Guys, Why are blow jobs so important to guys / why do they like them so much?

[Anonymous]

I know they must feel good but it seems like there's more to it than just that. I mean vaginal and anal sex also feel good to men so there's gotta be more to wanting a blow job than just that.

Also, please don't misunderstand my intent for asking... This isn't a complaint what so ever! I actually love giving them to a man who is special to me. For me, what I enjoy is when I give him one I feel like I'm fulfilling a fantasy for him, when I look up in his eyes and see he is enjoying them, and he sees I'm enjoying giving him that pleasure. It also feels like a way to show him love and appreciation for being a man, as there is no other body part that symbolizes his manhood more than his penis and testicles. Honestly whenever we start to get hot and heavy *I* get the urge to take my mouth down south, at least as part of foreplay. If I love and adore that penis, I want to feel it in my mouth. Point being - this isn't a "I'm complaining about blow jobs, why do I have to do them post"! I simply want to understand why most men love getting them so much.

So guys, what's the appeal? Why do y'all love and fantasize about a woman blowing you? Also I'm wondering if it matters whether or not the sex act ends also with the blow job. Like, if she's giving you head as part of foreplay but then it ends with you two having intercourse, does that fulfill the desire to receive head, or not? Personally for me and my boyfriend sometimes I give him a complete blow job, that ends with him cumming inside my mouth / throat, and sometimes the oral sex is part of the foreplay, and he ends up cumming in my vagina. I kind of always figured all women gave their guys oral sex at least as part of foreplay, is this not always the case?

[Underduress]

Seeing my girl’s beautiful face on me with submissive eyes putting in all the effort to please me, knowing that she is going taste me and take it in her, and knowing that she enjoys watching my reaction. The part that is actually better and unique over PIV sex for me (“like them so much”) is that she is going to experience the taste of me and she enhances that when she tells me how much she loves the taste. She even watches my diet because she tells me if it tastes right then I am eating healthy. She has been feeding me different fruits to make it fruity. There is kind of a mental orgasm after the fact and maybe a direct tap into my ego as far as I can describe it. That is a very deep acceptance of me by her. Doesn’t get much more intimate than that. I do my best to return it.

[SpurtLover]

It's a great question. Thanks for asking it. I cannot answer for other men, only myself. But for me, having a women suck my dick is the biggest turn on just because she looks like she is having so much fun, and I can tell she loves it because her nipples get hard as diamonds and her pussy gets wet while her mouth is bobbing up and down my shaft. And when I say I am about to cum, that's when you really get excited! Needless to say, my favorite part of a blowjob is ejaculating my sperm into your mouth. I love the fact that you are letting me empty out my balls into your mouth and you have every intent to eat it. Huge boner thinking about it.

[RobinHoodJr]

It just feels good. I love getting and giving oral. Nothing better than a 69, but that's just me.

[Spelling95]

It takes effort and she receives no pleasure from it. Meaning she's doing it entirely for us. It's nice that it lets us relax, sex can be exhausting at times. Cum being in her mouth is also very hot, and it feels somewhat dominating.

[WiLLiZ_001]

I never had a bj, or a girlfriend, but I wouldn't mind a bj, that is, if the girl i am dating is willing to do it. if or if not, i respect her decision.

[malealpha00]

it makes us feel dominant

[Maxemeister]

Blowjobs don't get you pregnant. They feel great. Sounds good to me

[CT_CD]

Same reason cunnilingus is so important to women

[Pizzalover101]

For us guys watching you look up at us an knowing that we give you the power to make us cum in mouth is truly beautyfull an it makes us enjoy cuz we want the same as you to have sum 1 like are cum an eat it an love it

[Seppelson]

It just feels good

[Celedor]

I don't think it's a big deal. it's a thing to do with it. It's fun. she likes it. I like eating her pussy too. sometimes it's fun to offer it by putting it in her face. that kinda makes sense. she does what she does with it and if she doesn't I'll do something else.

I think it's probably more "important" in a situation where she specifically doesn't want to or won't do it because if what she thinks it mean or might mean to him.

[Anonymous]

I'm different from most guys or at least I try to be because I'd rather be going down on you/her and pleasing you/her & making u/her cum before having intercourse. And I'm not really a fan of getting blowjobs but if that was something u/she wanted to do, I'm not going to stop u/her from doing so. Lol. 🙂