My boyfriend doesn't moan during sex and it bothers me?

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He makes absolutely NO noise during sex, and it makes me think he's not enjoying it or he's not attracted to me. I've tried asking him what sort of things he likes, and what I can do to improve sex for him (i. e. to make him moan), but all he ever tells me is that he "already enjoys" everything I do to him, but I have a hard time believing that because he doesn't make. any. sounds. whatsoever. He won't tell me what I'm doing wrong so I have no clue what to do!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

But does his dick stay hard throughout the entire time during sex? If so then that's all that mattered, if it kept getting soft then I'd worry if I were you. Are you sure he doesn't make any noise at all? Have you gone down on him? Watch some blowjob videos and suck him off as best as you could, I'm sure he'd be moanin' and groanin' in no time.

troyan · Accepted Answer

I also wouldn't make a sound, but that doesn't mean I don't enjoy. When I feel pleasure, I'm just quiet, close my eyes and I enjoy :) I think girls are the ones who are more loud during the act. But if you really want to make him moan, surprise him with a rough handjob :)

XxMochaKittyxX · Accepted Answer

my man is sometimes completely silent, theirs an easy way around it.
start talking dirty to him, get him involved more then just thrusting into you.
get him to tell you what he likes doing to you while he's doing it, stuff like that. its hotter then just moaning too trust me👌🏾

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

Some guys just don't make sounds. My guy rarely does except when he's about to finish. It's good that you are communication and asking him about his pleasure. Does your guy make a sound at the end?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah. I too believe he should at least groan or something like make anything or some noise indicating that he liked it.

Rizzles9 · Answer

Yeah most guys all you will get out of them is grunting and if ur lucky some dirty talk. The noisy ones are usually self conscious about it and try to hide it anyway.

BBoy201 · Answer

Maybe he's low maintenance? That's too bad, noise is good, words are fun. You may have to take the lead on this one. But don't make the guy start to feel all insecure and shit.

septemberangel118 · Answer

Some people just aren't verbal in bed.

NahBruh · Answer

Well, some people are just quiet. Just how they are, they enjoy it very much but aren't loud

Answerdude · Answer

How does he come? Fifteen to twenty gushes with enough force to go splat on the ceiling? Or only four or five modest oozings producing no more a a drop or two of sperm each? You can often tell how good the sex is for a guy by how vigorously his dick responds when it's orgasm time.

JustaDudeTryinToHelp · Answer

It's possible he is enjoying the sound of your pleasure so much, he doesn't want to polite the air with his own moan which would be nails on a chalk board simply be comparison. It's also possible he had to try and keep the volume down in a previous relationship, and now it's programmed in this brain to be silent. If you do the same thing every time you have an orgasm, it can become something your brain makes you do before and orgasm.