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Why doesn't my boyfriend want to have sex?

I'm a 21 year old girl. I'm always down to have sex but my boyfriend on the other hand never wants to. I help myself but it's not the same. I just want to have sex!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I actually went through this myself... after asking him over and over again I found out that he was jerking off every morning before work then when he would come home he is tired , already releases and I get no sex. He can be stressed or have a low sex drive as well if he is with you loves you and their seems to be no other issues other than you two simply having sex that could very much so be the reason. Either way he should talk to you about it !!

  • Either he is going through some personal things or he is not that attracted to you.

    Or... and this may sound impossible to some people, he simply lacks a sex drive.

  • Asexual? How long has it been since you two have been dating. I mean if it hasn't been very long maybe he's not ready.

    • 4 years

    • Never had sex with him?

    • We've had sex for a while but recently the past few months he doesn't want it

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Seems like he have low sex drive unlike u , even though it's not his fault. My suggestion, try different things in bed to spice up ur sex life. If it doesn't work, then I guess he is really not able to fulfill ur sexual needs. In such case, u have two choices. First is, just accept it n get adjusted. If you can't, they get some other guy

  • Talk to him about it:

    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a7025-why-are-men-reluctant-to-dominate-women-sexually

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  • Dump your boyfriend and find a straight guy. Me, for instance.

    • How about no. 🖕🏻

  • Possibilities:
    -Super high stress level
    -Extreme depression
    -Tired from working too much (like 12+ hour days for 8 days straight)
    -Closet gay (yes, they can start out seeming straight)
    -Low hormones
    -Feels betrayed/cheated on and has lost attraction

  • You need to find a hornier boyfriend lol.

  • You have to ask him.

  • Have you asked him why?

    • He's "not in the mood".

  • Ask him why. Because he might believe marriage before sex. If not that I don't know what his problem is lol. Try teasing him. foreplay

  • is he going through something, maybe depressed because of bad grades, somebody passing away? i hope he's not gay.. jk

    • He's definitely not gay

  • In Soviet Russia sex doesn't want to have boyfriend!

  • Maybe you are too available, maybe try the opposite.

  • He's gay

    • He's not gay lol

  • Stressed

  • low sex drive

  • Try to deepthroat him

    • I do that all the time whenever he wants, but he just doesn't want to have sex

    • Well.. When u take it all gag on his thing its submissive, men adore it

  • may be he has different interests

  • You have different drives and needs. It's fine, you're jsut not compatible when it comes to sex. Nothing you can do, his body jsut doesn't want jt

  • he must be some reasons for it

  • the indian guys here would be glad to help!

    • No thanks. I'm good.

    • just kidding they are creepy well just tell him how you really feel and if nothing works im afraid you should find someone else who can satisfy your needs

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