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My husband wants to fuck with my cousin sister?

I need extreme motivation for this... because Im in too much stress... and feeling jealousy and wept all night. 😢 My cousin came yesterday and staying at my home for some days.. Last night, my hubby did all foreplay and physical romance with her... I was crying there. Please my friends all over the world. Please do motivate me that I can tolerate her. If I say NO to my hubby for this... He was being so so so rude and fighting behaviour with me. I can't leave him because Its a love marriage. Please I need motivation in this problem. Regards.
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  • It's a sad situation to be in mislehoor... I'm sorry about ur condition. You have nothing that you can possibly do other than either accept what happened and that it will continue to happen with her till he finds someone new. I'm sorry I'm being harsh but its the truth and people generally don't like to accept the truth. Our brain only allows what we like to hear reach us. Please try to be normal about the situation. Try to calm down about it. Try going the other way round. Be normal with your husband if u can't leave him. Don't talk about the girl anymore. Don'complain or cry about what aldredy happened (at least in front of him) . Try not to talk about it and avoid situations where you have to face ur sister. If she comes over... They r obviously going to do it. Accept that and try to go away out of the house.. have some alone time. Cry it out. Because I know its really hard what you are facing. Its going to be tough, but it has to be done. Give time, time to heal. Love yourself first. Pay more attention to your beauty , health and obviously you won't be able to sleep well. Try getting a lot of sleep and eat well. Make yourself so good that you yourself feel confidence and self esteeto the extent that your husband starts getting worried that you are so good that you are going to be take by someone else. Don't do for him , do it for yourself. Put yourself first.

    • ok dear. I will do that. Are u on insta?

    • I'm not on insta but yes I have been considering creating an account. I will let you know if I create an account. Don't worry. U will SURELY FIND a solution. Life has to go on with or without people. But be sure that you make a difference to someone's life. Don't let yourself down. Don't be low. Look in the mirror you are beautiful at heart. He really doesn't deserve you. Stop hating yourself and everyone else. Its not going to help you. Hard times will pass. Take your own time to heal. Don't fool urself into another relationship. It will fail as you will do it out of anger and the other will again only use you. Good times will be back again. -Love Sweety

    • thanks for motivating me. Sweety.

  • You sound deluded @mislehoor That is not love at all. He's gonna continue doing what he's doing and your cousins what kinda person is she? I hear you were forced into it and all but what's her excuse she could have said no. I'm sorry to say if you stand back and continue to let this happen then he won't stop. You say he loves you then tell him how you feel about it and if he really loves you like you say he does he'd stop

    • I hugged him today and wept a lot. But he said..."relax.. im not in love with ur cousin." what to do next?

    • Hmmm he shows no remorse at all. Until you don't put a stop to this like I said he will just continue.

    • yeah u r rite.

  • @mislehoor you are asking to motivate for the wrong thing. If you're independent girl then leave him. He is clearly fooling you in the name of love. This is not a movie that you should prove your love by let him f*** ur cousin. He is taking advantage of you.

    • yar but mujhe to ye karna par rha hai. main independent nahi hoon.. werna aisa hargiz na hone deti.

    • You have 2 options 1. Try to convince your cousin or tell your or her parents about this. How can a cousin ruin cousins life yaar. Its really very shameful. 2. You seems educated, u can get a job and kick that person our of your life otherwise he will make ur and ur cousins life hell. Today he is sleeping with your cousin there are chances he will sleep with other women too. You have to take stand. He is testing your love by breaking rules of real love. By accepting current situation you are motivating him to do the wrong things

    • Izzat ka problem ban jaye ga. Main stand nahi le sakti unke against. khandan me. izzat ka masla future tabah kar sakta hai. agar ye sex vex ka masla ghar me he solve ho jaye to izzat to bach jaye gi at least. If he wants me to prove my love... im ready but itni strong nahi hoon. Main roi boht.. last nite. Acha dekhti hoon.. kya hota hai !

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Most Helpful Guys

  • You're husband is manipulations you into allowing him to cheat on you. That's not loving behavior, that's emotionally abusive behavior. You may not want to hear it, but the only thing that will actually be good for you is to dump his manipulative, cheating ass.

  • he's fucking your cousin sister and you allow it?
    and she allowed it?
    to hell with your hubby
    he got peanut for brain's
    he deserves to be lonely for the rest of his life that's not marriage its bondage

    • ok whatever you think it is. IM ONLY SUPPOSED TO LET HIM DO SEX WITH MY COUSIN.. I can't do anything else. otherwise I might have done it. I put. my question on this platform to get some. motivation. Everyone is just sharing their views about this problem... but no one is MOTIVATING me. Once he will be satisfied to see my sacrifice for him. He will be mine for the rest of life... I just need some. motivation guys.

    • you supposed to keep hold of your man you married him he's cheating on you with your approval there's no motivation in it how can you love someone who hurts you

    • how on earth do you think he isn't going to cheat on you AGAIN... lets put it this way, if you stay with him YOU are stupid. this is a QA site, were not here to motivate, were here to help give honest oppinions.

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  • So wait your husband cheated on you or what?

    • No he asked me. many times. to bring my cousin at our home for sex.. i always said no... and cried a lot. but no difference to him.. Even he became so much rude with me. I only need motivation... because i tolerated my hubby's rude and fighting behaviour for more than TWO YEARS. Now Im completely fucked up with his behaviour and want to let him do sex with her. but Its a forcefully act... my hubby's behaviour forced me. to do this for him... Please motivate me. 😢 im so stressed i cried all night.

    • girl what motivation do you need you allow someone to have sex with someone you love jeez mehn

    • This marriage is fucked up on so many levels. Please just divorce and leave. This is just a toxic environment to be in. You are young. Get out while you can.

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  • You're an idiot.

    • Not that easy to have a divorce in a country like Pakistan, you should know where she is coming from before calling her names.

    • @TheUglyMonk then that entire part of the world is full of idiots if that is somehow permitted and prohibit the spouse to leave their lame asses. 👀!!🤢🤢!!

    • @Errhh Once you get married your parents disown you and even if you come back "home" they'll tell you to go back to your spouse and you'll be stuck with him for the rest of your miserable life. Yes I agree that part of the world is full of idiots.

  • Some guys will take advantage of their wife, girlfriend people in general because they can they're bullies who think of their needs before anyone else. Don't be a sucker tell the jerk off gas up.

  • Where is the love in this marriage?

  • Confused is what I am.

  • Its a love marriage? Lol
    You think...

  • divorce him, if he doesn't treat you like his world and cheats on you infront of your face, then its not a "love marriage"

    • i told already i only need motivation.. I can't leave him HE IS MY LOVE.

    • and he is also cheating on you.

    • what a true lover can do. in such condition?😢

  • Do you live in a society that allows a man to have more than one wife?

    • he is just getting physical. with him... not want to marry. him.

    • he is just getting physical with my cousin sister. He doesnot wanna marry any other girl.

    • You didn't answer the question. Yes or no?

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  • it's a love marriage "he wants to fuck someone else"

    • It seems as it is not a love marriage. rite. but it was based on love. Im sure 😢

    • exactly... WAS, that 's in the past. I would either try one more time for a serious talk. In a relationship you should not cheat. And his way of reacting to his wife not being okay with sleeping with others, is one bad sign..

    • yes rite

  • Get out of that relationship. He's a piece of shit

  • Leave your husband right now,. you dont need a stupid asshole in your life

    • apnay ammi abbu ko batao ye baat, or apnay husband ke ammi abbu ko bhi batao ye baat Drama khara kardi Puray khaandan mai uske, lol

    • Kardo*

    • this will take this relation to break up. Thats what I don't wanna do.

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  • "a love marriage", does not cause you this pain and infidelity. this guy is abusing you.

  • hmm If he wants to bang her and not you then its time to leave him.

  • what made think he wants to fuck ur cousin sister?

    • sorry.. i didn't read entire thing before commenting.. you can leave him or do the same with other men infront of him.

    • no I will not do that. Just motivate me. to tolerate that girl with my hubby... please.

    • thats what i should do. otherwise u will feel bad when u see it again.. or else u talk to that girl and tell her to go away.. by the way , why are u feeling for ur hubby when he doesn't care? .. he is taking advantage of it.. be bold..

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  • How it is possible that you are at home and your hubby fucking your cousin sister.

    • qwerty

    • this is happening. 😢

    • So much wired

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  • Poor baby. 👐😭

  • What do you want us to say?
    Let him fuck her and enjoy the threesome? Weird haha

    • He don't want threesome. The problem is that IM GETTING JEALOUS AND FEELING SO UNWANTED AND DEPRESSED. How to take that condition in easy mode

    • It can't be taken in an easy mood, I'm afraid.. But you can try to change his mind.. Tell him that you want to sleep with his cousin and see his reaction

    • He would be so so angry.

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  • I'm sorry but there's no justifying it he cheated on you plain and simple clearly he wasn't thinking about you or how you'd feel at the time

  • follow me and we can pm

  • he is a horny bastard , your hubby ,
    but seriously I don't know, pretty screwd up situation

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