Exotic or plain (?) women?

saw this post online so i thought i would copy and paste a bit. Exotic (a term synonymous with peculiar, extraneous, fascinating and kinky) is the current buzz word in beauty; but, what does it really mean? What exactly do men mean when they say they are attracted to exotic girls? My thoughts are directed to the Brazilian bombshell Adriana Lima. With long, dark hair, tanned skin, full lips and bright bluish-green eyes, her striking appearance is obviously the result of race-mixing

what are your opinions? men what do you prefer? are you more likely to choose the plain or exotic women and why?
exotic or plain(?) women?
exotic or plain(?) women?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Well... One thing that seems to be a LOT more common among boys than among us, is this whole desire for **variety** -- purely for its own sake.

    I mean... **I** was definitely all about "tasting the rainbow" for a while, when I was younger. I used to joke (... but was I **rlly** joking? ahah) that "my type is... whatever I didn't have last time".
    But my point is, I think this makes me somewhat unusual among women, and a lot more like "a typical guy".

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    Soooo yh
    If I had to shed some light on this whole thing, I'd basically just explain it in terms of that incessant desire for variety.

    Lemme give it a shot:

    • In any specific context (= a country, culture, environment, social class... whatever), "EXOTIC" just means "you DON'T SEE THIS around here much".

    • ... Or, more accurately, it's a combination of "you don't see this around here much" ••AND•• "oohh this boy/girl is hottt". (When was the last time you heard someone use the word "exotic" for someone who was just... kinda weird-looking mahah? Without actually being *attractive*, at least to the person giving the description? Probably the day before never.)

    • If someone is into "tasting the rainbow", then, she/he will feel an especially strong desire to ••experience•• an attractive person WHOSE WHOLE LOOK (... and manner of speaking, and walking gait, and smells, and style of dressing, etc etc) IS UNLIKE ANYTHING SHE/HE HAS HAD BEFORE.
    Like...
    Part if it is that the person is actually attractive, but, part of it is just that the person is so NEW and DIFFERENT.
    Speaking from experience -- That's such a thing, for some of us (in our younger wilder days), that it can actually ••enhance•• or even ••CREATE•• attractiveness. Like, a boy can be so "different" that it makes him actually HOT (... or, in the case you're talking about, a woman can be so "different" that it makes HER hot, to boys.)

    I think that's really what it is. No more no less. People want to try what they haven't tried before -- and "exotic" is just much, much more likely to be What You Haven't Had Before.

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    The REAL question, here, is whether the boy/girl in question is still going to want the "exotic" partner AGAIN... after that first experience.
    Once that ••newness•• isn't so new anymore... Will that attraction still be there? Will it still be as strong, or close?
    That's the risk, here.
    ... And honestly, if someone EXPLICITLY says they like someone's "exotic" look/vibe, I don't think that's a good thing. Because what they're

    • implying -- whether they're even aware of it or not -- is that they just wouldn't be as attracted to that person anymore if she/he became too FAMILIAR... and thereby not "exotic" enough anymore. There are exceptions, of course. Some attractions are just so amazingly strong, and so irresistible, that they'll have the same power for years, or even for a lifetime. But... those are the ••exceptions••. In general, you'd be better off with a boy who finds you HOT, or BEAUTIFUL, or ALLURING, etc etc. as opposed to "exotic". Because "exotic" can only get less and less, as time goes on. Whereas those other things can keep growing stronger and stronger... for the rest of yr whole lives.

    • Tx for the MHLuv <3

  • Exoctic-looking people tend to look better; a lot of models look at least somewhat exoctic, but from some years now i'm so tired of seeing so many unusually beautiful people on tv and other medias, and i also started liking everything simple better, that i started appreciating simple beauty more than exoctic/ unusual beauty. This made me accept my boring face better too.

  • lol. If the woman on the 2 nd pic is plain then I should hide my face with a bag. By plain you mean classic right?

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have no idea what those terms entail, so let's make it simple: I'll tell you what I like in women, and you can decide for yourself whether that's considered "exotic" or "plain".

    - long, wavy hair, preferably a darker color like black, brown, or dark dyed colors
    - pale skin
    - colored eyes (blue, green, amber, etc.)
    - full lips
    - small, perky nose
    - toned and athletic hourglass figure
    - very short in height (~4'10 - 5'5)

  • For me it's not important if someone are exotic or "ordinary"/"common" looking and as long I finds the person good looking and attractive, I would date. But good looking people aren't common where I lives, so technically it would be exotic here (But common other places in the world).

    • where are you from?

    • Norway and therefor my username is "Curious norway".

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  • I'm all about the exotic, mysterious woman who exudes sexuality and fucks like mink.

  • The first one is more beautiful, but the second one looks way more chill. So I would go for the second

  • Top one is hawt, I also love her hair.

  • If you think about it everyone is exotic to other people.

    • i honestly didn't think of it that way. i guess i mean exotic to people in us

    • Yeah I already thought you did haha

  • I like plain women because she will not have to live up to a standard. She will not be afraid to be herself.

  • plain jane

  • Either i love all women except big ones lol but your cute as hell sexy lips and eyes

  • lady in the red has mt attention because of her smile and her eyes. I really like them

    • it's less about these particular models and more the concept! the last model looks very americanized

    • She could be. Both women are stunning, I just like that the second looks more positive and nice

    • i feel!

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  • I'd say it just depends on the woman in general. Both are pretty beautiful in my opinion. I wouldn't say I really have a preference between the two.

  • Plain.

    • why?

    • By plain I mean sobriety and simple , not much makeup to look different because that's really herself. She might be from a different country but still be plain.

    • I have seen a lot of exotic women where I live a lot of attractive women, but truth is also that they all ended up not being happy. I'm simple myself and like simplicity. I abstain myself from women who can be easily be approachable that's why still single till date. Simple/Plain women are most wanted and rate to find.

  • Love both

  • plain for me

  • Blondes and redheads always win me over :#

  • Plain😊

    • tbh you look more like exotic, I'm sorry 😅

    • i'm not offended i'm actually super flattered

    • i have always wanted to look exotic

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  • I like both haha

  • Plain women 👌

    • why is that?

    • I think they're usually better people. More genuine and less bitchy and stuff like that.

    • i think that's a huge generalization like massive

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  • home me plain.. but extreme plain with no makeup at all

  • nice.

  • natural

  • If she's the women I can trust
    I don't care if she's plain sexy or exotic 😋

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