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Should I give him a blowjob? Why do guys like blowjobs?

So we are not boyfriend & girlfriend yet, but we have known each other for 8 months, work in same place, went out before, madeout many times @my house & in his car, flirt, text, gives me rides home.
we have long talks all day & are open.
we have dreamt about one another before in sexual ways. He told me once but not wut I was doing but i think it's a bj.
we were sending flirty emojis all day of things we want to do to each other, like bjs & riding him.
But I have many fantasies
Not anything crazy but me wearing a nice dress & him in a tuxedo & we just push each other against the wall in this hotel room & makeout & so forth. But we have already had those makeouts where I have touched his private part he kisses my boobs & sucks my nipples & dry hump, handjob..
We talk of anythingor personal things, he gives we have gotten mad at each other twice on something small but we talked it out & stuff. We have madeout like four times now. He's been to my house. Seen my pets. Lol. But I don't feel weird or anything with his kisses. They feel nice & good. Everything feels fine & normal. I feel safe & he feels warm. He have normal kisses, tounge kisses, pecks, long short kisses, hard or soft, even a wet kiss once. But his kisses aren't bad & i think neither are mine.
I feel at peace & everything feels right. In text we Send a lot of tounge emojis to each other but tounge kissing doesn't feel gross we both like it a lot
should I do the bj? I feel comfortable to do it, I wonder why guys want that so bad.
but I'm 20 he's 23, we already made plans to do it &makeout & have good time in his car
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Most Helpful Guys

  • my advice is tp make jim go out with you and become boyfriend and girlfriend. otherwise it will just be friends with benefits until a better thing comes along. Dont go there until your at least dating. I think a guy needs a ring on a girl before going there but clearly you guys dont want to go that route.
    with the bj he wants to slowly push you into sex without a relationship.

    • I already told Him I will not have sex. That's y we always just makeout & dry hump & thats y he wants a blowjob. I'm going to have a talk that I will do it only if I'm in a relationship with the person but he seems really excited to makeout with me this next time &a he seems excited for the bj, we flirted a lot &a i don't wanna be passive

    • just set the limit where you want it. if you dont want to be passive tell him he needs to ask you out or no sex what so ever.

  • Keeping in mind the things you have mentioned you should definitely give him as at subconscious level of mind you also want to give him blow job.

    It's same reason why girls like to be eaten out and licked by the guy.

    Wish you good luck.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Don't do it in the car. That's just crappy sex.

    Find a comfortable, warm, private place. And do it ONLY when YOU feel YOU will enjoy it, not before.

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  • No. He needs to be your boyfriend first.

  • have you ever had someone lick your clit?

  • Not a fan of BJ's has yet to officially cum from one. The again not many woman like anal sex, so there is that.

  • then do it, I'm not getting the issue.

  • Oral sex is the most intimate kind of sex. To me anyway. I love controlling a woman's orgasm with my mouth and tasting her juices. Why don't you all just get a room and do it right?

    • He's not my boyfriend yet so I don't know wut to say

  • Yes you should. We like BJs because they feel good.

  • If you want to

  • a guy need a releave my dear and if he's not your boyfriend he cannot have sex with you yet

  • yes... you should give him with closed eyes and feel it like a lollypop and ofcourse you love him so there is no harm in giving him pleasure... guys like it as feels awesome

    • Give bj for 5 min and then rest and then again pump him... watch porn and learn more and suck well

  • it feels good.

  • give it to him

  • yes go for it

  • well, go for it!

  • don't give it if you don't want to

  • If you want to.

  • Why don't you both just become official? It sounds like you have a lot of chemistry. Then give him a bj if you're comfortable with it. Why do we like them? Because it feels sooooo good. Ask him to go down on you after. I'm sure you would love that too

    • That's y I'm hesitant. He's not my boyfriend so I'll try to have a talk b4 we makeout & stuff but I don't know what to say, I have never had a boyfriend

    • Just tell him how you feel and that you'd like to make things official

    • I just hope it goes well & I do want him to be boyfriend, I don't know how he will react

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