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Why would a man want me to pinch his nipples and put a finger in his butt is he gay? im a lady by the way. I dumped him because I thought he might be bi?

The guy I went on a few dates with asked me to pinch his nipples and put a finger in his butt I didn't do it and dumped him as I thought he was possibly bi sexual or Gay. Why would a guy want his girl to finger his butt and pinch his nipples if not gay or bi?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • 1) what's it matter if he's bi?
    2) sexual preferences don't change anatomy. What feels good to a gay guy is gonna feel good to a straight guy - many are just too insecure to try things or relax enough about it for it to be fun (and some things just don't feel good to everyone. But in general...)

    Anyway, he probably wasn't gay or bi, he just knew he liked those things. I'd probably wait more than 'a few' dates to bring out the weird stuff, but whatever. Dumping him just for that is really strange though. Should a guy dump you if you asked him to go down on you, or take things slow, or anything that deviates from a quick PnV banging?

  • Some men have nipples that love to be pinched just as some women have similar nipples so there's nothing gay about that.

    Straight anal play is very erotic and is in no way gay. In fact, only 20% of gay males have anal sex if the stats are to be believed.

    Maybe, if he was otherwise attractive, you might go back and try to restart things.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I do not think he is either bi or gay. I do not know how familiar you are with male anatomy, but there is a part of some peoples sex life known as prostate massage. Some guys find it VERY pleasurable. It need not have anything to do with being gay, although I believe it may be something that gay guys do.

    Nipple pinching is probably a bit masochistic. He might like being dominated a bit.

    • Thank you for MHO.

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  • First off, he felt safe enough to tell you what he wanted. It's normal for a guy to have fantasies of women doing stuff like you explained to them. I have a straight bandmate who loves stuff up his butt a lot from his partners. It's nothing weird. And on second thought even if he was gay, or bi, it's a little harsh to just dump him because of it, he was obviously interested in you.

  • Personally, that does nothing for me, but some guys like it, without being gay, although the gays like it too, so...

  • dumping someone because you *think* he might be bisexual? really?

  • Maybe it just feels good for him.

  • there's nothing wrong with being bi. It's no different than having type AB blood.

  • Some odd guys out there now. They used to get a slap and told to fuck off but the media has let them out of the cages now. Perverts

  • lmao

  • i like hard bites on my nips

  • Yeah he might be

  • Tell him you don't like it.

  • some guys do like anal sex but it doesn't means he is gay. gay means to be in love with another guy

  • Neither... GEEEEZE

  • It's just something that gets them off I doubt he was gay or bisexual

  • Aren't most women bi themselves?
    I'm sure you'd be down to kiss another women
    how would you feel if a man dumped you for that?

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