Why am I only attracted to fit/muscular men?

Of course personality is the most important thing, I would never date a jerk or someone I'm not compatible with, but for me, body plays the biggest part in physical attraction. I wish I wasn't that picky with body types but I can't help it. I'm also fit by the way.
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  • There could've been a number of events/experiences that have altered/conditioned what you find attractive/appealing in the opposite sex. It goes all around from media to social to personal.

    I personally think the evolution/biology reason is fucking stupid, if we're speaking in context that you live in a civilized society where what it takes to survive is to have money.

  • It's one of your fetishes. No need to apologize. That said, I wouldn't be surprised if at some point a guy who's not a hunk physically sets off the chemistry bomb for you and all that goes out the window.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I actually prefer body/height over face.
    Like a man with a good physique and height but average face is hot.
    Much better than a skinny pretty boy

    • How tall do u like guys?

    • @Galaxyguy96 around 1m80 is great I d love taller if I can like 1m93 1m95

    • Im sorry. Im American. What is that in feet/inches? 😂😂

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  • You have a right to like what you like. If you like that certain category of men, you go girl! As long as you’re happy

  • Athletic men look better. I prefer fit men too. Fat and chubby men turn me off.

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  • It's evolutionarily desirable.

  • The real question is why wouldn't you be attracted to fit guys? That's obviously an attractive feature.
    It's just a preference, don't see the problem with it.

  • Lol that's low standards.. I don't call that picky

  • From an evolutionary perspective, it makes sense for you to be attracted to fit and healthy men.

  • Who knows, athlete anon.

  • Big butt=lotta thrust.

  • Why? Because you've been exposed to fashion that has pushed fit as sexy

    Who knows if cavewomen preferred the ripped caveman over the slouchy caveman

  • It's just your preference

  • It's normal. I'm pretty muscular and most girls are attracted just like you are.

  • Your 'lizard brain' seeks out a protector. You can't negate thousands of years of biology. :)

    Money is nice too - it means he can provide for you and the 84 children you want to have with him.

    And you want him to be your emotional rock to weather all the storms of emotion swirling around in your head.

    I could go on, but you get the idea. Some of this stuff is hard-wired into your brain - it's just there but you're not sure why.

  • everyone noticas aperance plus you want someone that also cares for there body thats understandable

  • because that is your preference and if it ticks the box its a bonus

  • fit/muscular = healthy breeder and good genes for your children

  • Because it's healthy. you're healthy you want healthy kids you want him to be healthy.

  • evolution

  • most women where I live like chubbier men so being extremely fit like me doesn't get you any pussy

    • unless you have a very attractive face

  • Simple. Because you like muscular fit men.

  • Once they turn maybe 40 you won't be attracted to them anymore.

  • fitness is important to you

  • that muscles made you mind, he fucks so well. stamina and power.

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