Is my boyfriend bisexual/gay for receiving anal from another man?
I had a suspicion that he might have engaged in some form of receptive anal before because he has a small growth on the outside of his anus which looked to me like an hpv wart but he quickly denied it being anything when I asked him. I started asking him questions & the answers I was getting seemed like he was bs'ing me.
He said it happened "once or twice" & that he was the receptive partner each time. He claimed it happened after he got divorced from his first wife & he thought no other woman wanted him. I curiously asked if he gave the guy oral & he done another 5 sec pause & said no. I sensed he was becoming less open & began lying because of my reaction. I didn't mean for him to feel attacked, I was just stunned because everything seemed to make sense now.
He hides his phone, I've seen him checking out men a few times, he becomes very upset & acts super macho every time a gay subject on TV or something is brought forward. I don't know what to think anymore. He says it was only a one time thing & that he didn't want to try it again. I just wish he'd tell me if that'd what he really likes so I don't have to constantly wonder anymore.
I guess it bothers me so much because I think there is a huge difference between having a fantasy, wanting the real thing & just feeling lonely. I know plenty of guys who wouldn't go receive anal from another guy because they think no one wants them. So my question is, could my boyfriend possibly be bi/gay or am I just bugging out about a past experience even though I have suspicions he's still very open to doing it again given the opportunity?
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