Is it true that short and skinny girls have pain from big d*cks during sex?

A few of my female co-workers are short and petite and they told me they can't handle big penises because it's too much for their petiteness.

There's a new girl who works there and is Asian, and she's short and thin. She has a crush on me and while I normally don't date very thin women I have thought about asking her out. She's very pretty. But if we ever escalate to sex, I'm scared she won't like it because I'm... well... not small down there.

Is it really true that large penises hurt skinny or short girls?
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  • Mine is longer and very much thicker than average.

    Done quite a lot of girls of various sizes, done several short and petite girls who were either White or Asian, the shortest being a White girl that was 4'7 and really lightweight.

    For me deep penetration during sex is important therefore even the more petite girls I've done I've pushed most if not all of mine into her. Depth wise, most will be able to take 4" without an issue, 6" in some positions will definitely hurt her if you push it hard into her as it will go straight to her cervix. The difference isn't really that much where the girl isn't petite or short though.

    She hurting from the thickness, this one depends on your foreplay and how much you rush it.

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  • yeah well being a petite Asian myself, I can say that I have issues with bigger sizes for sure... the whole "all vagina's can deal with any D" is a fallacy... bigger bodies have bigger parts in general, its just common sense, that being said it just takes a little preparation and patience... and just because she is small doesn't mean it will be a problem for her, she might be just fine with it...

    at just above 5' tall for myself, my boyfriend is larger downstairs than average was definitely an issue for me at first, took us a month or so to be able to have sex after we first tried... even now he's just too long to fully penetrate in many positions... its not a problem for us though, very active and very enjoyable for both

    • Oh wow, that's what I fear. And I'm black at that.

  • No. It is not true. Regardless of the height and build of the woman, average vagina length doesn't vary much and does not appear to be related to other physical factors.

    The key is plenty of foreplay, hopefully including an orgasm for her, lubrication and relaxation, then going slow. Try not to bang the cervix hard unless the woman tells you she likes it.

    Remember the vagina is made to allow a whole human infant to pass through.

    • This!!!

  • I'm all chubby, but short and it still hurts, so it's not about being skinny. But I don't think either height or weight are the actual cause, but just how they are built. Some girls just have small vaginas, that's all.

    • Yeah one of the co-workers who said that is short and chubby too.

    • Define chubby, looking at your photo,, you don't look chubby,, you look perfect. If you are experiencing pain from a well endowed man,, just proclaim that he needs to slow the thrusting down and not push so hard.. he can even tease you with his size by inserting only the head of his penis for the first 5 minutes of love making, causing you to go nuts and wanting him to insert a little bit more of his shaft inside. Guys love tight pussy's,, tell him if he likes your tight little pussy, that he needs to be nice to her. You being tight, makes slow and unhurried love making very intense.

    • For me, chubby means a bit overweight, and that's exactly what I am. By just looking at my picture you can't really make a statement like that, since you don't see my body. And yeah... Thanks for the tips, I guess. I'm really not having a problem right now, since my boyfriend knows what he's doing.

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  • I'm 5'2" and my ex was large and slammed my cervix in some positions and it hurt.

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  • Just use lubricant. Make sure she is very horny. Lots of fingerplay, and try different positions.

  • This is such a bullshit myth.

    • Size of your body doesn't say what size your vaginal canal will be.

    • Yeah, I wasn't sure.

  • Not true.

  • Nope.

    • You ever slept with an "endowed" man?