My girlfriend lied about her sexual partner count?
She answered that casual sex is absolutly not for her and that she had 5 sexual partnef who were relationships. God, i was happy when i heard that, even if she had now 7 years full sex of sex experiences and therefore was very sexual in the past i wasn't jealous because she loved them at the time and was with them and aslong as they werent casual i had no problems with it.
Now then we began being exclusiv. Now we have dated 6 months and we still hadn't had sex because i didn't felt ready. Now at a nice evening with her friends there was a guy. My girlfriend acted very different towards him, almost as if she couldnt stand him, then i asked her friend what happaned between them and she told me that they had a friends with benefits relationship going for 3 months and it didn't ended well. Well, great shit, now i found out that she lied about her past.
I asked her again the same qustions. Suddenly it was 11 sexual partners, 5 relationships, 1 friends with benefits with this guy and 5 other ons. God, i was so angry and dissapointed in her. I never expected that she would lie to me, especially about sth this important for me. It really hurts.
Not only has she lied but she had casual sex in the past, the one thing i would see as a dealbreaker.
Now that i have very big feelings for her i found out about the one thing that i won't accept. I really like her a lot but i would have never dated her if i would have known the truth. Now i dont want to have sex with her, i dont want to lose my virginity to her and i won't have sex with her ever. But i still love her as a person even if i never will have sex with her.
Why do girls do tnis?
How should i behave now?
What should i do?
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