My boyfriend said "you're way more sexual than I thought you would be!" after our first time having sex as a couple.
why are guys so shocked by this?
Most Helpful Guy
because a good portion aren't and only use sex as a means of getting their way in a relationship to leverage power against him. that is why we're shocked a lot of the time we have to decide whether or not she even actually wants to do it or if she does it for you3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
Because they want to feel like they are raping you, they don't want you to want it.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE