Why am I always in the mood for sex?

[Anonymous]

I am always wanting some kind of sexual pleasure and I don't have a single clue why. It's either I'm wanting sex, or wanting to masturbate if I can't have sex with my boyfriend at the moment. My boyfriend doesn't mind having sex once or twice a week (minimum) at all, but sometimes it's like I want sex like 2 to 5 times a day for whatever reason. Why is this?

Yesterday at 11:00pm me and him were cuddling on the couch because we were tired. I was so dead tired an hour before and wanting to sleep so badly. Then randomly I asked my boyfriend if he wanted to have sex because I instantly felt aroused/horny and wide awake for some reason. He looked me at me strangely and told me not at 11:00pm but said in the morning or afternoon tomorrow (today) cuz he was very tired too.

Early yesterday morning I woke up around 7am and stayed in bed till my boyfriend woke up too about 10 minutes later. I felt so aroused again as well and was in the mood for sex. Yes we did end up having sex yesterday late morning/early afternoon because my boyfriend said he was up for it too since he also promised we would.

Why is this happening? It's not "that time of the month" where I am an emotional and hormonal roller coaster because my period ended like 1.5 - 2 weeks ago. I find this strange because I'm not always like this. But yet at the same time I really like it because when I do have sex, it is very pleasurable, orgasms feel amazing, and I just feel happier after throughout the day.

So, why does this happen? My boyfriend said he doesn't mind it at all because he genuinely does like having sex with me because it makes me happier and he can get closer to me rather than him just getting a girl's body.

[GHimes]

Well I can try to help.

For anyone sex releases many chemicals such as serotonin and dopamine which are chemicals that help increase happiness and pleasure or are known to. these chemicals are usually what are supplemented in antidepressant drugs which is why they are commonly the main reason for people enjoying sexual activities such as liking your case masturbation or sex.

When you become extremely stressed sometimes the human body gives you a craving for something that will reduce his stress and in the case of most people it's masturbation or for you could be sex. These chemicals from the brain help reduce your stress level which keeps you calmer and happier and prevents you from freaking out or having a mental breakdown.

If you have more questions feel free to ask me.

[Asker]

I do actually have some more questions if that's fine... Like sometimes when I need to be getting important things done, it's almost as if my brain doesn't comprehend that and I'd rather have sex or masturbate. Sometimes my boyfriend will notice and actually try to get my sex drive lower but purposely having bad sex, but then I'll just resort to masturbation because the urge is that bad and uncontrollable it seems. If me and him wake up really early, it's like I don't want to get out of bed but would just want to stay in bed and have some sort of sexual pleasure. I find this very strange because I'm not generally an overly sexual human being. It's just the odd time that this happens and it's very annoying to make it go away when your sex drive is higher than ever.

[Asker]

sorry, *by purposely

[GHimes]

I see. Well the thing is about a sexual drive is that you can't purposeful you lower it it's Unique to your person and your stress levels. To make the urge diminish would be to relieve the sexual urge anytime you have it but the problem with that is like you said is that it comes in the most inopportune times that it can cause issues with the work that you're doing. I would say talk to your boyfriend about finding ways for you to satisfy your sexual needs but not putting hearing to the point to where he's constantly having to have sex as this can also be bad for him as if I won't have time to recover if your constantly having sex

[Asker]

Well if I'm at work and get a strong sexual urge, I can't just go and take care of it because I work in a hospital in a laboratory where it could affect a lot of things. But if I'm at home, I probably could. I have tried talking to him about it. He's tried thinking of many ways and I have too. But nothing seems to come to mind that would work because sometimes these sexual feelings come randomly and without a reason to them as well.

[GHimes]

Well again like I said for you it might be different at the most inopportune times. Unfortunately the human body knows what it wants and when it needs to maintain its form of homeostasis and sometimes to lower stress levels and keep you calm even though you mentally you might be calm physically you might not be and so again that's where this comes in and that craving per-say exists. The only thing I could think of again would be to either talk to your boyfriend about having your increased sex drive and kneading relief or finding more than just one way to relieve it to the point to where you are going to be satisfied for a long enough time so you can get productive work done. As you said you can't just drop what you're doing because you working a laboratory and go do your thing and then come back it's not something you can do because of messing with results I guess is the best word.

[Asker]

that's all true and i remember hearing a girl who had a high sex drive too create a schedule with her fiance of when they could have sex depending on the times she felt overly sexual or "in the mood" because hers apparently were routinely feelings as she said. do you think that'll help if i pay attention to the times i feel most in the mood for sex and then figure something out for that?

[Jaquav]

Because you're marriage material? Lol, don't worry about it. Most guys will find it to be an awesome quality.

[Asker]

But sometimes it can be ver annoying when I know I need to get important stuff done, but just wanna have some sort of sexual pleasure all day every day... Plus, my boyfriend sometimes gets a bit bothered by it. He says he loves having sex with me, but he doesn't always have time when he's busy with his work often.

[johnmichaei]

maybe just have a high sex drive baby don't worry about it enjoy it

[Asker]

well sometimes it can get annoying when i need to get really important stuff done and i only wanna have some sort of sexual pleasure going on. my boyfriend sometimes gets bothered by it too because I'm putting off things i need to get done to take care of this ridiculous urge i have

[johnmichaei]

it's really not annoying you just need something done no matter what it is any little thing will take care of you long as it's done

[Asker]

sometimes it feels good because if I'm fooling around with my boyfriend, it can feel very good because I'm already really aroused. but at other times it can be annoying. when i'm working at my desk trying to get important stuff done and all i can think about is sex, masturbation, etc because i have a really strong arousing feeling... well then i end up getting no work done

[johnmichaei]

they should be things you can do to take care of you while you can get back to work

[Asker]

like what? at least if you don't mind saying some suggestions because I'm literally lost as to what i could do

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is a nympho, so I know what it's like.

[kiradavis]

Can you keep up? lol

[Opinion Owner]

@kiradavis Hell no! lol I let her have a friends with benefits.

[biguyct]

@kiradavis i can :P

[kiradavis]

What do you mean?

[Opinion Owner]

@kiradavis I let her have a sex buddy. No dating, but just fucking.

[kiradavis]

Shit! That's pretty open-minded of you. lol

[Anonymous]

if you don't mind can we do sex texting I want help you

[Asker]

Uhm... I have a boyfriend so no?

[Opinion Owner]

well ohk and I thought you have nymphomaniac

[Asker]

Oohhh i see. I tend to have a very strong sexual desire with my boyfriend or by myself, but not with other guys.

[Opinion Owner]

yeah I know but you can share sexual desire with us if you want as friend and nothing