How can I get him to touch me?

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I'm 19 and I work with this 17 year old guy who definitely fancies me. I don't mind that he's a bit younger and I like him so I've started flirting with him. I call him babe, bend over in front of him a lot and recently I've started putting my hand on his ass. How can I get him to touch my bum and my boobs (mainly my bum though) without verbally asking him? I want it to come naturally to him and I think it'll be sexier if he just starts doing it without me actually saying.

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Lancaster4201 Xper 6
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Get him alone, and kiss him. If he like me a woman taking some charge would be incredibly sexy. From there if he doesn't get physical, move his hands towards where you want to. Yes you may be initiating, but you don't have to say anything to get him started.
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- Asker
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  How do I take charge?
- Lancaster4201
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  Let me tell you what would be attractive to me. Find an excuse to get him alone. Maybe drag him into a closet. Look at his eyes and lips. Grab his hands. Lock your fingers in his. Go in for the kiss. Put his hands around your waist. Start to get handsy yourself with his head and butt. If he doesn't get physical enough, then move his hands on your butt and then to your breasts.
RandomGuyAU Xper 6
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Go in for a hug, but give him a kiss on the neck and move your hands to his arse.

If he doesn't get THAT message, he's not going to get any hint except you sitting on a bed, naked, legs spread saying "Do me!"
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- Asker
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  What about moving his hands to my arse rather than my hands to his arse?
- RandomGuyAU
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  That should work - maybe use one hand to hold him in for the hug, with the other take control of his hand? If you're sitting along side him, it would probably be easier to place his hand on your breast, but it's your call.
- Asker
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  I don't know, if other people are around them him touching my breast might seem a bit weird
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- RandomGuyAU
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  Yeah, you're right - I was thinking more of the two of you being somewhere private (say a booth at a restaurant / cafe after your shift.

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Wonderer89 Master
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Tbh you sound like a total creep.
Touching someone - especially a teen - without their permission and trying to trick them into touching you instead of just having a conversation and seeing where they stand makes you look like a predator
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p120m37th3u5 Xper 4
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Whay you're asking for here is help in committing sexual abuse of a minor... You do realize that, right?
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- StanLaurel
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  That's not abuse. They're only 2 years apart, and both over 16. She's probably from the UK anyway where it would not be an issue.
- p120m37th3u5
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  ... was honestly a little worried there for a second. Feeling a little relieved that I was wrong. Thanks for setting me straight, @StanLaurel.
SwedishTruth Xper 4
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Guys are not the most perceptive people around at times. Dropping it like it's hot is so 2007. Just tell him that you like him it'll save you heaps of time!
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Maronti Xper 4
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Just give him a really tight jug all of a sudden.
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- Asker
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  What do you mean tight jug?
- Maronti
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  whoops. I meant hug
- Asker
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  What and rub my boobs on him?
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- Maronti
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  I guess you could if you want. If you want him to touch you then you need to make him see you sexually
- Asker
  +1 y
  Shall I slip his hands down onto my bum?
- Maronti
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  Sure
- Asker
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  You got any other ideas? I'm just worried that the hug will be too quick for that, that's all
AdamKar Xper 4
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ahahhahahahahaahha I just saw a post from the 17 year old guy. but he said you call him honey not babe
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- Asker
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  I highly doubt thats the same guy
- Asker
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  Oh wait just seen it, yeah it's deffo not him cos we work in a restaurant not a supermarket lol
- AdamKar
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  dammit it sorry then missed that detail. but holy you gotta admit that's some crazy chance no?
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- Asker
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  Yeah haha
- AdamKar
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  oh right about your question, personally since he's new and young and all he probably won't do anything during work since he doesn't wanna get in trouble. your best bet is finding an excuse to get sometime with him after work or when its closing
- Asker
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  And then what do I do outside of work?
- AdamKar
  +1 y
  well being flirty alone should make him make the first move. so not much
- Asker
  +1 y
  And what kind of flirty things can I do?
- AdamKar
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  lol your asking me, to me it seemed like you were pretty good at this sort of thing 😂 if he likes you all he needs is a little nudge. like your shoulders must be tired lifting those dishes, to give him a cheeky shoulder massage 😉 God Im sure you can think of something, poor guy hopefully he doesn't faint
- Asker
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  Yeah but you're more likely to know what guys like
- AdamKar
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  sure i guess that makes sense but i don't know how you behave around him, what pace you'd move at. If you pursue aggressively or like to make him chase you a bit. I can't judge that since i haven't met either of you. it's a lot more of a delicate process that just "this is what guys like"
- Asker
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  I pursue very aggressively and just wanna turn him on really
- Asker
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  How can I rub my butt on him and make it seem like an accident?
- AdamKar
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  then anything will do it. if the guys like you even you breathing give him a tight hug could turn him on, then move on from there. gosh like your embarrassing me typing this stuff, like seriously 😅
- AdamKar
  +1 y
  i can't think of anything other than trying to squeeze past him in a tight space, in the kitchen or cashier counter
- romeo_and_cats
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  haha I was talking to him like 30 min trying to convey him to fuck her and he refuses saying that "she it's not a slut", so I failed. The girls is more smart!
- AdamKar
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  😂😂😂 seriously? like the girl is being as obvious as possible but nah clearly not interested. some people on this site are just clueless
- romeo_and_cats
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  This is why girls jump to another man arms!
- AdamKar
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  ouch savage
- romeo_and_cats
  +1 y
  Really if a guy don't do anything he don't deserves the girl! Because he is showing nothing! By him actions u can see how the relationship gonna end. By doing nothing means thinking nothing.
stitchthislostbird Xper 3
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Maybe he's thinking it'll be sexier if she just ask me. Just tell him. It will still have the same effect and could be even better.
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- Asker
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  But how do I say it?
- stitchthislostbird
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  How? Tell him you have the hots for him and you imagine him doing those things. If a girl told me she bent over to get my attention I would pay more attention.. Some guys are just polite and don't stare... But they want to. It's A ok to be forward. Embrace it.
- Asker
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  Shall I be like "do you like it when I bend over in front of you 😉" ?
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- stitchthislostbird
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  Yes. Exactly
- Asker
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  How can I rub my butt on him and make it seem like an accident?
- stitchthislostbird
  +1 y
  Buy make sure he knows you do it just for him. That comment might make him feel like he is in trouble
- Asker
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  Ngl that'd be kinda sexy though if he thought he was in trouble don't you think?
- stitchthislostbird
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  No. He may feel ashamed. And distance himself. This sounds less about him. And more and more about your own personal fantasy. You should include him directly and openly or it just becomes unfair.
drG_NePhyAplMa Xper 4
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back it up into him
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- Asker
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  What do you mean?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  find a situation where you have to walk backwards or somthing and "accidentally" back your butt into him and basically force him to touch it.
- Asker
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  Ah that sounds great
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- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  or if a song comes on thats a good one to shake tour hips to shake it on him.
- Asker
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  Your ideas are brilliant, got any more?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  drop somthing he wants/needs down your shirt and make him get it
- Asker
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  What like between my boobs?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  yeah, like his phone or somthing and just say "if you want it come and get it."
- Asker
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  And then shall I wink at him?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
  +1 y
  if you really want to get sassy do somthing bad/wrong and say you think you need a spanking.
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  a wink lets him know your serious so yeah, wink.
- Asker
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  What can I do wrong? Sorry for asking so many questions but I'm clueless lol
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  that depends on your job lol. drop somthing, say you can't find somthing, say you didn't do somthing, anything that is somthing bad for your job. it can't be somthing serious though, just enough for him to go "oh... a spanking... that seems a bit out of place... ima do it."
- Asker
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  He's a waiter and I'm a waitress
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  hmmmmmmm see dropping an order would kinda PO one of the people eatng so dont do that. Maybe take one of his tips (obviously give it to him once it is over) and be like "oops, looks like im a bad girl for taking your tip." 'wink'. see that way its double sexual with "taking his tip". you can even make other tip jokes like "its just the tip" or "ill give you the tip if you give me your tip" or "ive always wanted your tip." etc.
- Asker
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  So I say "oops, looks like I'm a bad girl for taking your tip, looks like I'm gonna need a good spanking for that" and then wink and bend over in front of him yeah?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  oh yeah, not in front of people though, then it gets ehhhhh.
- Asker
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  Nah I'll do it in the kitchen at the end of the day cos in the evening it's just the 2 of us washing up and no one else is around
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  good choice
- Asker
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  Can I do other sexy things while we're washing up together?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  can or should? you can, though its probrobally best to let the sexual tenaion build untill after so he is thinking that whole time "wft was that. did i... did she... what?"
- Asker
  +1 y
  But what about just little things?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Also I could wait till the night after the spanking then do sexy things?
- drG_NePhyAplMa
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  to the first question it depends on how he reacts, if he's aggressively sexual just put your hand on his chest and say "wait till after work" if he is passive then maybe goat him a little more. second question, if he likes it then yeah, keep it up.
- Asker
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  So what kind of things can I do while we're washing to keep it up? (Sorry lol)
- drG_NePhyAplMa
  +1 y
  get your shirt a bit wet maybe to show off some cleavage (not to wet) if yout washing thr tables come up behind him while he's washing and start washing the table to, pressing into him.
BLOODYBEAST Xper 3
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Lol wtf if a girl touched/squeezed my ass suggestingly I'd be creeped the fuck out especially if she was older than me. Guys rarely understand hints, but the most obvious would be to sit on his lap one day, or if you can't get him to sit down, just subtly place your ass on his crotch region and linger for about 2 or 3 seconds then depart. If he doesn't get these hints, then you might need a drill for his head.
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GoodGuyBreakingBad Master
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Swing your butt towards him with flirtation. That might spark him to do something.
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chipenstien Xper 4
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during a kiss, gradually slide his hands down.
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- Asker
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  But we haven't started kissing yet? Can I do it while hugging?
- chipenstien
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  sure, if he blushed tease him with a compliment.
- Asker
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  How can I rub my butt on him and make it seem like an accident?
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- chipenstien
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  it will be easy if he is up to dancing. if not I suggest "accidentally" sitting on his lap at the beginning of a movie.
- Asker
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  Will he like it if I touch his dick?
- chipenstien
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  I don't see why not. you might get a surprise when you sit on his lap
- Asker
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  How do I make that seem accidental though?
- chipenstien
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  bring the bowl of popcorn and instead of having it between both of you, take a seat and without cracking a smile turn to him and say that you are there to chaperone him and the popcorn.
- Asker
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  Lol sorry I don't get it?
- chipenstien
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  well, he is being way too modest. jokes are about getting people to relax about certain things. and if you gotta park your butt in his lap to confront him about it, than he should understand
- Asker
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  But I don't get the bit about chaperoning popcorn what does it mean 😂😂
- chipenstien
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  it means that he has to go through you to get to it
- Asker
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  So after I say that shall I then start making out with him? I wanna have sex with him lol
- chipenstien
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  yup, ease into it though. might be his first time going that far.
womenareproperty Xper 3
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you are teenagers, if he doesn't wanna touch you he won't
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WhereAmI Guru
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Didja squeeze said butt when touching?
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- Asker
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  Nah just gave a light tap
- WhereAmI
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  Give it a light rub then move in for a squeeze if it doesn't get his attention.
- Asker
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  How can I get him to notice mine though?
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- WhereAmI
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  Wear leggings if it's allowed at work.
- Asker
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  Shall I do something like pull them up in front of him?
- WhereAmI
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  Okay, I think I'm being trolled here. . lol
- Asker
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  I'm not trolling you, I want to encourage him to touch my bum
Dme500 Xper 7
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what? where were girls like this when i was 17? i got jipped man.
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xenphose Xper 3
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if you grabbed his bum and he didn't get the hint he is super dense you probably need to get into hugging distance (kissing/cuddling/flirting etc) and slide his hands on your bum.
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- Asker
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  I think he does like me, he just wants me to beg more to see what I'll do
disgustingweebtrash Master
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Touch him first
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- DanielSe
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  I agree.
- Asker
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  I already do touch his bum
- disgustingweebtrash
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  TOUCH HIM MORE
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- DanielSe
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  more ofc
- Asker
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  What do you mean
- DanielSe
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  touch his dick
- Asker
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  Shall I act like it's accidental or give it a full on grab?
- DanielSe
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  grab
- Asker
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  But how can I do that without it seeming weird?
- DanielSe
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  I don't know use ur girly brain
DanielKaluuya Xper 6
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If you touched his butt and he's not taking the hint then he's super shy. He might not be the one to try.
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- Asker
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  But I really like him!
- DanielKaluuya
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  Keep trying I suppose
- Asker
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  What other sexy things can I do to him?
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- DanielKaluuya
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  Air kiss maybe. Put lip gloss on too.
- Asker
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  How can I rub my butt on him and make it seem like an accident?
- DanielKaluuya
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  It's all about timing. Just be close to him in general.
activemyhrt Xper 4
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don't shit where you eat
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- Asker
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  What?
finxoxo Xper 4
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😯 @danielse
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Foreplaygod Xper 3
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go down on his cock dry fuck him and trust me unless he is gay you shouldn't have any problems after that
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micheal50 Xper 3
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sit on his lap
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tcrckr Xper 3
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U gotta throw ur self at him. He's nervous!
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- Asker
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  What do you mean throw myself at him?
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