Why does my boyfriend want to have anal sex so bad?

he doesn't force me but he has said to me few times that he wants to try anal with me.. we had never done it with our past partners.. do all guys like anal sex? girls have u done it before? does it hurt? i still said no to him.. but maybe in the future i might change my mind.. who knows
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  • Okay since you told him no then he should respect that. But the fact that he keeps asking you should be a red flag , that is something that he likes and enjoy. And if he does not get it from you then somewhere else. Im not saying that you should up and give him anal sex. Just be cautious of this. And let him know to stop asking u because you made up your mind already. I dont see how females can be with any guy that pressures him in this way. Any man that does this to me, I would not waste my time on.

  • You should just ruin the idea for him. So that he won't go there anymore.

    Two ways to just totally poison the whole thing, in his mind:

    1)
    "oh yeah... you wanna give it to me like I'm a little boy, huh"

    2)
    "mm that's right... you want a nice **small** hole for yr little guy, mmhmm"

    ahhahahaa. Let's see if the boy is still as... enthusiastic, after you drop THOSE associations on him. lol.

  • Eh it not awful. I'd start with like other but then stuff. Like let him finger you back there until you are comfortable enough with it. Whichever you may never be and the first few times it will feel uncomfortable but it also can be amazing. Also make sure you relax or it will hurt... and lube is your friend.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Curiosity.
    Why would you want to try a satsuma if you've already eaten a mandarin orange?
    They seem so similar, it's hard to resist wanting to know if a different hole offers a different feel. Perhaps it's hard for you to understand this as a straight female because you don't find yourself staring at the two orifices, right next to eachother always choosing one and having to ask yourself how come tho?

  • its a lot of fun, just use lube, if he's large just be vocal with him, and let him know if he's hurting you

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  • my boyfriend is like that too. he's just curious but it's meh :/ kinda don't want a dick in my ass.

  • Tell him sure as long as you get to do it to him as well. You can thank the porn industry in why a lot men are so wrapped up in anal and blowjobs. Yes these things have been around for every, but the porn industry is were we most likely saw it first.

  • He probably have a scating fetish

  • If he try and be gentle with you, it will not hurt... may be the first time it go in, it hurts a little... but you'll start to like it...

  • Make him take a strap on first then he won't want anal anymore.

  • I haven't, it doesn't sound appealing at all.

  • its not as bad as you think it is it may sound painful but its only painful for a little bit then its just 100% pleasure i almost prefer it over anything else

  • Because it's tight, don't do it unless you're really comfortable with it

  • fantasy I guess

  • I don't know why he's so anxious about it. I did it to a woman once, who was experienced in it. I did not enjoy it. It's a tight hole with nothing beyond that. A pussy totally hugs a cock. An ass does not

  • it's because he can't and he thinks others can

    but it's definitely not about you

  • Because it's tighter for them and it stimulates a new feeling. I personally don't enjoy it but don't ever let someone force you into doing something you don't wanna do.

  • He watches too much porn, and sees you as a sex object. If you decide to accommodate his perversion use plenty of lube and tell him to go slow.

  • he want something new.

  • it's tighter

  • I have heard that some females prefer it.

    only use the different size beads first, as it'll be uncomfortable for a while.

  • Since it isn't his butt He is so eager...🖒

  • When you're giving him oral slide a finger or 2 in his bum
    he will see why you don't like it and change his mind

  • Were you virgin (vaginal)? because at these day and age anal virginity is the only thing that is left with most women if not all.

    Therefore some men like anal sex, because they wanted to feel how being the "first one" feels like.

  • No don't do it it will hurt the both of u and I never done it I'm a virian but if u don't know what ur doing don't try

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