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My boyfriend watches mommy porn, and it really bothers me. Should I talk to him about it?

Me (20/f) and my boyfriend (27/m) live together and have for a little over 10 months, but recently we couldnt make rent where we were staying and started temporarily staying w my mom, and i know he's into older women, he's been pretty honest about that, but latelt its been a little weird, my mom is in her late 40's and is single, and honestly looks fantastic for her age, but I've noticed him looking at her in a way that makes me really uncomfortable. I haven't said anything to either him or my mom, but every now and then when we're hanging out on the back porch, listening to music or smoking cigarettes, if she's wearing a dress, or a low cut shirt, he hangs out for a min then goes to the bathroom for about 20 min. And i mean he's not very discrete, he leaves his phone (probably on accident) open to the porn he downloads when he gets out and leaves it on the bed and the other day, his sister texted him and i answered (he told me too) and i saw the porn (i wasn't snooping it was open) and it was stuff like "son and mom" or "big breasted step-mom" and "family relations" and i understand kinks or fantasies, but could he be fantasizing bout my mom?
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  • Here's the problem. If he's not checking out your mom, he's checking out other older women. If that's what turns him on, he'll seek them out. He definitely seems to have a fetish for older women. That could be trouble for your relationship if opportunities to cheat arise. Definitely sounds like he's masturbating to your mom though. Be guided accordingly. I think I'd just find a better boyfriend.

  • Well, it's pretty obvious by now that he's fantasizing your mom. It's up to you how you want to deal with this kind of situation. Does it bother you to the point where it would impact the relationship negatively? Just think about that, and you'll have your answer on what you want to do. Good luck :)

  • ew I would um I mean do... uh do you feel comfortable asking that question? I mean yeah ya I would ask him about it personally I wouldn't want my daughter dating someone who's into that.

  • I think he's interested in your mom, and that you should tell both of them

    • 😞😢 i think im gunna tell them seperatly and probably end up telling him to stay at his moms or something. Im super uncomfortable about all of this.

    • I think it's a good idea. I understand girl, but you'll find someone way better for you !

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  • Ask him? That's all you need to do

  • Tell him it makes you uncomfortable. If he admits to checking out your mother then it's your decision from there.

  • you have to talk to him about anything that bothers you. poor communication will sabotage any relationship

  • talk to him about it

  • Yes, ask him gently about it

  • Boyfriend= Sick.

  • No doubt about it. He may have actually already nailed her.

  • He definitely wants your mum

    • 😕😢 greeaat. Should i confront him about it? I don't know what to do.

    • Yeah I would only person you can

    • No point in confronting him, he will probably deny it.

  • I think you should let him fuck your mom. It's a good family bonding activity and maybe your mom can learn him some new tricks.

    • I think it would be great, I love having my mom getting with many men so I get to have more siblings!

    • The more the merrier

  • It is very possible that he is attracted to her

  • He jerks off to images of your mom in his head if he doesn't already have pics of her in your phone.

  • Oh shit. That would really bother me too and I'd find it a deal breaker

  • Empty his semen tank every day and you won't have anything to worry about

    • We have sex everyday, if not every other day, and when we don't i blow him. So i dont think that's the problem.

    • Then when you satisfy him sexually , why are you in doubt?

    • Because he still masturbates quite often

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