Why are girls ashamed of their big boobs?

I am a D cup and I am constantly told by mother to cover myself because it may look dirty and slutty. The main body parts of a girl that are sexualised are boobs and butt. As far as I noticed, every girl with big butt flatters her big booty and is like a trend now. So why some girls are ashamed of being busty but super confident when they have a big butt?
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  • Because having big boobs can cause a lot of embarrassing things to happen.
    Your boobs may bounce like crazy when you're running, which may hurt and look weird.
    Big boobs can cause back and neck pain
    Having big boobs can make it harder to wear things like v necks or buttoned shirts.( thats why girls who wear clothes revealing tons of cleavage with big boobs may be seen as slutty)
    Big boobs can attract unwanted male attention, even when wearing something that completely covers them.

    I think large chested girls ashamed of having a large chest is because it causes a lot of inconveniences. I'm not saying having big boobs is bad, but it has a lot of cons compared to flat chests and average.

  • It would seem somewhat obvious that your mother may have self confidence issues of her own, and regrettably from time to time feels the need, quite wrongly, to take her frustration out on you.
    Like yourself I have an extremely large bust (36GG but at present 36JJ due to pregnancy) and as I have mentioned here on a good many occasions, it is a fact of life that as women, we are unable to hide the fact that we have breasts.

    • JJ Wow. Didn't even knew that exists.

    • @pabbijihain Well there you are, you learn something new every day, don't you.

    • Yeas thanks for the lesson :) It's really huge size?

  • I hated my big boot for a long while... It's very difficult to hide, specially in warm weathers and makes men believe that you are sexually available leading to sexual harassment... That is what porn does, makes men believe that hot women are sexually available.

    • How big is your boobs?

Most Helpful Guys

  • Big boobs?
    They can't let a girl run comfortably
    but big butts
    they don't annoy as boobs

    if you see yourself you can't see your butt but boobs are in front of you always
    anytime tried to change pad when when you can't see it?
    or look at belly when you can't go in front of mirror?
    you will know why some girls hate big boobs
    But about guys
    they love it unless it's bigger than they can hold.
    (some girls have boobs can't be hold by two hands so guys hate it)
    naturally big boobs are good but if you're having them cause you're letting guys get hand on it. (like every guy you like) then it's a problem.
    for guys

  • Your mom has a problem not shared by the rest of us. For me, if you've got it at your age, flaunt it!!

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  • No.. they shouldn't be ashamed of it.. it's just another body part like other parts.. Yes they play a major role in attracting guys.. needless to say.. but.. still they shouldn't be treated as an element of an embarrassment.

    • And.. my girl is a D cup too (38DD).. she never looked slutty to me at all!

  • Show those lovely boobs off then. Your mom is wrong. A girl should never hide her assets!

  • it is, but it isn't just Pakistan that's conservative

    • whoops posted under wrong comment

  • the judgement you make tells more about you than the one being judged. Wear your boobs the way it fits. Your mom might have some complex about them. Naughty people will see ir boobs as slutty. Normal people won't care and some might be jealous or disgusted. what matters is that your boobs are yours and you shouls even care. just live on. boobs up!

  • 36D n I am proud of it

    • 😍😍😍

  • 34A and not ashamed

  • Pshhh Whaaat, I'm Definitely Not Ashamed. Small Or Big I Wouldn't Care.

  • i have big bust, and im not ashamed of it. the only issue i have is when i want to wear something decent and it ends up looking sleazy because of my cleavage.

  • Because they're crazy.

  • hmm.. I thought this would only be an issue in conservative societies like mine..

    • where u from?

    • I'm from Pakistan

    • it is, but it isn't just Pakistan that's conservative

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  • Huge boobs are extremely sexy on fit women. Big booties are even sexier. Hnnnnngggg. Flaunt dem big titties

  • People tell me to cover my ass all the time. Women and men try to police other women's clothing preference just for the hell of it.

  • if it's very obvious that you are trying to show off your assets to attract lots of guys, maybe that slutty. otherwise it's not

    • So girls who wear the same thing with no assets are NOT slutty? Shit doesn't make sense. I think people are hating on chicks with assets because of envy. It's sad

    • no, girls with no assets trying to show off.. uhhh... not much to attract lots of guys are also slutty. it's not about your body, it's about what you are doing with it

    • and I'm not saying that is you wear short clothes that you are automatically a slut or something like that, guys who kiss their own muscles and trying to show off are sluts also

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  • So you are slutty for having assets that men want? Sounds like someone is jealous!!
    Women are catty, remember?

  • Don't let her bring you down. If you love and are confident with what you have then let it out! I have had similar conversations with my mom over outfit choices saying I'm showing more skin and are trashy but I'm confident with myself and I won't let that affect me

  • People with low intellect just want things done their way. In society people say do something and apparently you have to do it you don't men have boobs and their no different to yours only in shape yet we don't need to cover up neither do you. Do what you want.

    • And men like them I don't get why you hide them from us like chocolate you like chocolate you look and can eat it. Boobs we like so why not let us see it's not like you don't stare at our bums.

  • Some women pay to have big boobs

  • That's something new.. I don't know what to say..

  • Never be ashamed of what you got.

  • I love bigboobs

    • what would you do with mine?;)

    • How could I tell you,? 😉😉

    • please, make me squirt? i am submisive, i give me tits my big d cup tits to you

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