Started to suck guy's cocks for my girlfriend. Now she is less attracted to me because she does not find me masculine. what do?

Question

So my girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 years. She revealed last year, that she likes to see men performing oral sex on men. I'm straight dude, and don't find men attractive but I do love my girlfriend and want to see her happy. I reasoned that if straight girls are willing to perform FMF threesomes for their boyfriend then the least i can do is blow a guy for my girlfriend.

Started to suck guy's cocks for my girlfriend. Now she is less attracted to me because she does not find me masculine. what do?

So we've found guys on craigslist and got them tested. I blew about 5 guys in front of her and swallowed their cum while she got herself off watching me do it. However, recently I notice that she is becoming distant, and is not enthusiastic as before when it comes to us having sex together. How can i get her to be more attracted to me?

GusHS · Accepted Answer

First, you're not straight, you're bi. If you're not into men, you shouldn't have done it, you don't do a thing you're not comfortable with just to please your gf/bf.
Second, she said that she likes to see oral sex between men, did she ever mentioned that she wanted to see you sucking another guy? Maybe she wanted to see you get sucked by another guy, then she wouldn't think you're less masculine.
Third, it's completely undestandable that she doesn't find you masculine anymore. She just saw you blowing 5 guys, probably being submissive to them.
Last, did you do anything not to look less masculine? I mean, after sucking a guy, did you had sex with her and showed her that you were still her man?

KingPoteat · Accepted Answer

Bruh you should have just let them blow you not the other way around cmon man. Yeah this relationship took a nose dive after you did that. My girlfriend likes when I'm with other guys but I'm never the bottom. You can always do it again and blow me maybe she just wants to see more of that to get off...

karahiri · Accepted Answer

i think... that this is over. you can't regain masculinity after that... whoever this random woman is, she is beautiful.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

Seeing you in a submissive state blowing guys it seems ended up being more of a turn off instead of an turn on. There is much to do to stop that vision in her mind. Seeing how you went through doing that for her sucks. (no pun intended, well maybe a little.)

Dousj · Answer

If this is even real:
Look. How is she gonna see you as a masculine figure, her man, etc. when she watches you gargle man cum? She probably wasn't even serious at first, then you agreed, she had her fun over the fact that she actually got a "straight"(you're bi now) guy to blow other guys. You're basically a bitch/submissive in her eyes. You played yourself.

Stellargasm · Answer

Jesus man, your girlfriend sounds like a complete asshole.

allahu_snackbar · Answer

I...

Intraluminal · Answer

Dude. You already went above and beyond. The only thing that you can do now is find out if she wants some lez action, and get a sex change.

Asylumsfinest · Answer

Wow, brave man Straight, but blew 5 guys... Wow

ken718 · Answer

So your a chuckhold or she is first off and not even in a cool way secondly your gay you sucked a dick! Swalled cum at that! If my girl said this to me i would probably fuck her one last time nut in her eyes slap her with my dick and kick her out the fucking door I cannot believe you let a cunt like that destroy your ego and manhood like that DAMN!!!