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Does anyone like to be dominated and talked down to in the bedroom? Who likes to do this to someone else?

So I was just talking to a guy that said his girlfriend wanted him to dominate her during sex and he found it demeaning and ended up breaking up with her over it. Personally I don't think it's demeaning as long as you both consent. We can't help what turns is on. When I'm with a guy I am very submissive and love to be dominated. I like to be handled roughly, spanked, have my hair pulled and sometimes slapped or lightly choked. I like to be ordered what to do and called names like "get down here and suck my cock you filthy slut". Being blind folded and tied up is also hot. I don't feel demeaned at all. It really gets me off. On the other hand when I'm with another girl I like to be the dominant one and can get really rough if she consents like tieing her hands together and fingering her hard from behind while pulling her hair and spitting into her mouth telling her what a workless slut she is. I don't hold back with the spanking and if we are very comfortable with eachother slapping her hard in the face while she's going down on me and telling her she better make me cum or she's going to get it worse. Is anyone else into this? The key is to talk about it ahead of time and set limits and make sure you are both comfortable with everything. Have a safe word. It is all fun and afterward I'll cuddle with my partner and tell them how fantastic they were. Is anyone into any of this? What do you like about it. If your disgusted by it feel free to also tell me why. I want male and female opinions. Kaylan
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  • I am extremely dominant and degrading in the bedroom. Whenever I have sex with a girl, the foreplay will start by me kissing, licking and biting her all over. Then I start rubbing the flesh around her clit, to the left and right of it but not directly touching it. I do this until the girl tells me to touch her clit, then I'll say "I want to hear you beg for it." If her begging is good enough, I'll touch her clit and say "you really want it, don't you slut?" and as I rub her clit I say "you really are a dirty little slut." Next I'll pull out the vibrator, turn it on, lightly massage her clit with it, and touch the outside of her vagina lips with it, but I won't stick it inside her. I make her beg for that, and when she does, I stick it in and tell her that she's a whore. Then I make her say that she's a whore. Then I'll tell her: "Repeat after me: 'I want you to stick it inside me because I'm a dirty whore'". She'll say it, then I'll increase the speed and force while angling it upwards to hit her g-spot. I keep telling her she's a slut and a whore and a bitch, fucking her with the vibrator, making her tell me she's a slut/whore/bitch and stopping, turning her over and spanking her while rubbing her clit if she doesn't say it fast enough, until she comes. Then I'll go down on her. I can't talk much during this part, but at some point I'll stop and make her beg me to continue. Then I'll make her say she needs it because she's a worthless slut, and then I resume the oral sex, occasionally scratching her inner thighs with my fingernails and slapping them. When I give her oral, I mainly lick and suck her clit only, while I put two fingers in her pussy and press upwards and towards me to get her g-spot. After she comes from that, it's time for me to penetrate her. I make her beg for it, then I enter her. As I'm inside her, I'll call her stupid, worthless, dirty, filthy, a slut, a whore, a bitch, and sometimes when she's very near orgasm I might even call her a cunt or make her tell me she's one. This has led to my women having mind blowing orgasms. The most powerful orgasm I ever gave a girlfriend made her temporarily go blind for a few seconds (she literally said "I can't see, I can't see, I'm blind"), start shuddering and convulsing, and finally after it was over she started giggling like a little girl. I'm proud of that one, and that's the benchmark that I use to compare all the other orgasms I give women to.

  • in my opinion, there's nothing wrong with that at all. As you say, it's all about desire and CONSENT.

    I'm dominant, and I can't really change that, but I can and have adjusted my behavior for the woman I'm with. I've been with girls just like you, who love to be dominated and humiliated within the context of sex (and know that it's just roleplay and that I don't actually feel that way about her) and it's completely fine. I've also been with women who would hate that so much that they'd break up if I did that to them - so I didn't.

    The point is to make each other happy and satisfied. I'm always going to be dominant, but the humiliation and roughness isn't a "must" for me - but if the girl likes it, I'm definitely down to make it happen. Mostly, I just want us both to get as much pleasure as we can.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Absolutely. For me, what goes on inside the bedroom is separate from what goes on outside. Outside the bedroom I expect respect, but in bed I expect basically the opposite.

    • LOL can you tell me what the opposite consist of.

    • Being degraded, tied up, used and abused, called names, treated like I'm a dispensable whore, basically.

    • That's hot I love it. How do you let him use and abuse you? Do you let him fuck you anyway he wants? So you like getting spanked and smacked around?

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  • I like being dominate a bit more but being submissive is alright as well. I'm fine with both tbh. I'm down for some Fifty Shades Of Grey.

    • So are you dominant right men or women?

    • I'd ❤️ to talk to you by the way if guy want to pm me.

  • I don't really like when the guy want to be too dominant, and dirty talking is a huge turn off for me

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  • Wow I love the amount of detail you use. Are you actually into this or did you just write it to get either a huge positive or negative reaction from it?

  • Id enjoy that theoretically, however, in reality, I would never be able to do that to someone or at least not to the degree that they want. Id be too scared to hurt them! I mean, thats the person I love I could never even act like I hated or disrespected them! I wouldn't find it demeaning though, I guess Id be able to work through it.

  • U sound like the perfect girl, nice feet too I bet?

  • The sad thing is, it's mostly women wanting to be dominated and men wanting to dominate.
    No luck for guys like me :(
    Well I could search on fetish sites or something, but very little luck to meet a nice girl who is by chance into dominating / humiliating men.

  • Hate it

  • If enjoy doing that with the right partner.

  • My girlfriend likes to be dominated, she likes to be choked and slapped. ;-)

  • i like gentle femdom not degradation

  • Submissive women are the best 👍

  • I like to do all those things to a girl, but only if she likes it obviously. But if she does then it really turns me on more than most other things. :D

    • Is there anything else even more hardcore you like!

    • Probably,, I dunno. I'd like to tie a girl up and gag her and force her to orgasm with a vibrator, lol. But I don't really like stuff that's very "master/slave" or "punishment" oriented I think it's stupid.

    • Speaking of forced orgasms. I'm usually not that dominant with men but sometimes I like to tie a guy up (restrain his hands and feet) and then give him a blowjob or handjob. The thing is that after he cums in my mouth or wherever I will keep on sucking and jerking him... even faster when he gets all sensitive. He will shake and throb and beg me to stop won't I won't and eventually he will cum again. It's intense. Would you be into that?

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  • Love it. Had a friends with benefits I degraded a lot. She loved it too.

  • Yes i like being dominated and being the dominant one in bed. It gets me all wild up especially when she's biting me or digging her nails into me

  • I love this kind of sweet little girl damn come to Georgia

    • as I see you don't answer an older dominant Southern gentleman that understands everything you talk about

  • I love it.

  • Id love it if the girl actually knew how to do it.

    • Like you want to be dominated by a girl?

    • Yes. Assuming she knows how

    • Well I'm more of a sub lol but I could do some things to you that you might like and not like at the same time 😘

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  • iam very into slaaping the face, i am never did tought!

  • I like to be dominated and talked down to

  • I would love this (as long as she wore latex) to be dominated by a woman. She could tie me up and do almost anything to me or make me do anything (facesitting, etc)

  • Submission is a woman's natural state and woman are happiest when submitting to the will of their husband or father. But often you must enforce your will upon her to submit. The rise in feminism has left a lot of women unhappy in life and 1 out of 4 women are on anti depressants.
    Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me. She is happier now sumitting to my will and being the good helper the lord intended

    • lol is any if this real or are you just trying to turn me on?

  • Nope, I prefer to be dominant.

    • Do you preferred to dominate man or women are both

    • Sorry I'm driving and using voice to text

    • Only men, I'm straight.

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