Why does arguing turn me on?

I notice when I get into a disagreement I am heated and mad. But I also notice I get extremely turned on to the point to where I'm kind of panting a little. I dont like this feeling but i can't stop it is this normal?
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  • All stimulation is the same in human beings. The symptoms of being nervous around someone you love: sweaty palms, elevated heart-rate, elevates breathing, etc. These are the same symptoms you experience when being angry.

    You get turned on buy the rush. I wouldn't call it normal but there's worse fetishes out there.

  • If you argue and get heated, your entire body is tense and aroused. This can lead to sexual tension and arousal eventually.

    http://changingminds.org/principles/arousal.htm

    • Oh ok that makes sense thanks for answering my question.

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  • I feel the same way you want to make up with him so bad that your body thinks sex is the only way

    • Yes lol I'm like an animal after an argument☺Thanks for answering my question.

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  • Sounds to me like you're a passionate woman. Are you talking about arguing with a sexual partner?

  • That means your horny for wrong reasons or you feel you gotta be dominated at that point. And no your not alone.

  • That is because you are a very passionate woman a tiger.

    You get turned on,, because the guy that your verbally sparred with, has found a way to stimulate your mind and cause your to purr like a kitty..

    • lol I'm not kitty!!! Thanks for answering my question😉

    • If a guy stimulates your mind,,, I can see your knees weaken,, he can turn you from a tiger to a kitty,, quite the challenge,, one false move, he might get scratched,, but with you, it is worth the try,, haha

  • probably has to do with the release of adrenaline when you get angry, that stuff is addictive.

    • Makes sense! Thanks for answering my question☺

  • It's strictly endorphins that come from adrenaline. It's a biological response and it happens during anything that gets you very excitable. Your brain just processes it differently because it's a different stimuli

  • Maybe you should be a lawyer lol.

  • if you don't want the arguing part to ruin your relationship, your SO should be able to help turn it into foreplay.

    • Thanks for answering my question☺

    • not a problem, it's what I would do

  • it probably doesn't. Just your boyfriend does.

    • lol☺Thanks for answering my question.

    • NP. I've been waiting for a girl hours and hours in vain. But what hurts more is the bs excuse she came up with.

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  • It is the passion. You get heated, angry, your passion is kicked in and that is where you get turned on.

    • I'm a naturally passionate person so maybe it just intensifies when I'm angry hmmm🤔. Thank you for answering my question😁

  • Maybe it's the potentialness for power.

    • Hmm never thought of it that way🤔Thanks for answering my question☺

  • Your insane. I know, because I get turned on doing the same thing. I notice that I even will fuck harder when I feeling that way. lol.

    • I'm a little crazy I can't lie lol.. Thanks for answering my question☺

  • no I don't think so you should be calm down and control yourself

    • Your probably right... Thank you for answering my question.

    • you r most welcome and can ask any question any time just to keep yourself cool and happy if you hapoy I would be happy also

  • maybe it just you thinking of having sex afterwards.. many people argue just to have sex later

  • you ever had make up sex?

    • Nope can't say that I have☹

    • they say it's the best sex you'll ever have, it might have to do with what gets you turned on

  • Dam sicko

    • Pretty much☺

  • the adrenaline speaking

    • Thanks for answering my question☺

    • no problem :) anytime

  • If you would be smart you would be knowing the answer of this question.

    • Thanks for contributing☺... Absolutely nothing

    • Each person contribute something just it requires vision to see the contribution.

    • OK 🙄

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  • Maybe you like drama