How do I give a blow job?

I want to give my boyfriend a blow job but I don't know how to do it. So the guy I'm with now is only my second serious boyfriend so I'm inexperienced in anything other then kissing. I want to give him a blow job but I have no idea how to, or how to even get on started? Someone please help me as I have no idea what to do and am kinda nervous.

Also, this may sound really silly but like I said I'm really inexperienced, will I need to let him see me naked for him to get turned on?

One last thing any guys who can tell what would be big turn off while doing this, or just what I should make sure not to do, that would be a big help!

Any help would be really appreciate thanks!
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Most Helpful Guys

  • you can just use your inexperience to your favor! let him know you never did this and you want to learn, it will get him turned on just by knowing that because:
    1 he'll know it's your first time doing blowjobs, and that can be hot
    2 he'll know you care about pleasing him since you try to learn and improve, and he'll definitely appreciate that
    3 he'll know that you'll do this often because you want to learn
    4 he'll know he can tell you if he doesn't like something and that you'll change that, he might not be able to tell those things to a girl that already knows how to blow

    • A good answer thanks

  • Use a banana or a cucumber or something to practice, and just look up some instruction videos online! Main thing is to not use teeth and make sure you spit on it a lot! Try to look up to him in the eye as you do it too, as I've found that's really hot

Most Helpful Girl

  • Well half the fun is learning. So laugh cuz it's hella awkward and enjoy.

    • So it's not a big deal if it's awkward?

    • if you're not ready for this, don't do it. It's very awkward just think about what you're going to do and for the record he should also want to. ask him what he likes and then you tell him what you like.

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  • No teeth!!! I am not sure the best way to practice but I would think using a cucumber or something may help you get the idea.. do not blow even though it is called a blow job and only minor sucking is needed. the majority is your mouth creating a wet up and down movement to stimulate.. that is pretty basic description.. and no you do not need to be naked but topless is certainly a plus

  • Just suck it like a lollypop

  • step on remove pants. step two put mouth over dick. step three, move mouth down as far as you can. step four move tongue around step five don't bite. step six move head up. step seven repeat step three and four over and over *sub text the best people who give BJ dont use hands unless playing with balls*

    • Haha lol

  • It's like three questions in one post. I tell you about my personal preference if you're interested and want to blow your boyfriends mind, I'll tell to you.

    • Sorry it's so many questions, I just have no idea what to do and don't want to some how mess it up. Also yes I would like your opinion!

    • pm me

    • Sorry I can't pm people I have to be level 2

  • suck him. be naked. don't fart.

  • maybe you should try a wig on because you can then become a different woman and maybe a wig give you more confindence to do it

  • if you don't know how to give it you ar enot ready yet

  • take it slow, make out then work your way to it. kiss and lick before going all the way on it and go as far as you can. no teeth. naked would help but up to you. can do 69 so both of you are satisfied. if you don't plan on going any father then make sure you finish him and swallow.

  • See porn

  • Just your mouth and hands!

    • no hands! mouth and throat!

    • mouth hands and deep throat always