Guys, what do you think if a woman cries during sex?

Question

Let's say she's very emotional and sensitive, would it weird you out? Honest opinions please.

wubbalubbadubdub · Accepted Answer

if it's out of joy or ecatasy, it would turn me on a little, if she cries coz it'l hurting, we'll try a diff one or save it for another day, if she doesn't have a reason , i'll ask her, is this helping, if not, i'd get down and prepare her cocoa or sumthin. and would love to hear how many of her friends are bitches and for what reasons? if she says the sex is helping, then Voila, sex is her remedy for being sad or crying. i cnt say about all bt mine cries all the time (nt during sex) so just imagine the aspirin money saved and we get to do it more often! win-win!

PlsWork · Accepted Answer

If she would like to keep on going and cry because of pure emotion so she's not crying over a loss, than I would love it. But if she would want to stop, I'd instantly do it, hold her close if she wanted me to. I don't show much emotion so if she would, it's a turn on for me.

EveBloom · Accepted Answer

Girls cry sometimes because of the sensations and emotional attachment they feel towards the guy. It is normal, and should be considered as a confirmation of all the beautiful emotions she has for her so.. But guys tend to think there is something wrong :D

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

I would think that's not normal, stop sex, try to make sure they're ok and then leave at the earliest opportunity

Alexgagnon · Answer

I have been with an ex who started crying half way through lol. I lost the will to continue so I got dressed and left lol
if she started crying after an orgasm I would just laugh and ask her what the hell was wrong with her lol

JSmith925 · Answer

I would be fine with it as long as she was not unhappy or having a crisis of conscience. I have actually been with women who did this because they were overwhelmed with emotion. I just showered them with affection and kissed their tears away.
~JSmith

TheCunningLinguist · Answer

Emotional orgasms are actually quite common. Even if he's never witnessed one before, once he knows that and he knows you are not hurt, all will be fine. Unless hesb a complete d-bag.

Artesian · Answer

If like you said it is because you feel happy and close to me and I make you feel so good that you cry, I think it could be sexy, and intimate, and loving, and close af. That I am able to make you feel so emotional, in such a good way, would be a real turn on to me. I would just want to hold you and be even closer to you.

If it was because of something else, then no. I'd want to know you're enjoying what we are doing both physically and emotionally.

Jaquav · Answer

I would get really worried it's because of me. If the girl says it's something else and maybe something like deeply emotional then I would be ok with it. I wouldn't keep going though, even if she told me to, like no way I'd continue. I'd just lie with her and talk about it until she's feeling better. Then afterwards would I be ok with continuing the sex? Maybe if she was really pushy about it (because deep down, physically, I obviously want to, but I'd be more comfortable with just doing it again some other time.

dropkicknj13 · Answer

I've had that happen 3 times lol it didn't weird me out but I immediately stopped and switch to "what's wrong?"

sawno · Answer

I'd assume there is a lot of pain in side of her, contious or subcontious. I see it as a gift if she doesn't crybecause of negativity because it can be a sign she feels loved enough she is letting all her past pain out. In the moment it can be a bit of a turnoff though, i'd rather continue to cuddle.

GingerGuy · Answer

As long as she talks and lets me know what's going on it's fine. It's only if she were to say nothing and just cry and not tell me anything that it's "weird". Leave us to imagine the worse.

Ellie_copter · Answer

I think most guys might freak out , out of fear of hurting you.

TadCurious · Answer

Unless I was really certain the crying was some sort of "tears of joy and happiness" type thing I would be disturbed by it.

D4nth3m4n · Answer

turn off.

gmanhotman · Answer

yes crying either way wouldn't be my first emotion I was looking for during sex. that being said depending on the reason I'd be willing to talk about it move on and try again next time.

Spaceman1985 · Answer

I have been known to immediately get into protector/ nurturer mode and ask what's wrong and try to comfort the woman. Yes, it's disconcerting to see a woman cry while / after you're done having sex with her, but I can only imagine how embarrassed she must feel, so I figure if there's anything I can do to lessen the awkwardness (and of course earn "brownie points"), why not do it? Long story short: try not to judge, especially not before seeking to understand.

emerald77 · Answer

It's kinda weird.

thatguyfromtoronto · Answer

I would ask her, sheesh, I know I don't have a huge dick but there's no need to cry over my size down there... as a joke. But in an honesty, I would wonder wtf, did I do something wrong?