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Why is it normal for guys to be picky regarding our boobs/butt/pussy but if we do the same for dick/abs/arms we are considered sluts?

Its always the same. Guys talking about their girl preference. They want big booncing boobs to grab during cowgirl, a tight butt to slap during doggy style, porn face, anal skills and sex drive and want us to take their cum all over our faces as its their precious juice. This is considered normal right? I dont say I dont like doing kinky stuff. Read below to see what i mean.

On the other hand, the moment we say or even imply we prefer a mascular or veiny guy, a taller guy over a short one, with abs or strong arms or tight butt and no belly and whatever eeeeevryone calls us picky, weird or sluts. Not to mention what happens if we say anything about dick size. Every guy will call us sluts and whores if we imply we prefer a big cut dick with huge stamina. I mean what the hell is wrong with that? I've had my share of lovers and to be honest I like it if the guy is more manly and mascular, with a big cock and knows how to take me there every single time and not cum within a few strokes and i have to suck him off 10 minutes so i can enjoy his tiny dick again. Of course i won't pick a boyfriend according to dick size but its a great fucking bonus right?

Why guys get to be normal when they express their likes but we get to be called a bunch of names?

Sorry for the rant but i just had an argument with a guy about this and guess what he called me...
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So it looks like thats the way it is then. Most guys can get away with it unless they talk about high end stuff but us girls will always be flamed the moment we imply anything about bigger penis, hotter body and whatever. I guess thats what separates girls from women and guys from men then. I can live with that but I can't ignore retards trying to convince me im an elephant.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • That's odd, I've seen more situations where if a man expresses an opinion or preferance on the female body, he'll get scolded. I mean once during upper secondary school history class, we were looking at statues made during the classical antiquity where our teacher asked the boys about what they thought about the statue of Aphrodite. Nobody at first raised their hand so the teacher picked a guy at random who said that he thought it was an attractive body otherwise, but he thought the hips were too wide and instantly he got shouted down by almost every girl in the class. Never seen it's like before or since.

  • It's just a lame double standard. A lot of guys have fragile ego's, so when they don't measure up to the ripped Greek god type of man, they feel insecure (ESPECIALLY with dick size) and yes, call girls sluts for wanting that because it's "unrealistic". Sort of like how pornstar women are unrealistic.

    I agree, it's dumb. I am pretty secure knowing that I am in decent shape, and have an "average" dick that I know how to use to make a girls entire body quiver and shake. Doesn't bother me at all when a girl openly admits they love sex.

    • I know right?

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah I know what you mean about this. My boyfriend and his best friend were sitting there talking about hot actresses and what they like and I just sat there but when I started talking about which hot guy actors I like they both looked at me like I was a slut and my boyfriend got mad and jealous acting. So seriously I don't wtf I just dont even care anymore.

    • THIS! This is exactly what I mean folks!

    • yup!

    • Weird. In my family it's the reverse. When watching a movie the girls in my family sometimes comment on which men celebrity they think are hot, even the married women while their husband were in the same room. But once, when my brother commented just a bit about a woman's body in the movie his wife shut him down immediately. None of them talked about their preference on the sexual parts of the body though, just attractiveness

  • They are not that picky with boobs in my opinion. You can always work out and make your butt bigger, they can't do much if they have a tiny stick, no girls want that.
    Guys that complain about girls' preferences are hypocrites, but girls do that too. As long as you live up to your own preferences I don't see anything wrong with having them.

    • Of course I have my own set of likes and they get to have theirs. Its normal 10000%. What I dont get is the double standard.

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  • I don't believe that anything is wrong when girls talk about it. Some people have habit of judging others with out knowing and reaching at conclusion.

    in my opinion that is the reason why GirlsaskGuys website is developed so girls can take opinion of guys.

    I ignore the people who judge me.

    • I can't ignore people that try to convince me or people i know that im something im not.

  • I'm sorry girls it sounds like you have/been dating assholes and idiots. if a male assumes you have no preference in how a guy looks he is an idiot, if he gets mad finding out what you like it's because he is unhappy in his appearance and gets self-conscious. sounds like you could do a lot better then him anyways

    • I never said I talked about my boyfriend. I just had an argument with a friend's friend.

  • just double standards.

    i certainly don't think a woman is a slut for having preferences

    • Thank you!

  • probably called u a SJW lol. I dunno.

    I think ur pretty wrong doe. Those are our ideal but in reality we can go without those and be fine with a flat chested girl and all or a guy with our a 6 pack. I never heard of a girl being called a slut for wanting abs or arms

    • slut is one of many they call us. I could say 100 more words but English is not my main language. For example, they call us extremely picky, dreamers, bimbos, retarted, whores. i hope you know what i mean.

  • Because too many of us when we were young, were conditioned to believe that "women don't care about looks".

    Far from the truth. That is why I put in the effort to be as attractive as I can. Because girls dig cute sexy good looking men. :)

    • Of course.

    • Sounds like a no-brained, but this 'girls care about the inside not the outside ' indoctrination is still going on with young boys.

    • by the way, men talk a lot of shit about their 'requirements' in a girl, but it's all talk. Most guys will be happy with a decent looking girl that likes him back

  • Everyone gets chastised for being picky, this is not a double standard.

  • Your not... your only a slut if you fuck multiple guys at times

    • Of course I know that. My problem is most guys dont know that and act like little girls.

    • Thats what separates the boys from the men lol amongst other things

  • Can't say that is considered normal.. You're just generalizing ton of shit...

    • Oh. Is that so? Care to explain more?

  • It's the same if you talk about how many sexual partners one has. If a woman has a lot, she's called a slut. A man is congratulated. Never knew why.

    • Bingo

    • the reason is this. if you have a key that can open. many different locks you have a really good key. but a lock that can be opened by many different keys is just a shity lock lol.

  • man girls get insecure about certain body parts and many guys get insecure about their dick size. If you see someone complaining about being picky it's because he knows if every girl has standards like that he'll never have a girlfriend.

  • Everyone's aloud to have preferences, male or female.

  • You girls should be more picky regarding cocks... Most of them are fucking disgusting! Lol

  • its quite the opposite of that these days.

    • When where im from i guess.

  • Simple algorithm
    I don't judge
    I don't like being judged

  • Yes, it is a clear double standard, no question. You're absolutely right.

    If you prefer a big cut dick, that's perfectly fine if you aren't an ass about it and make small uncut guys feel bad, don't worry about people who are insecure. I much prefer to find someone that's attracted to whatever I have to offer, lots of girls don't like meaty muscle type guys, beard, whatever. It is perfectly normal and human, we just need to be respectful.

    I didn't really think what you like was a thing, but it is. When I stumbled upon girls who were into a fantasy porn style dick (thick long and cut) it made it so much more exciting to know she really gets off on it. I've generally found the opposite to be true. It keeps me a little shy and awkward about it, but once I'm comfortable I've had relationships that are way more awesome :)

    Don't be shy about it! Also, pro tip, guys who are packing don't generally have the best experiences unless they got lucky growing up, there are def tips I can offer to help you find what you're looking for. Shy, humble, a little awkward, and very self aware about causing pain etc. I'm glad thought people like you exist, high five!

  • No i dont i just want a fertile lady to be the mother of my children.

    Damn hookup culture.

  • Our fucking society and some Morons
    Bomb them up

    And no one will ever lay a finger on ur character 😎

  • Because that's the way it is

  • I'm only picky on personality the physical isn't that important

  • cause you hurt the guys feelings lol

    • No i didn't. He hurt his own feelings because he is an insecure guy that just can't accept that girls like some bonuses more than others. His problem.

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