Did I make a mistake by breaking up with him? Or should I let it go?

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So, my ex and I met a month ago (through social media) and FaceTimed or called each other every night and texted every day. He treated me well and I treated him well, he never asked me out on a date though, which I found weird. I had to initiate him hanging out with me and so I invited him over to my house. All we did was make out, he wasn't the type of person to rush into sex, and neither was I. This is what I really liked about him. We had a great night and watched movies. We had a lot in common💜Last week he posted something that bothered me at the moment. In case you don't know, TBH (to be honest) is something you post on Instagram and whoever likes it, you have to DM them. His caption read "like and I'll DM you". The picture included the "💋" emoji (kissy face emoji in case you can't see it". Now, to me that means he wants to reach out to other girls, so I texted him "bye" and said "maybe we should just be friends" and some other shit. He let it go, he said "I respect your decision but are you sure you wanna end this" then he called me and said that he wasn't playing games (I told him that If he wanted a relationship, he had to earn my trust and he said "you can trust me, I'm not like other guys" and I said "I hear that from other guys as lot" blah blah blah... I then asked him if all he wanted was pussy and he said "I can't believe you just said that" he sounded kinda hurt, I don't know. He then said he was tired and wanted to hang up. I haven't heard from him since and I miss him so much. 1) Was I wrong? Did I overreact? His friend (whom he told about the break up) told me that I overreacted. I don't know if I did, but we had a good thing going. 2) Do you think he'll come back? 3) do you think that he wouldn't have let me go so easily if he really liked me?

JakeTripper · Accepted Answer

for a guy to want to wait for sex could mean his feelings are true and he wasn't just about the pussy. he could also be a shy and passive guy that isn't the best with females and could really just be searching for female attention because he may not have had much and if thats the case you kinda overreacted but im sure youve been hurt and may have some trust issues but thats okay because he may be in the same boat as you without you knowing. so if what i predicted was close to true id give him another shot and watch him closely but let him be him. his intentions should show through more clearly :)

Battooot · Accepted Answer

if you are smart, you'd know that he is waiting for you to send a text and say sorry. What do you expect, you expect him to come back and message you and tell you 'sorry' for something YOU did wrong? You were the wrong here not him. you are the one that said bad things and told him bye and all that stuff, not him. He stopped messaging you cause he wants to see if you really care for him and will message him or not.

SunshineGal · Accepted Answer

i think you kinda of overreacted, but we all do at times, i think you should send an apology in a message, and then if he really likes you then he will come back to you and give it a chance

pcdank · Answer

I personally think that 1 month is not enough to know if that's the person you want to be with (speaking from personal experience), it could just be that he didn't like what you did that soon. I would say, just be friends first and then "climb the ladder", be more and more intimate, kiss, touch, tell each other something no one else knows about and gain each other's trust. If he doesn't stay friends with you how could he be your boyfriend?

Did I make a mistake by breaking up with him? Or should I let it go?

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