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Best Guy Friend Masturbated While I Was In Bed Next To Him?

I'll start this out by saying that I've been friends with this guy for years, we've been through relationships, shitty fights, colleges in different states, the full Monty. He drives me crazy, but I love and appreciate him and I'm 90% positive that he feels the same way about me. I'm not weirded out by the idea that he masturbates. It's a totally healthy thing that everyone does. I don't feel unsafe or distrust him. I'm just confused as to why he did it while I was sleeping right there next to him, with my legs touching him.

The backstory to this, is that a couple of weeks ago we went on a trip with a small group of friends. All of the rooms were filled up in the house that we rented, so he and I decided to sleep in the same bed. It wasn't weird, we've done it before. We all stayed up really late that night, so by the time we went to bed we were exhausted. I literally threw on some sweats and crawled under the covers, and he came in a few minutes later. I was falling asleep, half dreaming, when I heard something and felt the bed start moving a little. I opened my eyes, wide awake, and was confused for a few minutes, until I realized what was going on. I was so surprised that I didn't say or do anything. I just laid there and tried to go back to sleep. He didn't try to touch me or anything, just went to sleep normally, and I was so tired that I passed out too. This happened the next day as well.

He's my best friend. We are definitely JUST FRIENDS. He's never indicated that he has ever been interested in being anything more. However, that being said, I'm sort of dense when it comes to how other people feel about me. It took me honestly two years before I was absolutely sure he even liked me as a person, and I still worry that his family dislikes me after almost 7 years. I'm not angry, I'm not going to stop speaking to him, I'm just confused and looking for someone else's take on this.

*Neither of us are in a relationship. If that was the case, I'd be livid.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Some guys will do that. Especially if they think they can get away with it. Perhaps he thought you were sleeping and needed to release himself. Then again, you should also consider that some guys have to release themself once a day, and perhaps this was the only time he could do so. Another thing to consider, just having a girl sleeping in the same bed can be enough to turn a guy on as well. He could be thinking about you while masturbating. In the end, if he was horny at the time, at least he can control himself and chose to masturbate to relieve himself instead of doing things most perverts would do, if you know what I mean.

    • This is what I was thinking, that it's just his routine and I just happen to be there, and he just chose to do his business in a weird place haha

  • either routine or he's turned on by a girl in bed with him. What I can guarantee, hand on heart is guys see friendships with girls differently to girls. There's usually a part of them that's interested in sex and finds their friend cute. If you were to straight out ask if he wanted to have sex at a party or whatever it wouldn't be surprising for them to enthusiastically agree. Girls generally think of their guy friends in a more platonic way but I assure you, we don't generally think like that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Probably thought you were asleep, the late night need hit, you were a woman in bed for inspiration. It probably wasn't creepy or personal

    • Honestly what I'm thinking too

  • He probably thought you were asleep. If it's bothering you then just say something to him about it.

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  • It sounds like he's definitely into you. Was he drunk when he did this? If not, it'd be very unusual. The only thing I can think of is that he's liked you for a long time and is doing this to let you know he likes you.

  • Yes I would masturbate if you were next to me! I would also hope you would catch me & watch me blowing my load & maybe join me!! I have done this with a few girls in the same bed with me!!

  • That's his routine; he cannot relax otherwise.

  • he likes to be more then just friends

  • maybe he lijes ya girl!

  • so many possibilities here, best you just ask him.

  • Are you friends with benefits?

    • Oh no haha. Definitely not

    • Oh ok. You don't like him romantically?

  • he played the danger wank game and lost
    I think it's quite funny 😂

  • next time u sleep next to him take ur panties off and back your ass up to his dick and wiggle it a little bit. if he doesn't fuck you then he's a fucking weirdo

  • You gotta nut when you gotta nut

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