Hey, I saw that you're from Germany. So first of all I'm gonna give you a little warning here, just for you: Ich finds super, dass du über dieses Thema sprichst, aber ich kann dir nur raten, das Ganze nicht an die grosse Glocke zu hängen. Zumindest nicht auf dieser Webseite. Die sind hier alle total urteilend und aggressiv, wenn es um cuckolding geht. Ich sag dir das aus eigener Erfahrung. Wenn du schreibst, dass dich das anmacht, haben sie gleich alle das Gefühl sie seien was Besseres und du seist irgendein Loser. Insbesondere die Männer.
So, I can tell you a little bit about my relationship with this fetish. A few years ago, I was super into cuckolding. It was my biggest sexual fantasy ever. I really, really wanted to try it. My longterm-girlfriend didn't know anything about this and I was scared to tell her. As you probably agree, it's something very personal/intimate to confess to a girlfriend. Eventually I did tell her and just like I had feared, she got VERY angry at me. I didn't understand why. I tried to explain to her that I didn't want to sleep with other girls and there was no catch. I simply wanted her to have fun. In the beginning, my girlfriend found it very hard to believe me.
After a while, she started to believe me and we had a lot of conversations and discussions about this topic. I tried really hard to convince her. I said: "don't you want to try it at least ONCE?" But my girlfriend was 100% against it. Finally, she explained to me why. Apparently, my girlfriend is not able to separate love and sex. If she has sex with anyone, she will naturally fall in love with that guy. I believed her because she IS actually that type of person. She has only had long-term relationships, she's never had any one-night-stand or friends with benefits. My girlfriend gave me a choice. She said: "look, we can do this if you really want to but IF we do it, I want to have a second boyfriend, not just a lover. I want to go on dates with him, go on vacation, fall in love with him... sex would be only one part." I thought about this for a few weeks. Then I told her no. I decided that it's too risky. Sharing her sexually would have been fun but sharing her romantically sounds like a recipe for disaster. We have an absolutely wonderful relationship and I didn't want to destroy this. I mean, what if she fell in love with another guy and decided to leave me? The danger was simply too big. In the beginning, it was really difficult to accept that I could (cont.)2 0 0 0never fulfill this fantasy. It really made me sad. Over the past few years, the urge became smaller and smaller. Instead, I developed a new urge. I know this sounds very strange but now I would actually love to be the bull to another couple. I think this experience might also be really hot. And my girlfriend recently told me that she wouldn't mind me sleeping with other girls, so now I'm seriously considering trying this out. I just need to find somebody to do it with haha ;-).
Very well written.
@mahicabezon Thank you!
I've been the guy to fuck the wife who's being watched by her husband. Once even, the wife insisted he lick off my cum from her pussy and clean off my cock... Ok That was a bit weird. I'm pretty straight but I allowed it because she wanted it. It's all part of the fantasy for both of them.
0 0 0 0That's great for you, but it wouldn't be something that a cuck would want to do. You probably could pay a cuck to fuck another woman. But it's good that you helped that couple out and gave them what they wanted.
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Do I know what it is? I could write a book on it.
There are many varieties of this sport.
Some husbands watch
Some husbands participate
Some husbands don't want to even be there
Some husbands want their wives to go out on "dates" and then come home and tell them about it.
Some husbands are dominant males, and some are submissive
Some husbands allow their wives to have a "stable of bulls," and some just want them to have one.
Some husbands only want out-of-town bulls, and some want them local. One way is more private, but the other way is way more convenient.
Some husbands want/allow a bull/bulls to live with them
Some husbands don't allow kissing on the upper lips, and some do
Some husbands don't allow their wives to fuck other men in their marital bed, and some crave it.
Some husbands actually drive their wives to the bulls house, and then pick them up later. It provides them more of a thrill.
Some husbands enter into polyamory relationships, because he wants the bull to be monogamous with his wife. That allows for the bull to fuck her bareback, and the husband likes that.
Some cucks are so extreme, that they hope and want their wives to get pregnant by another man.2 0 0 1and where did all your research information come from?
Thank you.. finally someone who accepts what I like
@BertMacklinFBI From first hand experience, from talking with hundreds of couples in the lifestyle. There are a lot of sites that you can go on and find out about this stuff. You can talk directly to people in the lifestyle. There really are about a million versions of the fetish.
Doesn't appeal to me. i like that my boyfriend wants me all to him self, I don't think I would feel loved if he was ok and willing to let me sleep with other men.
3 1 0 0it's about pure sex play with another guy.. no strings attached
@inayah I totally agree
Yh I know that I'd personally want to risk the amazing relationship I have. I'm very much in love. even if he asked me which I know he wouldn't I don't want him to be using that against me later on. its not worth it.
i know every branch of (cuck) im cuckquean.
yes watching partner with other do turn on, but are you okay if your partner also gets pregnant bye other guy?0 0 0 0no that's off limit, why that question tho?
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9 13I'd never be with a cuck. That's just a total lack of self respect right there.
2 3 0 0I fully respect myself and that has nothing to do with it
... you sure? Someone needs to tell your fetish... doesn't seem like you do, at all.
I'm sure because it's not about humiliation as you think it's about sharing
I know what it is but if my boyfriend was into that let’s just say we wouldn’t make a match. I’m asexual and totally against cheating, therefore letting other men have sex with me would make me extremely uncomfortable.
0 1 0 1I know about cucking, but it's not my thing. My boyfriend doesn't like to share, I don't like to share, it just wouldn't end in a positive way for us. I think we would lose respect for one another.
0 0 0 0we won't we'll lose respect for each other if we agree on it
That's just it, he would never ever in a million years agree to that sort of thing.
what if he agreed?
I would not want a boyfriend to let me have sex with a different guy
3 0 0 0why not if he enjoys too
I'd only like to be with one guy that can make it messy
how about that guy loving seeing you getting messy with other ones too.. its more fun for both of you
no..
0 0 0 0I know what it is but I couldn't be attracted to that kind of man
0 0 0 0what's wrong about it if I agree to let her have her way
No it's just if I'm having sex with other men what are you there for? Like I wouldn't even view as a man or in a sexual way again. I prefer men to be masculine
I am masculine and I'm dominant and i make her feel good.. its just I love sharing her
sounds like something for a bunch of pussies
0 0 1 0it's okay to be a liberal. we accept your way of life
0 0 1 0Maybe you are confusing cuckolding with stag fantasy?
cf.girlsaskguys.com/.../...8-8a55-4e39450d83c1.jpg1 0 0 0I'm impressed that you know about those two flavors. Most people just lump it all into one category.
@mahicabezon Yeah, many people don't even know what is cuckolding, they only have a general (and normally wrong) idea, so even less people know the difference. Normally only the people that are into this kind of lifestyle now the difference. Are you into it by any chance?
@mahicabezon Can you follow me so we can talk in private? It's kinda rare (at least for me) to find people that are into cuckolding/stag and I would love to talk with you about it =)
I know what it is, I think its a odd thing and not for everyone, Hate the idea of it personally but accept that some people like it
1 1 0 0Thank you for understanding
cuckoldry is an illness
0 0 1 0why?
0 1 0 0because I like watching her getting off
What's the motivation for that behavior? Why is that compelling for some people?
0 0 1 0i haven't met someone like that
0 0 0 0it isn't something you would be interested in?
i'm a voyeur so i somewhat understand it i think but i like to watch others
You don't enjoy being watched too?
What kind of guy watches his girl get fucked by another man and ok with that?
1 1 1 0Not a real man
a man confident of his abilities
What abilities to watch a bitch get fucked... that takes no effort 😂😂😂 and a shattered ego
lol that sounds cool
0 0 0 0are you being for real or sarcastic?
you want her to sleep with someone else.
0 0 0 0that's right
where are you from?
Germany, why?
Sounds like a big step, make sure you're sure
1 0 0 0you are a Tard.
0 1 1 0my ex wife is now in a 3 yr relationship with the guy i found to fuck her while i watched many times when we were married
0 0 0 0Ooooh. Ouch.
yep pretty much the ultimate cuckold senerio
that means there was no love from the beginning
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