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How many of you are okay with sharing your S/O?

Here's some details. Recently while watching porn I saw a video of a 3 way of 2 guys and one girl where the girl was one of the guys S/O. I enjoyed the video for what it was until a thought ran across my mind, "what if she was my girlfriend?" Which made me question whether or not I would be okay with a threeway with another guy. For me the answer was no! But I've heard a lot of different opinions where others get really excited by that. So girls and guys whats your opinion on sharing your S/O with another person the same sex as you? For clarification, guys, would you share your girlfriend with another guy? Girls, would you share your boyfriend with another girl? Vote in the poll and share your thoughts on the matter. Also what if it was switched, and how does that change your thought process. Because even though I wouldn't share my girlfriend with another guy, for some reason in my mind, a 3way with two girls seems fine to me (opposite sex). How does that make you feel and how do you think its different?
I love sharing
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Not at all
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I would consider it.
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Only with opposite sex. (Details in description)
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  • Though I've never done It and in fact I've only ever had sex with one single girl (my wife), I'm very open to the idea.

    I'm generally curious about any form of sharing (with other girls or other guys) but my strongest sexual fetish/fantasy is cuckolding. This means that the woman (in my case my wife) would have sex with another guy. I wouldn't participate but simply watch. Also, it would be a half-open relationship type of thing since I would promise her to remain faithful (this belongs to the sexiness of the fantasy).
    Cuckolding has quite a lot in common with BDSM. It is largely about power dynamics, humiliation etc.. However, contrary to BDSM, it is not about physical pain. There are no whipping or spanking involved. The pain (jealousy) and the humiliation are completely mental/emotional.

    Now, many people find it strange and confusing that people are into this kind of thing. In my opinion, cuckolding and BDSM can be compared to parachute or bungee jumping. Especially cuckolding is all about fucking your mind. Sometimes, this can be even more thrilling than the stimulation you get through physical touch (just think of a really, really hot dirty talk for instance). When you watch your girlfriend/wife spread her legs for another guy and him going inside of her, I imagine this feeling to be similar to jumping out of an airplane or off a bridge. At first, your panic button clicks and you go all archaic. Your thoughts run wild and you think: "oh my god, oh my god, oh my god, what the fuck is happening, what am I doing here?" But after some time, your parachute opens and you realize that you're not actually in any danger. Your jealousy feels real but it is irrational. That other guy might be fucking my wife but he's not actually "stealing" her from me or harming her in any way. In the end, you land in the soft grass, happy and exhausted and you feel like "I'm never gonna do this again... but wait, maybe I wanna do it again soon!"

    However, if my wife ever opens up to the idea of cuckolding, I do have certain standards. People who watch too much porn often think that cuckolding girls are just "whores" who fuck literally anyone. In reality, that's far from true. Most cuckolding couples are actually quite picky when it comes to choosing guys.
    For example I would feel very cautious about one-night-stands. I'm not categorically against it but I would have to have a good impression and feeling of trust towards that guy. Also, there can't be any love (cont.)

    • love involved. I'm willing to share my wife's body but not her heart. If she developed feelings for another guy or vise versa, I would press her to stop seeing him immediately. I think the absolute ideal case would be a guy who is in a committed relationship, who's girlfriend knows about it and is fine with it and that the guy would establish a regular thing with my wife (and me). Basically, I should feel like I can also be buddies with him outside of the bedroom. And finally, I would want to be there and watch my wife have sex with that other guy. I wouldn't be okay with her going to some hotel - both for safety reasons and because that takes all the fun away on my part.

    • You almost made me want to try this. But I still don't think I'd be okay with it. But your take was very interesting to read about. You should probably post this as a My Take so others can read it.

    • Thank you very much for your nice reply. The thing about this sexual fantasy/desire is that a lot of people seem extremely judgy about it. At least on this website, that is. Personally, I don't really get it because I'm a very tolerant person and everyone has his/her own thing they like. I generally try not to judge people, even if I don't understand something. Unfortunately, however, I've gotten quite a lot of hate on here for openly talking about this. Especially a lot of guys like to fluff themselves up and act all cocky and arrogant and call me names just for the fact that I enjoy being submissive in the bedroom. So that's why it's really nice and refreshing to get such a polite reply but it's also why I'm cautious to write a MyTake about it. I will think about it though ;-).

  • I've been involved in a couple MFM stuff, just with friends, not my S/O. I did organise a GB for her birthday though.
    Been involved in lots of the FFM/FMF, three+somes with my S/O.

    • whats the difference between FFM and FMF?

    • TECHNICALLY, based on the semantics of all these things, the letters are supposed to dictate the type of activities to take place. By that I mean. MFM= Only male (s) on female sexual interaction. MMF= male on male interaction also takes place. Therefore, based on that logic (although people seem to ignore it) FMF= Only male and female (s) interaction while FFM provides female on female interaction. It might not seem like there's a difference to you, but believe me, there's a huge difference.

    • You're a lucky man

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Most Helpful Girls

  • The thought of three people in one bed alone is too much for me. But I'd have to share my boyfriend, no way in hell! I wouldn't do it with two guys, I wouldn't do it with my boyfriend and a girl. I just wouldn't do it. No one is allowed to touch my boyfriend that way without me getting really upset.

  • My boyfriend mentioned a threesome and it emotionally scarred me.
    Then there were two instances where it almost occurred with 2 different friends. Let's just say, those didn't go over very well, and my boyfriend doesn't bring it up anymore :)

  • I wouldn't mind sharing my boyfriend as long as:

    1. I am priority and centre of attention
    2. He doesn't compare me
    3. He still loves me
    4. He will continue the relationship as normal
    5. No pregnancy
    6. No STDs

  • Nope, I would never want to share my boyfriend.
    We're in an exclusive relationship both emotionally as well as sexually. I would see no reason as to why his dick should be 'shared' with another female.

    • i love to share my husband

    • @Kelly6 To me, relationships are about being with only one person, and vice versa. Good for you but to each their own.

    • I enjoy her company

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Noooooooope.

  • if it's porn, then isn't it all staged anyway?

    • Unless it is homemade porn (not to be confused with "amateur" porn)

  • I would be a terrible share bear, but a MFM with 2 straight guys is a nice fantasy.

    • Let me know if I can help.

  • Older women is the answer.

  • Of course a threesome with two girls seems fine, that's on the bucket list of most men.

  • I love watching her get off - with me or anyone else. I think she would look great with me fucking her from behind while she blow someone. Or visa vera.

  • NOOOOOOO. She is mineeeeeee. I love her too much! I hate it enough whenever some random guy hits on her, I'm not sharing. She's special to me. I don't want some other girl being inserted to our relationship.

  • adding a third person to your lovemaking can lead to many complications that may not be immediately evident. plus there is only ever one dick in my fantasies, mine

  • No, hell would need to freeze over first.

  • I will never share him! *-*

  • Hell no

  • Seems like you'd have to be a really weak man to be a cuckold.

    • Or supremely confident.

  • Nope! I would never ever want to nor consider sharing my S/O.

  • *Squeezes hypothetical girlfriend against me far more firmly than is likely appropriate.*

    Mine.

  • Me and my boyfriend do threesomes often

    • do you do FMF, MFM, or both?

    • Both!!

    • very interesting. How do you go about dealing with jealousy, if there is any?

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  • I'm straight so why would a three way with another girl appeal to me? If he insists on it, then i will leave him.

    • but would you be okay with 2 guys?

    • No, not even with two guys. I don't think a straight male would want to see another male naked, also if my boyfriend likes to see me getting fucked by another man, I would question his feelings for me.

  • Hell No, not even in a million years

  • I'd consider it.

    • what are your pro and cons?

    • Pros: A healthy sex life that doesn't get stale. Potential new friends made. Cons: Possible jealousy and ending of the relationship, higher risk of STDs and pregnancy.

    • For me I think the jealousy would be too much

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  • Over the years I have always enjoyed sharing my girlfriend w another guy. 4 hands is better than 2. I Enjoy the passion level and the beauty that a woman seems to achieve, being the center of attention. No male to male contact , all the focus on her. I am secure enough to know that she will always come home with me and that we were just doing it for her benefit occasionally and just using the other guy!

  • I thought the term is polyamory?

    • You could be right, my understanding is that polyamory would be continued relationship with the extra partner. Im referring to a one time thing. But again, you may be correct.

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