What is your most hated sexual position?

[JC103]

What's your most hated sex position and why? Personally, I do not enjoy doggystyle while my knees are on the bed. Do to the fact that I'm tall I always have to stand while she's on the bed. Now if you don't have a hated position just tell me your favorite.

[Anonymous]

I hate being on top! It feels good and I know it's visually stimulating to guys but it's damn near impossible for me to cum on top.
I can come so close to getting off and then there is a brain/body disconnect and it's like I can't get my body to move and do those last few things that will push me over the edge. So I end up not cumming.
And it's kind of frustrating, when you've accomplished nothing more than getting there several times and basically teasing yourself without getting off its enough to piss a person off. It pisses me off bad.
Then when I get to that point it's like nothing I do will get me off and I'm left sexually frustrated.
Sexually frustrated is not a good look for me.
Then I'm not a huge fan of 69, as someone else said, it's hard to multitask. I can't keep sucking if I'm cumming. It's just not my super power. It's hot, yes, but for me not something I can do well. I just end up feeling like I'm being selfish.

[JC103]

We can work on that. You'll be multitasking in no time lol

[Opinion Owner]

Haha we will just see about that.

[JC103]

I'll see about that, you just have to deal with it lol

[Opinion Owner]

Promises promises. Less talk, more action.

[Fancygoldfish]

For me , on top is the only guaranteed way I'll climax. I control the rhythm and the speed and I love eye contact while doing it this way. It's a big turn on , he's holding my wrists with my arms out to sides and we hold eye contact until I cum. I do know it's kind of torture for him tho because it's a slow slow pumping lol

[Opinion Owner]

@Fancygoldfish that actually tends to be the common guaranteed way for women to cum. And for just that reason, they can control depth, speed, rhythm and angle but for whatever reason it is just very very difficult for me. It's extremely rare that it will do it for me. I'm somewhat jealous, that male torture is always a plus.

[JC103]

Tell me when and where and I'll be there

[Opinion Owner]

Haha I bet you would. I give. You've won this round. Grrrrr *shaking fist*

[JC103]

You damn right I will.

[slutsdontgetoral]

I have a hard time cumming when I am exerting myself

[JC103]

That's unfortunate... I wonder why that is?

[aicarg]

Pinned against the wall with him holding up my weight. It's a hot move, but as strong as a guy claims to be, holding up a 100+ pound girl while thrusting for sometime with me losing my grip around the guy's neck do to sweat... It gets tricky. Plus I had my head bang against a wall once from an ex trying to switch it up... ow!

[JC103]

You just need a stronger man. I threw around 300lbs grown men for a living and during training we tossed and carried 200lb bags. Just get yourself a grapple. All that reminded me of how much I hate having shower sex.

[aicarg]

Haha any stronger and having me banged up the wall would probably do damage to my back. I actually enjoy shower sex! Both parties are extra hot and wet - what's not to love? Sure it can be hazardous but I've got a non slip shower floor.

[JC103]

I'm 6'5" and most showers don't fit me lol.

[JC103]

I have to ask, are you married?

[aicarg]

Haha oh my gosh! You're a giant. And hell no, I'm not financial stable yet and haven't paid off school yet lol... Plus I still have to find myself a genuine man lol

[JC103]

Yeah... Asians normally aren't this tall but I'm just blessed. If that's really you in the picture and your cool talking openly about all this, how do you not have a man? What did you major in?

[aicarg]

Waittttt? You're 6'5 and Asian? No wayyy!! LOL South or East Asian? That is me in the dp and I'm merely more open as I'm not talking about the subject face to face as well as I'm sharing this info to those I don't personally know and don't care if they judge me lol I'm currently seeing someone though we're still developing emotions. Majored, graduated, licenced in nursing.

[3ofSwords]

hmm not a fan of doggy either, I prefer more intimate positions where I can look them in the eye

[JC103]

It sounds like you're a more sensationalist... maybe?

[3ofSwords]

yup for sure 😊

[JC103]

Good girl

[3ofSwords]

😳 ...

[JC103]

Never been called a good girl before?

[slutsdontgetoral]

Exactly

[3ofSwords]

no... 😳

[JC103]

You like it?

[3ofSwords]

I think I do

[JC103]

It's polite to thank a person after the call you a good girl and put a sir at the end of it, it's time you learn proper manners

[theargentmoon]

It's belittling to call someone who is neither your pet nor your child a good girl and expect a thank you in response; it's time you learned proper social conventions/the fundamentals of basic human rights.

[JC103]

As I am trying to better myself daily and would take your opinion into account but could you read where she says she likes it. I'm not belittling anyone in fact I'm complementing her. Now I respect you're pursuit of justice, I think you misunderstood this conversation. Now if you don't agree with my lifestyle then by all means excommunicate me but I'm not going to just sit here while you're trying to embarrass someone because of their sexual preferences, people have the right and deserve to explore their sexuality. If you'd like to talk about this further please message me.

[Regular1]

@theargentmoon -- I call my bitches good girls when they obey. When they don't do as they are told I call them bad girls. They desperately want to be called good girls.

[JC103]

Welcome to the BDSM world. One of trillions of fetishes

[theargentmoon]

No shaming was intended - divergence from the social norm should never be attacked/the cause for humiliation - so I apologize if that was implied. You're right; I just gravely misinterpreted the situation. (As a side note, It's amazing how much I have yet to learn of the world.)

[BlueCoyote]

I don't like doggy style with my knees on the bed either. My wife and I have quite a difference in height (she's about 22 cm or 9 inches shorter than me). Usually that's not a problem but in this position it can be difficult because her thighs are obviously much shorter than mine. So my dick always ends up hovering above her butt instead of where it should be. In addition, there is the problem that my dick is slightly curved upwards, so it's really a challenge to penetrate her. We have managed to do it on occasion and she apparently really loves the feeling but for me, the whole thing is just very uncomfortable.

[JC103]

HIGH FREAKING HIGH FIVE!

[BlueCoyote]

Haha HIGH FIVE :-)

[curiousnorway]

I'm a (proud) virgin, so I've no idea yet. But doggy style looks like an unpleasant and degrading sex position. It makes one of the partner dominant, but the other one submissive and lying like a dog. I thinks a relationship is supposed to be something positive, so for me it seems weird to make one look inferior to the other one. In addition having the knees on the bed doesn't seem very comfortable either.

Missionary seems a bit cozy if you're really in love with the person you're having sex with and have a very nice relationship because you can look them in the eyes and be very intimate.

[JC103]

Don't knock it until you try it

[DizzyDesii]

I loved reading this! Missionary > Doggy

[Bunnysweetheart]

I kinda dislike being on top, my boyfriend and I have tried it a few times but it's uncomfortable for me, it's just too deep and it hurts my stomach lmao

[ტzzყ_]

Can you follow me im a panda lol

[Wonderer89]

69 and reverse cowgirl

[JC103]

And why is that?

[Wonderer89]

I can't stay focused! It drives me insane trying to do both at once and I just get frustrated. And for RC I have a retroverted uterus so it makes it uncomfortably tight and slightly awkward to get a good rhythm

[BlueCoyote]

I totally agree about 69. My wife loves it but I suck at multitasking... at least THIS kind of multitasking. Either I'm enjoying or I'm pleasing. Both at the same time will only overheat my brain ;-)

[Wonderer89]

@BlueCoyote lol exactly. One or the other and we're good! I think he enjoys my frustration 🙄

[samhradh_leannan]

I'm usually not a fan of doggy style at all because it tends to result in penetration that is too deep for me and is painful. But I think reverse cowgirl is my true least favorite position.

[JC103]

Shallow vagina? That's so sexy

[samhradh_leannan]

I have a fairly short vagina, as well as a retroverted uterus which makes certain activities more likely to cause pain. I wouldn't really consider it sexy, but to each their own.

[JC103]

Sorry that was a bad joke. Just curious, how deep can you handle it?

[JC103]

I'm asking for educational purposes

[samhradh_leannan]

It depends on the position/angle, speed and force of thrusting, where I am in my monthly cycle, and how turned on I am. I also recently had an IUD inserted so things are even more sensitive than usual. I honestly don't even know exactly how much of my partner's or is is actually being inserted. So it's difficult for me to answer your question. But all my sex partners so far have had approximately average sized penises, and they have all had to be cautious not to hurt me at least some of the time. I think that's as close as I can get to an answer.

[samhradh_leannan]

how much of my partner's penis is actually being inserted*

[JC103]

So girth is ok but length is a bit of a difficult?

[samhradh_leannan]

I'm sure I do have limits in terms of girth, but I have never approached them so I don't know what they are.

[JC103]

Thicker than the brown part of the toilet paper roll, that thick

[samhradh_leannan]

What about it?

[JC103]

Would that be too thick. I'm reading so many articles and watching so much on YouTube.

[samhradh_leannan]

Vaginas are elastic enough to fit something the size of a baby through them, so although there will always be a limit, I think something the size of a toilet paper tube could definitely fit for most women. It may take a little practice to get to a point where it is comfortable, but ultimately, it would surely fit.

[JC103]

I have no doubt it about that but would it hurt. I must research more

[IwanderIwonder]

I, like you (but for different reasons) am not a fan of doggy either. I wouldn't say I hate it though.
What I hate, although not a position, is shower sex. It's so uncomfortable and impractical.

[JC103]

Fact^

[Fancygoldfish]

Missionary. I like it for pinning in rough play, but for the actual f*cking, doggy or me on top riding him

[Fancygoldfish]

Jc. Get off the bed and do doggy. Find something a good height and put her there, all fours or ass up in air

[JC103]

Sounds like you're offering yourself as tribute

[1Anon]

Lmao! @Fancygoldfish Love this response!

[DizzyDesii]

Im not sexually active, but i just dont like doggy. Everytime he mentions it during phone sex, i get automatically turned off. For onec im not the biggest fan of my body and i dont have much booty. So when he says that, i just blahh. No, just no

[RJGraveyTrain]

Strictly because I seem to be terrible at it: reverse cowgirl.

[JC103]

How?

[RJGraveyTrain]

Can't get the rhythm and it just doesn't feel good to me, so my man can tell I'm not into it.

[JC103]

Yeah... a lot of girls try's to sit up right but you have to lean back a bit

[katiesmuff]

With the exception of anal I don't hate any position we might be able to preform and complete safely.

[JC103]

I think you need to be with the right person when you do anal

[samhradh_leannan]

You also need to BE the right person when you do anal. It is not for everyone.

[JC103]

Have you seen anal training before? It's pretty intense

[katiesmuff]

Be sure and send us a copy of the video when you are lying face down and a dick is stuffed up your ass!

[musicbrain5]

Reverse cowgirl or similar positions. It's just really uncomfortable for me and I don't enjoy staring at his feet.

[JC103]

Does doggy count in that?

[Fancygoldfish]

Don't you have to be careful with reverse cowgirl not to bend his cock too far back and break it off? Lol

[musicbrain5]

@JC103 No no, we like doggy. That's one of our favourites! @Fancygoldfish Yeah and that's one of the reasons I don't like it. His dick basically points upwards against his stomach, so it's hard to sit upright or bend forward towards his feet without it being uncomfortable for him.

[Elarra]

Cowgirl and reverse cowgirl equally.

[JC103]

Why?

[Elarra]

It's not pleasurable and I just lose interest within 5 seconds. Plus my boobs get cold.

[JC103]

lol that's actually a good reason lol. Big boob problems 2017 lol

[BrittBratt2416]

Ok not sure people make love in the shower, sounds dangerous and uncomfortable.. plus what if your partner is heavy?

[JC103]

I don't like shower sex but... I don't think I'll have a problem lifting you

[BrittBratt2416]

Ok trust me, you would lol

[JC103]

I'm 6'5" 285lbs and I've trained with professional MMA fighter for almost a decade now. I think you'll be a feather compared to the 300lb grown men I toss around lol

[BrittBratt2416]

Ok well that awesome.. good job lol

[JC103]

Lol. How tall are you

[slutsdontgetoral]

Water in general isn't the lubricant its made out to be.

[DizzyDesii]

@slutsdontgetoral lmao yea i read somewhere that shower sex will turn her into the sahara desert 😂 That sucks cause i always wanted to try it

[DaBuzzman]

We have a seat in our shower and it's amazing that way! Great for oral or her straddling me face or back. Not standing though. It's too hard!

[slutsdontgetoral]

@DizzyDesii Tried in in a jaccuzi as well as a lake. No go.

[DinaM]

My least favourite would probably be the one from the picture -- head and boobs on the floor like that. I haven't tried it, but it looks really uncomfortable.

[JC103]

Virgin?

[DinaM]

(shifty look) Uuuuuuhhhhhhhh... Yes! Definitely! Without a doubt!

[JC103]

lol don't knock it until you try it

[DinaM]

(Actually, not a virgin at all, it's just that that position looks really uncomfortable.)

[JC103]

lol I know but don't knock the position until you try it

[misstalia_95]

I'm not a fan of missionary. I'm sorry but I just can't get comfortable with a sweaty body lying directly on top of me. Plus, regardless of whether the guy is my partner or just a hook up, I can't stand someone heavily breathing in my face.

[JC103]

Lmao that doesn't sound attractive at all. I've never laid on a girl while I'm in that position

[misstalia_95]

Well it's not like they're putting all their body weight on me. But our bodies are parallel to each other.

[JC103]

I don't like legs around my hips. When I think of missionary, I'm hold her let's back, apart, or even hugging them

[godfatherfan]

her on top.
it is awkward. All I can do is just lay there. I guess that is how women feel in sex. nothing feels right. Some women can only orgasm from penetration that way. So I let her do that then I flip her over and go missionary which is my favorite.

[JC103]

Good man

[samhradh_leannan]

You can always touch her body or help hold her up. And that's what I do when I'm on the bottom. I don't just lie there.

[DizzyDesii]

I like that he flips her over! Thats hot

[simplestchic]

Missionary. I don't exactly hate it, I just don't usually sleep with dominant men. It doesn't do much for me either. Missionary is what I do when I wanna let my boyfriend use my goods while I read a book or go on Facebook lol.

[BlueCoyote]

Do you enjoy/prefer to sleep with submissive guys?

[simplestchic]

Yes I do

[BlueCoyote]

That's cool/hot. Most girls on this website seem to be totally into very dominant guys. Makes me kinda curious but I don't wanna be nosy ;-)

[JC103]

I'm guessing you're a natural mistress?

[simplestchic]

Actually I'm Dom with guys, more submissive with girls.

[JC103]

Good girl

[simplestchic]

Don't ever say that to me

[JC103]

Two dominate people always clash lol. Let the games begin!

[simplestchic]

I'll leave you in such a shuttering mess, you'll blame the cold on how much your penis will shrink from fear.

[JC103]

lol you're so adorable, thinking you're all big and bag or are you just acting like this because you haven't eaten anything yet? Someone give this girl a kids menu and a coloring book so she can simmer down.

[JC103]

After you eat you can continue on being a well behaved good little girl

[simplestchic]

Not bad. I'll end it here though. Here's to being Dom *high five*

[JC103]

thanks for being so awesome *high five* oh you have to message me sometime, I'd love to get some notes because I do bf/husband belittling with couples.

[rjroy3]

69 if she's too short. That's about it lol

[_lauren_]

I haven't had sex yet but I imagine I'll hate being on top because then he'll just be looking at me and I'm self-conscious. also, i wouldn't like anything that involved putting stuff in my butt.

[JC103]

Virgin... I'm gonna pray for you

[_lauren_]

why's that?

[JC103]

It'll never be the same

[_lauren_]

I doubt I'll be having sex any time soon.

[JC103]

No special someone?

[_lauren_]

lmao no

[JC103]

What? There's always someone special. In the mean time you should just hit that follow button and I'll be your special boo

[_lauren_]

haha thank you.

[DaBuzzman]

I think you'll love on top once you do. It doesn't have to go in your butt. It's a great vaginal position and you can control the rhythm and speed and he can play with you clit or boobs too. I'm your self conscious put a blind fold over his eyes as a bigger tease! But he will love looking at your body and he will compliment you. Believe me he is prob going to be as self conscious as you if you are both new to it. It's very intimate and intimate the other thing we do in that one is she will pull me so we are face to face, boy to body and our legs are wrapped around each other and we grind and kiss and I suck on her nipples. Very good Position!

[_lauren_]

@DaBuzzman I'll give anything a shot if my partner really wants to do it, but I'm still nervous about it. I think blindfolds would be fun a couple of times, but ultimately I don't think guys would like them. most guys don't like sex with the lights off either.

[DaBuzzman]

Ehhh that's what's fun about it. Experimenting and finding the things you both like. As far as lights turn them low and light a candle or two. The silhouette is good!

[_lauren_]

@DaBuzzman most guys like low lighting but even that makes me nervous. I've just never liked guys looking at my body. I hope experimenting is good.

[Yazu-chan]

I don't really like cowgirl because I get tired easily or either I'm feeling it too much and can't move and I'd need help moving my hips. I guess I'm not really into dominant positions..

[JC103]

Good girl

[Yazu-chan]

...😳

[JC103]

Never been called a good girl before?

[sadgirl2002]

It's called the abstinence

[JC103]

So you hate being a virgin?

[sadgirl2002]

Ya but I'm not going to have sex with a random

[JC103]

Of course! If someone does you have the right to smack them. Is that why you're username is "sad girl?"

[sadgirl2002]

It's sad girl for a lot of reasons aha

[JC103]

It'll be a lot more reason when your lose you V

[sadgirl2002]

Really?

[JC103]

It's gonna get real complicated

[sadgirl2002]

How?

[JC103]

Message me

[Luana83]

missionary. It's boring.

[JC103]

Really? I think you've just been with the wrong on. You can do so many freaky things in missionary. This one caught me off guard lol

[Luana83]

Really? him on top. face to face. it's boring. I like excitement.

[Luana83]

missionary is just so... traditional.

[JC103]

That description you just gave just sounded boring lol. I love switching into missionary give it a few minutes drag her by the edge of the bed, pick her hips up and pound away. Plus it's a great transition for me to eat it when she... let me stop lol.

[Luana83]

in that case. it's no longer missionary. Am I correct? I'm pretty sure I am.

[JC103]

Not disagreeing then what's that position called? I also like to pull her hair while she's in missionary

[JC103]

From that outfit, I understand why you need a bit more exciting position