Call me old fashioned but I don't think we should be having sex with someone you're worried will get bored.
Of course, always do your best to impress him and put in effort but I'm only saying this because I know the feeling of worrying he'll start to wander. It sucks. Sex feels like a performance.
Anyway, just talk to him. Wait til he's horny and talk about it, because he's most likely to be open about what he likes and what he wants to do. Share something kinky that you'd like, so he feels more relaxed about sharing his kinks. I always like to remind my guy that he can tell me anything, no matter how weird it might be because it doesn't mean I'll feel pressured to do it and that I'd always let him know if something made me feel uncomfortable. That way, he won't feel like he's pressuring me to do something extra kinky I won't like.
When you buy a cute outfit, tell him you got it because you want to look good for him. Same with your hair etc. guys like it when they think you're trying to look good for them. Show him that you're open to sexual experiences, and remind him that sometimes new stuff can get awkies but it's part of the fun and don't be too serious because you need to be able to laugh when something doesn't work out:0 0 0 0Why would he get bored?
There's no 'trick' to keeping a guy sexually interested. Assuming that you're being enthusiastic about sex and not making him feel like he's fucking a dead fish and he still gets 'bored', all that means is that he never really wanted more from you than to just get his dick wet.0 0 0 0if you feel like you there's a possibility that he's gonna be bored with you just because you won't do sexual stuff, you shouldn't be with him
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Give him blowjob every single time like it's the last time you suck a dick in your life. Let him finish off in your mouth and look him deep in the eye while swallowing it.
Offer him your ass to fuck. Many girls are crying over anal, it will likely make you 80% better than his previous lovers. If you're in serious relationship, take pills, no guy likes condoms but all likes a sweet creamie. 😉 Surprise him with unexpected treats. Good morning handjob/blowjob. A quickie before work. Include kinky stuff in bed. Spanking, blindfolding, choking, toys etc.0 0 0 1Agree with all but taking the pill. Taking the pill is unhealthy, fucks with hormones, in same cases eventually makes it harder for the girl to have kids, raises probably of certain cancers, and even effects what kinds of guys she finds attractive. Sex is better without condoms but it's not worth all of that.
He's always working so we hardly ever get alone time
If he works many hours or you don't have much time for each other, then what I said applies even more. Make every single occasion count. He's gonna think of you all day and can't wait to see you again and again and feel happy with you. Sex isn't the only thing to keep a man happy but this was your question so this is my answer.
Most important thing you can do is get him off porn and so should you. If you got that fixen then you ain't have to worry about nothing.
But just in case, you can flirt a lot, give him confidence boosts with compliments etc., tease when you guys are out, show him that he is good in bed and just enjoy the sex.0 0 0 0
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3 23Be passionate and uninhibited and nasty in the bedroom. He'll ALWAYS be interested.
0 0 0 0if you just got into a relationship and he's already bored, you need to find a new boyfriend
0 1 0 0don't let guys pressure you into sex. if you have sex, do it because you want it
He's not I just wanna make sure I can prevent that
troll harder
0 0 0 0Not a troll so unfortunately I can't do that
well either that ain't you real picture or your absolutely crazy. if YOU are wondering about keeping him interested than you have to be a troll. lol your very attractive that's all I was saying. lol I'm sure it will be fine. I have a weird sense of humor!
Thank you I'm flattered. And you're right I shouldn't worry about it just yet
oral is always sweet and not to full on. keep him wanting more
0 1 0 0It depends on the guy honestly. You best bet is to talk with him and be very open and honest. Ask him what he likes, doesn't like, wants etc. Everyone is different.
0 1 0 0Well I'm sure your tits will keep him interested 🤤
0 0 1 0sucking dick works and not like right glad that's over nah do that shit Like your making love to it because it's yours so show your love for it swallow if you have to and still suck his dick as he cums! that mofo ain't going nowhere 😁
0 1 0 0You need to use your imagination and take things from there
I would say use some flirtation in the naughty way and see
where things go from there.0 0 0 0Try wearing some sexy or provocative lingerie, wearing crotchless panties or an outfit, or even (if you haven't already) shave yourself bald down there or get it lasered off
0 0 0 0Mix it up here and there and talk about some things you'd like to try.
0 0 0 0Bored? hun sex isn't everything but none the less there are a few things you can do to imrpove.
0 0 0 0sensual massages, surprise him with sexy outfits
0 0 0 0have fun times.
tease works. but can get the wrong message across. must be measured and given.0 0 0 0Maybe you shouldn't trick you're boyfriend.
0 1 0 0talk to him and be open. also try to share fantasies or watch porn together maybe even imitate them. good luck
0 0 0 0Try new things
0 0 0 0Not be a mattress
0 1 0 0Don't be afraid to live out your wildest fantasies... and find out his.
On second thoughts, don't do anything illegal. lol0 1 0 0I mostly do the same things but I don't get bored
0 0 0 0You should start first, then you will know..
0 1 0 0Yeah true
What if when you start, he can't get enough of you? Soo its still early to start thinking of things to keep him interested
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