Guys, would you be turned off if this was a girl's turn on?

[Anonymous]

Okay, I'm just your average college chick with projects to do and club activities to attend to. But I feel weird saying it.. What I'm asking is if you would be just straight up bothered.

I'm turned on by a body part. I'm sexually turned on by a ripped set of abs. Like if a guy has a flat stomach with abs, I'll masturbate to it. I can seriously have the best orgasm in 30 seconds or less depending on how turned on I get or how much I like his abs. It's been a fetish. And I kinda feel embarrassed just saying that.

I can't seem to get with guys that don't at the *very* least have a flat stomach. I try not to act on impulse when I'm hooking up but I usually end up doing anyway so I'd slip my hand under their shirts and rub around.

I've been dating this guy I've known since a college party and I think he's gorgeous. He has very lean muscles and a 6 pack... Fast forward 3 months and I'm hoping that I'm not obvious but I think I probably am because I use giving him head as an excuse to kiss my way down his stomach but I've done that and not given him head after.

Like if we're just cuddling on the bed or couch, I'm always running my fingers through his abs and I've full on licked and kissed them for over 3 minutes. I get too horny sometimes and this one night he was out cold from Xanax and I almost got too carried away just doing that and I'm nervous he might have been a little awake or knew what I was up to.

Would you be straight up turned off and freaked out or would you just be like fuck it whatever as long as you get head and you personally think she's hot?

[Losalt]

Hum, depends.
If she just said that, no that wouldn't be a turn off (although I don't exactly have a six pack myself right now)...
However if I *did* have one it would probably be a matter of how much she where worshiping my six pack.
A little would be just fine, but I'd probably be a little bit freaked out at least initially if she went overboard with it...
So, sure enjoy his six pack, but don't forget the rest of his body.
Give *him* some attention too, not just his six pack.

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is a lot like you, and I'm not turned off. She didn't mention it at first because she didn't want me to feel bad about my body (I "only" had a flat stomach when we met), but then I told her that I'm not an insecure guy and that I understand her preference/fetish. After that I started working out more rigourously, and a year after, my six pack started becoming quite visible, which she really likes.

[Asker]

I see! So on or off bed, how have things changed? Like.. how does she like to touch/kiss/lick you now that you've a 6 pack? Oh, and what was her reaction Iike when she 1st found out you were starting to sport a 6 pack?

[Opinion Owner]

Well, let's just say she's keen on seing me shirtless both in and out of bed, and she touches/kisses much more frequently.

[Asker]

Icic. How does it feel for you though? To be admired by your girl for your new ripped body? Both physically and mentally? Has your motivation to work out gotten even higher now that you know she digs the muscles you have? Or was she your main motivation to begin with?

[Opinion Owner]

Physically it feels great that she has a hard time keeping her fingers off. Knowing that your girlfriend expresses her attraction to that extent is pretty hot and not something I've experienced with previous girlfriends. Mentally it felt a bit strange at first, since it was not something I was used to in previous relationship. I've alwasy been into fitness, but I admit that my motvation is higher now that I have a girlfriend that digs muscles.

[QueenofCups]

I think most guys would be flattered.

[VegetaSSB]

It actually made me horny just reading it. Too bad for me i could not get abdominal definition even when i tried all kinds of diet plans and exercise plans, but if i somehow got my abdominal region really ripped i would love to have a girl like you and even do porn videos of you licking, kissing and rubbing all over my abs if you were into it.

[Spelling95]

I wouldn't be turned off. It wouldn't do me any good since I'm thin but have no abs. If I did have them I'm happy to let a girl play with them, I'm not ticklish.

[ShortCircuit]

I don't think any guy would really be bothered if their girlfriend was crazy about their body, regardless of what part they fetishize.

[iBluestar]

I wouldn't mind honesty, I work hard for abs so I'd be happy to know they get put to good use😜

[Rhenlu]

i am not bothered by it i might enjoy it actually but i I've never been in that situation

[PhoenixItalian]

I'd be cool with it, but I'd have to be a bit more toned for you to get off in 30 seconds just looking lol

[mrdave11]

yea the last senetence

[Anonymous]

The more I’m touched the happier I am.

[Anonymous]

Are you for real? How could that possibly be a turn off?
Guess i'm getting myself some lean abs.