How to deal with ex-bf being larger?

[Anonymous]

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We've all heard of or experienced the infamous ex boy friend has a bigger penis than you predicament. In my case, my girlfriend and i were just having a conversation and the topic of sex came up and I proceeded to ask her who was bigger and she initially said "what a weird q" and avoided answering. After a long struggle she finally said its about the same. Boys being boys, I didn't buy it and pushed her buttons on it and she eventually told me, "Not that it matters but from what I remember his is slightly bigger/longer" I thought that it wouldn't bother me cause I've been both sides of the party with other girls in the past. But it did bother myself a lot and in particular that she said "slightly" my issue being was she trying to defend my feelings or actually being straight up honest even tho i had to drag it out of her. Now the predicament of how girls who usually are asked that question, they would follow up by saying no you're just fine or perfect for me or that were better in bed. Whilst our sex life is very satisfying and overall very good, with her mentioning I do very well, in this situation she didn't say anything to stroke my ego or make it better, making me feel as tho im only second best to her ex. Although when i asked her who gives her better oral sex she said "Straight up honestly, you're better but he made me cum more often" Which put me under more confusion and stress. I do understand this is all very childish and I usually dont care but i did this time mainly due the fact her and her ex broke up due to the fact they were doing somewhat long distance and she couldnt give him enough attention so she broke up with him cause he deserved better. So where does that leave me? Just a side note, I never had issues with my size, being adequately endowed and I am also a nymphomaniac. Please any advice on how to deal with this particular issue would be greatly appreciated.

[shreya_shiry]

my boyfriend asked me same question I told him to shut up n don't ever ask questions like that ( my answer was he is much better than my ex)
still its not right thing to do. no need to compare yourself with ur partners ex. n usually girls answer is her current partner is better not because he is actually better but its right thing to say ( because girls know how insecure guys are about this stuff n we don't want to hurt our guy)
you asked wrong question and her choice to be honest was wrong move ( its my personal opinion)
I suggest you to stop asking questions like this n concentrate on loving her n don't feel she thinks about you as second best. she is with you n thats what matters.

[Poppykate]

Why are you worried? She is with you! She says that her ex is slightly larger. 'Slightly' in my book would mean an insignificant difference. In fact, I would guess that you are about the same. You probably had to push her on this issue, because it's insignificant to her.

[wiintrr]

That's the type of question you don't ask because you will never be ready for the answer. There's no issue really.

[BoostedST]

These damn penis questions never end.

Do men ALWAYS want the biggest breasts/butt they can get? No. Some prefer a whole lot less.

Do women all have the same size vag? No they do not. Just because you can fit a forearm in it doesn't mean that's what they want either.

You're putting your girl in a bad place, forcing her to answer shit questions that either A you won't like the answer or B you won't believe her. Stop asking! Get over it! Work on being the best lover you can and just be happy with what you got. I promise you some dude out there has something smaller. Too many guys watching porn thinking you need a huge dick to get a girl off.

[cloudVibration]

she'll go back to the other guy once he's free n not seeking a girlfriend. he might be w someone else now, but she might be the player. she might like to hope around too (which is unattractive w majority of women.)

[Anonymous]

It seems like you're pretty insecure about this and insistent on comparing yourself to him. Maybe she wasn't comparing the two of you at all, but now that you have made her answer so many questions about "who's better", she is thinking that way.