Why did my boyfriend start carrying a condom in his wallet?

I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend is 18. We're both virgins and I need a bit more time until I want to have sex with him. He isn't pushy about it which is nice. We dry hump and make out quite often. Today I saw a condom in his wallet which I didn't see yesterday. A few seconds after, he pointed out to me that he has it. I'm just wondering did he want to tell me something and what does it all mean.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A lotta dudes carry condoms... but a wallet isn't a good idea... i usually buy shorts n jeans that have a condom sized pocket. Even have underwear with a pocket to hold a condom. problem is i live in a Latin country where birth control is not practiced. So most times we dont use one. But slowly theyre gaining popularity. and now i buy them whenever i can find em. But this country is known for big dudes and magnum and duo XXL are more common. luckily i can wear em just fine. So I almost always carry some...

  • He just wanna make sure to be prepared for when you tell him you are ready, he doesn't want something like "I'm in the mood" and he has no comdon, so you say, "meh, maybe another time", besides, telling you he is carrying a comdon is kinda telling you he is waiting for you to be ready.

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  • Here is the part where you have to judge his character. How is he around other girls? Does he flirt with other girls? Does he check ouy other girls more than the average Joe?
    My first thought would be that it's there in case he gets the chance with another girl.
    Scenario two is that it's there in case you're both ever ready to do it, he's prepared.
    Scenario three is that he wants his friends to see it so they'll think he's some stud.

  • i think its nice that he wants to be prepared, it looks like you get hot and heavy.. it shows that he really wants you but 16 is quite a young age to loose it, just tell him that you're not ready and maybe do somwrhing else to relive the sexual tension.. if you really like him and he likes you back.

  • That's the worst place to keep a condom by the way, don't use that one! They come in a box for a reason.

    It seems to me that he wants to make clear that HE IS ready or maybe wants to flaunt it to others.

  • Not good to keep condoms in your wallet. Might want to let him know.

    • Why though?

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  • I think that he might keep it for the moment you want to have sex with him. It would be really stupid if you 'finally' want to have sex, only to have that plan ruined by something so silly as not having a condom.

  • He is just saying he is ready for sex and is being responsible and prepared for it. Some girls become a bit more comfortable with the idea and may allow it happen once they know for sure he has protection. I'm sure he is just hoping.

  • keepin condoms in wallet causes micro tears from rubbing, I use an Altoids tin tell him to do the same. I was an idot and never used a condom my 1st time even thou it was in my wallet 4 feet away in my pants, being the girl you should tell him to wear it, men seem to forget until they get older and have enough pregnancy scares

  • It's a just in case thing. Don't overthink the condom. Stop dry humping and put it in. It's not a big deal

  • Dude wants to be prepared. Applause to him for doing that!

  • for the day he finally does have sex. I have noticed most of my more sexual friends do that

  • He has it so if you do decide you're ready, he's prepared.

  • he definitely wants to bang... he's giving you a hint

  • He wants to sleep with you.

  • My guess: he expects you to change opinions some day and wants to be prepared if /when you change.

    My opinion: a wallet is a bad place to keep condoms. They get wrinkled and fragile. Start having one (or a few) in your handbag and use that one the day you jump the jump.

  • He wants to be prepared if you do decide or maybe he's hinting that he's ready

  • sounds like it's his "just in case" condom. lots of guys do that.

  • translation : open your legs

  • You can ask him

  • Cheeeeeeetaaaa

  • Lol. All guys do that. Don't worry about it.

  • It isn't good to have a condom in a wallet, purse, etc it wears it out