Guys, Blow job tips?

I just wanted to hear from guys to see what I can do to get even better at blow jobs. I do know that my blow jobs are the best my boyfriend has ever had, simply because he told me none of his exes ever liked giving them. He was blown away (pun intended) when I first did them for him and, as he said, I "seemed to like it so much". When I heartily agreed that I loved making him feel good that way he seemed so surprised... he said no one has ever told him that before? And I've heard from men that a woman actually being enthusiastic and enjoying giving him head is the most important part of it being pleasurable for him. He has also made various comments about how amazing of a woman I am while I give them to him, and has said I'm "the best" while doing them more than once... however I know in the heat of the moment when things are feeling good a man very well could just say those things because he's feeling good at the time.

That being said, although I'm pretty confident that I'm doing pretty well with them, I still would like to get even better (I am the type of person who constantly strives to improve). I REALLY love his c*** and love doing this for him and showing him (and his penis) how much I adore and appreciate it / him as a man. So I'd love to really blow him away (😊) next time I blow him. So please share if you have any tips on what makes a blow job totally spectacular. I'm sure I have the right mindset / attitude, but I'd also like to make sure I am always improving my skills too 😊. Also I do include lots of eye contact and naughty smiles to make sure he can see that I am enjoying myself. I also really enjoy swallowing his cum (and he knows this too), for whatever that's worth. I've heard different opinions about whether or not that matters or not (it seems like some guys say that matters a whole lot, and some others say they could care less).

All advice and tips would be appreciated 😊
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  • You could suck the tip while using your hand to jerk off the shaft at the same time, or depending on how big it is deepthroat as much as you can and jerk the shaft off while the saliva runs down it from your mouth (this feels really good). You can lay on the bed with your head at the edge and just let him ram it down your throat. Then you can experiment and use foods such as whipped cream or chocolate syrup on his dick while blowing him, or eating an ice cube right before so your mouth is super cold to increase stimulation.

    • Good tips. I will try the saliva running down deep throat thing 😄

    • Trust me it feels amazing haha if he is well endowed then it makes it that much better. For me personally girls can get about a quarter of the way down with their throat so their is a lot of saliva and a lot of area still left for them to jerk off so you get the double sensation of sucking and stroking

  • tongue action while it's in your mouth feels amazing, sucking the balls is a plus (occasionally, or just cupping them with your hand) best thing i could recommend for long term improvement, learn to play the clarinet. the muscles used to play clarinet are the same muscles that can put a nice satisfying tightness to a blowjob

    • Interesting... I played the saxophone for years and the clarinet and the saxophone, though different instruments, have the same mouthpiece. Never knew that was an advantage! I do show some love to the balls. One of my favorite things to do with them is to lightly suck on them with my lips wrapped around them while licking them with my tongue.

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  • NO TEETH!!! AND EASE YOUR GRIP!!! I dont know whether my exes mouth just couldnt open very wide but scraping your willy on a tooth is painful. Also gripping too hard kills erections

    • Thankfully never had that happen. In defense of your ex though, it is extra difficult (but not impossible) to keep the teeth away from the D if the man is really endowed and she has a smaller mouth. It certainly can be done but it does require more conscious effort. Not sure if that applies or not, just something to consider.

    • To be honest no! It doesn't apply!!! It ain't that big!!!

    • Haha I got nothing then!

  • The best way a girl can give a bj is to be really hot and have nice big boobs.

    • Interesting... Is this just for the visual aspect or does it help technique in some way too!

  • Teasing is the key. Make sure to have a frequent eye contact. Nothing is hotter than looking down at a girl licking and sucking your dick with her pretty eyes looking up at you. Press your tongue against his shaft and lick it up slowly, make your lips extra tight. Stuff like that will make him come all over your tongue.

    • Thanks, I will make sure to try it this way next time!

  • NO TEETH!!!

    always be touching or stroking his junk.

    hold his sack

    is your hands to help

    look up at him. then smile, he'll cum right there.

    use you tongue

    kisses are sweet, just put the whole thing I your mouth.

    always till he finishes. and is you want sex afterwards. continue and get him hard again.

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    • Good tips, thanks!!!

  • Ok first lick up and down the cock then wrap your lips around it kik it’s a harmonica then get the tip in your mouth and hand on shaft as you pump it suck it deeper and deeper in till your not using your hand anymore as you are looking at him stare in his eyes as your at humming on it then get it all the way down and work it with your mouth until he blows his load you decide where you want it

  • you should lick bowl also.. you should do fantasy things. like some cadbudy or cream put on cock and suck it. as I am man. I am so excited after hearing your confident... for me I like to eat pussy. putting something and eating woww

    • Yes I love getting the balls in on the action

    • do blow job with boobs also... where are you from?

    • if man suck your pussy. do you like?

  • make sure you use your lips and not your teeth and shove that dick all the way down your throut and lick it and spit on it

    • Yeah, I try to get lots of saliva on there and can deep throat for a little bit but can't do it indefinitely (I'd like to be able to eventually though). That darn gagging reflex is pretty useful for survival but not so helpful for blow jobs lol