Girls, Is too much cum a problem for girls?

[Hyper896]

Hey everyone,

I have a question about something that has always concerned me but I have never really asked for anyone's opinion so here I am!

I'm a 36yr old guy and have always cum a lot. I mean, A LOT. I know every woman is different, some may like it, others not. But I have always been concerned it may be a deterrent. I have been with my current girlfriend a while now, and just recently I finally came in her mouth for the first time after many BJ attempts (I think worrying about the volume may have prevented me from cumming in our previous attempts). Thing is, there was, as usual, way too much. She could not keep it all in, almost choked, it went everywhere and I still kept cumming after she turned away... She seemed both shocked and turned on and said she loved it, but I am worried about it eventually becoming an issue. We are unsure how to go about it the next time. I trust and believe her when she says she loves the fact I have so much, but she seemed worried about the fact there is too much too swallow. That and apparently the pressure is high (I shoot far all the time). The one close friend (male) I asked for advice on this just thought it was a gift. But I love and respect her and don't want it too be uncomfortable for her. Does anyone think it is a big issue? Is it a turn off for some women? Thanks!

[tinyclit]

It'll be easier for her to handle more cum if your cock is not inside her mouth when you're cumming. The way I deal with lots of cum is to tilt my head back, open my mouth wide and have him stroke his cock and cum into my wide open mouth. I let the cum pool inside my mouth, then when he's all done cumming I swallow it. No choking and no gagging. Even if he fills my whole mouth with cum I can still swallow it all down no problem. It just takes multiple swallows is all. Then I lick and suck his cock squeaky clean. Sometimes he just keeps cumming and cumming and I feel like I have to start swallowing before he's done cumming. I try to resist that feeling because truthfully it takes a heck of a lot of cum to fill my mouth full to overflowing. He's only managed to do that twice in the last 18 years. Freak occurrences. But I guess you can do it every time, eh? That's fantastic. Getting a guy like you is like winning the lotto. Honestly. :)

[Hyper896]

Thanks! It was just the head in her mouth when I came, but she had to pull away when her mouth was full and I kept cumming and made a huge mess. I think maybe now we know it's too much we just need to prep better. Get a few towels down etc. We both love it when I cum on her so we have agreed when her mouth is full I'll just finish on her. Best of both worlds so should be fun!

[Tammy94]

Let gravity be your friend. My boyfriend and I don't actually do a lot of oral (he does more on me than I do on him), but when I'm doing him, I like a position where his penis is pointing up (as in towards the ceiling, so he's on his back or at least reclining) so my mouth is facing down (i. e. towards the floor). When he ejaculates, the semen still hits the back of my throat but then I open my lips just enough (while continuing to blow him) to let the semen run down around his penis and out of my mouth. I keep my throat closed and breathe through my nose.

[Hyper896]

Ahhh.. good advice! Will definitely try that!

[jazmiine]

no. if she said she loves it then gracefully accept it. don't try and doubt her truthfulness with you. personally I think it's great to have a lot of cum and you can probably last more from other people. you asking this kind of question makes it seems you are boasting somehow.

[Hyper896]

No, I'm not boasting. It has been an issue in the past with some, so I definitely don't think it's something to be proud of. It is just how I am and want my partner to always be safe and comfortable. I don't doubt her truthfulness, I am just worried that over time, it may BECOME an issue. It has worked like that before. She choked a bit which is never nice.

[jazmiine]

with some practice she will get use to it. and she said it herself she loves it, so don't beat yourself. and also try controlling your orgasm if you can come the rest outside her mouth then that's good enough. personally I also prefer someone with lot's of cum.

[Hyper896]

Thanks Jasmiine!

[UnicornKitten666]

Its the same with my boyfriend. He also have very much coming out. So when i first gave him head (tp the point where he came), i choked and struggled to swallow it. but as we did it more often, it was easier for me because i learned to swallow several times, while he's coming.
to me its not a turn off. it just makes it seem like he likes it more.
so my tip is just to do it a few more times, as it gets easier, but keep a towel around just in case. 😊
good luck!

[Hyper896]

Thanks!

[xMiaxBuerx]

She's lucky... I don't know about other girls but I love thick cum. I think it's just because you haven't had a relief for a while that's why it's a lot.

[Hyper896]

No, actually that's the weird thing, I tried getting myself off a few hours beforehand. I read it will reduce the amount. It doesn't for me. I've always had a very high sex drive though, so maybe that's it. I am ok with it personally, I have learnt a few tricks to deal with it. But frequency doesn't seem to matter, there's always just loads. Everyone is different I guess? Some guys lots, others less, some women like it others don't. Thanks for replying!

[LostInnocence]

there is no such thing as too much cum

[Hyper896]

Good to hear! My current partner is the first one to say she likes it so I am lucky!