Sending naked pictures: do you really think it is a good idea?
I am 62 years old and I have never sent or received a nude picture from a lady. When I was a young man, a girl who did this would be considered a slut and a guy who did it would be called a pervert. We also did not have digital photography so it was difficult to get nude photos developed and printed.
Maybe you think this is a wonderful;y modern advancement. You are giving your partner an idea of what is waiting for them, getting them aroused, making them want you more. . . right? Maybe that happens, but there are other ways to get your partner's attention. Have you ever heard of the art of seduction?
Anyway. . . what happens to those pictures? They get saved, of course. The partner who you think is so damned wonderful may be showing those pictures to his or her siblings and friends, bragging in an immature way, or maybe even trading naked girlfriend pictures as if they are baseball trading cards. Yes, your new boyfriend's little brother may be jerking off while looking at that naked picture of you in the doggy position.
Even if your partner is not doing those things now. . . have you considered the possibility that you won't marry this guy or girl and, one day, they will be an ex, may even be a bitter ex. They may want to use your naked pictures for revenge or may just use your naked pictures for trading on porn sites. How do you feel about your grandparents, parents, little brother or sister, cousins, or neighbors seeing you naked?
If you think this can't happen. . . I currently have a paternity case client whose ex-bf has done this to her. She has pictures being traded on craigslist and a video posted on a porn site. My client - a young lady - finally realized that this can happen, but only AFTER it happened: too late!!!
Will you make the same mistake? Have you already made this mistake? Post anonymously if you prefer but please be honest!
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