Are girls actually attracted to guys?

Question

From the surface anyone would say yes.
but when you analyse everything i begin to wonder.
1. Most girls aren't sexually stimulated by the male body, I've even heard females go as far to say they like men but not necessarily to view them, females just ooze sex.
This is also backed up by the fact females (even straight) mostly watch lesbian porn.
2. male-female relationships almost purely work off the desire and affection the man has for the woman.
men are excited, enticed and drawn to breats, thighs and just the female body in general which in turn excits the female back. Ie. This is all based on the attention and desire the man has for the woman.

it just seems women attract (even attract other women as most females have admittedly mentioned they are sexually attracted to girls but could never date one) and men are only desired for the security and affection they give women.
But its never the man themselves women are attracted to.
so are women actually attracted to MEN themselves?

Jay_Lauren · Accepted Answer

Haha lol.

1. I watch mostly hentai. I never really watch lesbian versions tho. I either watch it straight or gay. Lots of the gay. 😈👍

2. Trust me... I get turned on by the male body, and not really the female body at all. I've never had sex, but whenever I have a crush I mostly fantasize about it. Sighhhh.

3. I'm a pervert girl here, and I'm a lot more sexual than most of my female friends... so maybe I'm different from other normie girls I don't know.

4. I think in general the ways girls are attracted to boys and vice versa are kind of different. So we all like each other for the same things, but those things are measured differently. Like most guys tend to focus on the most sexual aspects, whereas most girls see the emotional side to be more important. But that does not mean girls aren't attracted to the male body at all, it just means it's importance means less than it does for dudes. And of course individuals all have their different measurements of these things. So some girls are more sexual, some guys are less vice versa. If that made any kind of sense...🤔

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

first, according to freud we're all innately predisposed to be bisexual so we could very well be attracted to both men and women alike
second, the fact that many women watch lesbian porn -not my case, I actually prefer gay male porn- is usually because they can relate to what the woman is feeling rather than being attracted to their bodies
-third, get through your thick skull that our brains are wired differently and we don't react to the same stimulus which means we don't experience attraction the same way men do and the fact that you can't process that doesn't make it less true

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

Just when you thought some boys' excuses for not even *trying* couldn't possibly get any more ridiculous...

Bluemax · Accepted Answer

I kind of hope this is a troll. But it saddens me to think you might believe they don't.

It's funny you should ask. Exactly 365 days ago, I was at a pre-independence day get together at some friends' house. They had on the movie Top Gun. Not exactly a deep or gritty movie, but it's kind of fun... at least it was when I was 18. Any rate, during one particular scene, EVERY SINGLE WOMAN DROPPED WHAT SHE WAS DOING AND CAME AND WATCHED, JAWS AGAPE. My friend's wife shouted, "OH! OH! HERE IT IS LADIES! C'MON! THE BEST SCENE IN THE MOVIE IS ON!!!"

Here's the scene

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HNR_HofJ_Fs

Now, you watch it and tell me why you think EVERY SINGLE WOMAN PRESENT came from every corner of the house, the front yard, and the back yard to rivet her eyes on this scene.

Assuming this isn't a troll, I rather suspect that you're asking this question because, sadly, a woman hasn't found you physically attractive. If and when that happens, I hope you reevaluate this idea about women not being attracted to the men themselves.

nbbn5 · Accepted Answer

they are attracted to men, as i have seen girls around me really after guys due to their physical features like well built body, height for some, face and some other things
sure nice job, status makes them more attractive more money attracts girls but mostly the "GOLD DIGGER ONES"
i have seen that they are attracted to outgoing guys more as they are willing to take risks in life so these things all add up together in this

GirlExMachina · Answer

If women aren't sexually stimulated by the male body, then why does every straight or bi woman I know swoon at the helicopter scene in Captain America: Civil War?

nowhere_dani · Answer

My young padawan, you have much to learn.

Machiavelli · Answer

Yes we are physically attracted to men too. Maybe his strong arms. I dated a guy who had a nice tight ass because he played ball, I liked that. Every girl will be attracted to a guy for different reasons, I think that's really the case.