell ever have in her life.

[TazWax]

He's possessive. It's pretty normal most people are. He just wants you to know that you can do whatever to his dick and he wants you to give him that freedom with your pussy.

[OliviaSmith]

Sounds like he wants you back, but it could of just been the booze talking. You should just ask him why he says that.

[rude_snap]

Sounds like to me you have yourself a Dom. Just an inexperienced one.

[BlendedMe]

Said...

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

He wants to feel possession over you. That's all.

[Anonymous]

It was something he was saying during sex. I wouldn't think too much of it

[Anonymous]

he is checking your loyalty even when you guys are not in relationship he might be regretting breakin up with uh probably guys don't want a relationship plus they dun wanna loose their partner too

[esperanza_93]

That could be it. I cut him off over a guy 2 months ago. And it didn't work out so when I came back to him. He's been saying these things to me. I also forgot to mention before this last time we had sex. We were trying to turn ourselves on he was holding my hand and even we were having sex too. Now he's saying this.

[Opinion Owner]

actually he juz wanna make him self comfortable that no one touched you rather then him. he is regrettin that thing to breakup with you guyz usually don't say things like that cause of ego problems

[Opinion Owner]

love is a feeling that can never be satisfied with sexual activities only. i have been through that there comes a point when people come to know that love is far beyond sex activities only. your guy must have realised it but he is not accepting it cause he thinks he still has more options and he is not bound to you and can take benefit from you

[esperanza_93]

So your saying he might still have feelings for me?

[Opinion Owner]

tbh guys have a different mentality. did ya ever figure out why is he still with you in first place i mean see till he can use you in different methods usually sexually​ he will let things flow in what ever way it's goin on but once uh try to settle your self up and find someone better then him. he ill ged insecure and then he ill try to ged hold of you his insecurities can be seen in form of still saying that his dick is yours as he states that he is loyal to you cause he wants to you back. but there ill be only two ways either he ill understand he loves your or either he will do that again

[Anonymous]

Really? This needs explanation?