Do any other girls like to give or receive a rimjob (analingus) ?

Question

Ok so kind of embarrassing but I really like to get by booty while eaten. My ex from a few years ago was really into it and did it all the time. I remember the first time I was in my back with my legs up in the hair while she was eating me out when she pushed by legs back further and moved her tongue a little further down. At first I was shocked and squirmed and felt really ticklish but then it felt realllllly fucking good. Like not as intense as having my clit licked bit something about it was almost better then getting head vaginally especially because I could get myself off at the same time. Anyways we broke up and I haven't had it since. I've been to embarrassed to ask any of my other partners? How should I bring this up? I know with one of my previous recent partners I kept pushing her head down further and telling her lower but she didn't take the hint. If your into this what do you do to get it started? Thanks.

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

As for the haters whose counter-argument amounts to "ewwww, like, guhh-ROSSSS" — If you have acceptable personal hygiene, that's a non-issue.
If you're still in the stone age and wiping yourself with ONLY DRY toilet paper after you go no. 2 (... srsly I just fucking can't even)... then, get with the program and switch to Cottonelle wipes, and/or a Japanese-style bidet attachment for your toilet (s) at home. Thenceforth ignore the haters.

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As for yr question —
For MOST women, having yr legs pinned back too far is less than ideal, from the standpoint of pleasure/orgasms.
Most women have an easier time achieving orgasm with a COMBINATION of /1/ some sort of clitoral stimulation, **AND** /2/ STRAIGHT HIPS — or at least close — and/or a thrusting motion with straight hips on one end of the thrust.

So, what you should do, is... turn over. And fuck a pillow. Or a couch arm, or any other suitable semi-rigid item that exerts diffuse pressure over yr the area innervated by yr clitoris, when you fuck it. (I know, that's just an irresistibly sexy description, isn't it? 😂)

And tell yr lover to come and fuckin' GET IT. Tasty breakfast in bed (... or breakfast bent over the couch arm, or... yh you get me), while you get YOURSELF off.
🖤🖤🖤

Not only will YOU be more likely to get off — and harder, ohhhhh gurrlllll sooooo much harder, oh fuck yeah — but, the geometry will work better, too.
On yr back with yr knees pulled all the way up, yr lover still needs to be in a weird combination of body-down-but-face-up for that to work well.
If you're bent over humping yr favorite inanimate object, tho? Just by getting behind you, yr lover will be PERFECTLY positioned to enjoy EVERYTHING from yr clit all the way to yr butt. And back. Long slow deep strokes.
Oh and — also unlike just lying on yr back with yr legs pulled up — you can slam right back into yr lover's face. If you like twerking? Oh gurlll you'll suddenly discover that twerking has a very, very practical purpose indeed.

And then when yr lover reaches forward and pulls yr hair — or makes you put yr arms together behind yr back, and hooks her/his arm through yours and pulls nice and hard — mhhhh oh sweet fucking hell yesssss omgggggg it's just WAY too easy. Way too easy to just keep getting off, over and over and over again, so fast that it all blends together into one big long continuous streak of ohfuckI'mprettysureIsoldmysoulforthis.

#getit

pretty-kitty · Accepted Answer

I like to give and I like to receive!! With the giving part I wouldn't do it with just anyone, it's something I would only do with someone I'm really comfortable with. I've never had to ask a guy to do it, some guys just go for it and I just lay back and enjoy!

If you're uncomfortable just straight up asking I would either suggest that you do it to her, see how she reacts and then hopefully that will prompt her to do it back. Another option would be to maybe chuck on some porn where they're doing that and ask her if she has tried it before, doesn't even have to be porn maybe even just find an article or a video where someone is talking about it and use that as a means to start a conversation, you could gauge her opinion on it by her response.

Warmapplecrumble · Accepted Answer

I really enjoy it ♥  And tip on how to ask the guy: Get in the position below and keep moving till your ass reaches his mouth :-p...

Wonderer89 · Accepted Answer

I've never had to ask, they've always just gone for it haha. If I was going to ask though I'd just go for it, the worst they can say is no.  "So how do you feel about eating ass"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You need to find the person very attractive more than anything, the cleanliness of their arse is irrelevant if they turn you on enough to bring out a dirty side. If you are in a relationship with a person who really gets your blood pumping, you can't resist them, then fucking make use of/appreciate that fact. You'll never get bored of them (alot less likely to stray) and will always be open to new ideas to keep the sex interesting. Literally any proposition the person makes will be acknowledging and considered, anything, as long as it's with them
Licking a girl's (one springs to mind) arse moments after she's had a messy shit and hasn't done a good job of cleaning the evidence of it's happening wouldn't phase me in the fucking slightest. The idea of not being able to help yourself, so much so that you'd lick their arse clean and enjoy doing it is a massive turn up on. Being used by the person to perform acts they enjoy but few enjoy performing would be sweet, as long as she looks the part (hypothetical situation that emphasises my attraction for that person, hypothetical)

ats100494 · Accepted Answer

I love giving and receiving! The only thing you can really do is ask or if you're scared to then keep finding ways to hint at it

the_heicha · Answer

Funny how no one actually replied to your question 😂

if you've been in a relationship with someone for a long time so you were able to build up a lot of trust and acceptance for each others desires, you can ask your partner if she/ he has any special desires in sex she'd like to try or fantasies even if it sounds weird. Then after they answered you can tell them yours!

wingattebaby16 · Answer

i dont like it... gross and stinky

Carley99 · Answer

just talk to her after you both have sex and your cuddling ask her if she would / ever given a rimjob?

QueenofCups · Answer

I've never tried it.

Kait444 · Answer

I love them and I suppose just ask your partner if they did be willing to try it

abundantlyrich · Answer

I can clean up after myself but there's no way, im gonna lick shit

reptocarl · Answer

My girlfriend loves doing both

VirginiaBeachBum · Answer

I love having it done and have had a few partners who liked it, too. If I'm unsure a new partner will like it, I just let my tongue wander down during oral and see how she responds.

Eve_Up · Answer

Are you lesbian!

uncommongiraffe · Answer

I really want to give my man a rimjob! I love his butt so much I just want to eat it for hours!

darklandrunner · Answer

that's pretty hot. I used to do it with an ex of mine, I called it the Alfred special I would stick a finger or two in her vag depending on if she was opened up or not that day, massage her clit with my other hand and tongue in the booty hole she used to cum intensely sometimes three or four times. I just like to pleasure my woman, Just writing this makes my cock swollen and fat. Long story short don't be embarrassed with what you like JUST DO IT! I think it's kinky and sexual most people wouldn't do it but it is what it is.

Angel_Enemy · Answer

Most girls won't let u rim

koltepreetam · Answer

i do lick her ass and she loves it also... if you wanna try then meet us...

johnmichaei · Answer

I would just put my ass in her face if I wanted it but with me you wouldn't have to do that I'm going to lick your ass anyway

Philyouup · Answer

Love Rim Jobs, Giving and getting! No sense eating a pussy with out getting a little spice with it! I agree on the feeling, I could literally have my ass eaten all night... lucky for me my girlfriend loves it too.. And she's DAMNED lucky i love eating it so much ! LOL

LovelyLindsay · Answer

I love both.

normielover6969xD · Answer

I would love to do it. Just clean your asshole first

Blake0048 · Answer

I love giving and receiving it. Its really really hot. But its something you typically have to ease into I don't just up and ask about it on thr first date

abc--123 · Answer

I love giving rimjobs. Sit on her face and move around so she's licking all over the place then move further so her tongue hits your asshole. See how she reacts