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Do you like to cuddle after sex?

Pretty simple question. Do you actually like I cuddle right after sex and do it on a regular basis. I love it but no one ever actually wants to. Usually as soon as we've both cum my partners want to immediately get up to go pee or jump in the shower to wash off all the bodily fluids and/or lube ruining the moment. I just want them to lay there with me while we catch are breath and before anyone puts their clothes back on so that we can both feel eachothers bodies against us. What are your thoughts?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I love it. I know most don't now days but for some reason I really find it to be a very important part of the experience. Thats one of the reasons why I like to ejaculate inside (assuming its safe to do so and she wants it) I can just stay inserted after and hold her, kiss her, whisper in her ear that I love her and how beautiful she is, fall asleep together while still connected, and so on. Its even nice to wake up together and start moving again for another round of intercourse, almost like a continuation after both bodies have been able to relax and recoup from the last round. But I love the display of love and affection during. Its something thats lacking now days.

    • I forgot something. Another reason I like to cuddle after is that amazing feeling of both bodies, feeling the post orgasmic aftershocks of her vagina squeezing over and over combined with my penis twitching over and over. That alone can last around 5 min. so its all the more amazing to hold one another and kiss/cuddle while thats taking place.

  • My experience is to just have a towel beneath you. When things are dripping, it will just get on the towel, which then can be moved. At some point I will get up to pee because the semen drying at the end of my penis will mean that later when I start to pee it will be diverted to anywhere but in the toilet for a bit.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Yeah, I do. I cuddle with my boyfriend after sex. We don't do it forever, but it's nice to just catch our breath and then get on with life. I think it's nice and I feel like it really helps bonding because it's a moment where you get to appreciate each others bodies instead of appreciating what said bodies can do for you in the heat of the moment.

  • I like a guy to cuddle... most dont...

    unless you wear them out.. then they will lay there exhausted and will let me cuddle...

    This means you have to get him to orgasm 2 times.. after time #2, he will be tired and just lay there.. good time to see if you can cuddle and get him ready to go a third time!!!

    • How do you get him to cum twice?

    • tbh the first time is to give him a bj... then spend a lot of time doing foreplay and most guys can get hard again in 15 to 60 mins... i gotta do a lot of "work" to get them hard. Then they last a long time riding me and most have to go hard and sweaty to get there. But the bj is important at first coz then i do all the work and he cums, then he still has energy for riding later... it's just most guys take a while to get that 2nd orgasm to finally hit... and the whole time i'm getting super nice boner city fun! If you want to talk more about specifics, PM me on here...

    • too many guys/pervs on here get weird on me if share too much on open opinions/questions.

  • We do!! I keep a warm wash cloth close by, wipe up any mess then snuggle up close to my man!! That's why sex makes most people feel closer to their lover, so that's why snuggling feels so natural after sex!! Often leads to more sex!! = }

    • That's not a bad idea. I mostly date other girls but regardless if the gender they always want to get up and pee and then get dressed at the same time. I also get dry easily so use lube which a lot of guys would want off them right away. Would a cloth get rid of it all?

    • Most if not all of it, baby wipes are also handy to have around to get lubes and stuff off of each other.

    • Ok thanks never thought of that. It doesn't bother me as much as it does for my partners. Personally I don't know what the big deal about a little stickyness is.

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  • Very much. I'm a huge fan of the after glow.

  • OMG yes, that's one of the best parts of sex. We cuddle and talk for a while, then get cleaned up, and then if it's bedtime we cuddle again until we fall asleep.

    • That's what I want with someone.

  • Yes to cuddling. It doesn't have to be the love of your life either. You can cuddle after sex with anyone. My ex husband used to shower right after though. I hated that

  • I love it and I think it is the second best feeling in the world! :)

  • I do, but I do like to go bathe too. We'll cuddle for a few minutes and then go bathe but I don't find that it ruins the moment, it feels just as nice after I'm clean too:P

    • lol I like to just lay there and my head on his chest and just feel his cum start to drip out of me while he runs his fingers through my hair. Or if it was with another girl we can just hold eachother. Showing is ok but I always feel cold afterward and it just takes away from the moment I think.

  • That's the best part!

  • honestly, they just want a sexual relationship with you and not a romantic one. Guys will cuddle with you after sex if they have romantic feelings for you.

    • Not necessarily. A purely sexual relationship can also involve lots of cuddling afterwards

  • I like to hold each other for at least a *little* bit. It would feel weird to finish and then just get up and leave right away.

  • yeah its best thing after sex.
    and before sex lol if you know what i mean

    • Before sex is usually an excuse to get our hands all over eachother. I usually date other girls. If I'm the inner spoon I know that after a few minutes of her kissing my neck I'll feel her hand down my pants. I want to do it afterward just to feel the closeness with someone. Everyone always gets up to pee then gets dressed at the same time.

  • Of course. sweaty cuddling with heavy breathing is the best

  • Well it's become business as usual now
    I suggest taking some time off from having sex...

  • cuddling aftersex is a big yes for me

  • Nope. When the deed is done I'm up and out.

    • That's mean lol.

  • i love to cuddle - but after sex (&15 min cuddling) i often run to the toilette to pee - and after that i go back to cuddle🤗 - and have sex again.
    however my most awesome sexexperience was cuddlesex in the sauna for 3 hours 😍🙄😇

  • feels nice

  • Cuddling is so cute! It shows a lot of affection and I don't feel like a sex toy after.

  • i think every one dose

  • If she doesn't cuddle after, I'll break up. 😂

  • I never had sex before but I do like cuddling and after masturbating you get tired and I would definitely love to just put my arms around someone when I am tired.

  • Hell yeah. If you play your cards right it could lead to round 2!

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